The 12-Steps Just Don’t Work For Me. I Just Don’t Fit In
Dr. Rob and Tami discuss what an addict can do if the 12-step program just isn’t for them. Should they stop going? Should they keep white-knuckling it? Tami offers resources for those who feel very out of place at these particular meetings. When it comes to recovery, getting the help you need and doing so correctly is the most important step in the process.
TAKEAWAYS:
[:35] I noticed my SA and other SA men do not have healthy male friendships. Is this normal?
[4:15] If these unhealthy female relationships make you uncomfortable, you need to voice your concerns.
[6:45] My SA wants guarantees from me that I’ll still be with him once he enters into a program. How do I handle this?
[11:00] Every therapist says addiction isn’t about the sex, however, my addict says otherwise. What do you think, Dr. Rob?
[14:30] Why do addicts have intimate avoidant attachment issues?
[18:05] I don’t seem to fit into the 12-Step program but I still go anyway. Is there any chance I can find integrity without attending these particular meetings?
[24:55] What does a healthy sexual relationship look like in a married couple?
[27:40] If you’re a betrayed spouse, please read Dr. Rob’s book Prodependence. It will help clarify any questions you might have.
RESOURCES:
Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com
Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss
Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss
Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss
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