Boldly Becoming You

Tasha Skillin

The Boldly Becoming You Podcast is your invitation to become who you were born to be. Underneath the layers of rules and expectations you have adopted over your lifetime, in an effort to connect and be accepted, you’ve lost much of who you were when you entered this world. During our time here on the podcast, I will call on you to answer that whisper from your inner wisdom that you have been shushing for years and begin the redesign of your life. In reality, there are no Universal rules about what is right and wrong or good and bad in parenting, partnership, friendship, your money, your health, spirituality, etc. It’s about what is aligned with your purpose...and what is not. You deserve all you want and I'm committed to passing along everything I learn or find that will help set you free. Thanks for being here. read less
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Episodes

Ep 217 Waiting for the other shoe to drop
Apr 7 2024
Ep 217 Waiting for the other shoe to drop
I wish I knew that part of healing and actually creating the life you want to experience - with joy, attunement, connection, authenticity and feeling safe in the space you exist in - wasn't all gamor and ease. There is a period of adjustment that I wasn't expecting and in this episode my intention is to pass along this lesson to you, to enable you to move through it with less overwhelm and more ease. When your perspective filter has been set to "what is the worst possible scenario? and what do I need to do to prevent it or at the least, prepare for it?" ...it's really hard to see and receive the goodness that accumulates as you do the work of boldly becoming you. It takes practice, knowing what to do in the transition period and genuine safe support. This is part of the healing journey humans cannot do alone - it's simply not how we're all wired.  But knowing what's ahead and how you can navigate the swamp of accumulating the new evidence to see how safe, and lovely, your life has become can make it a shorter journey, I believe. I would love to hear if this episode resonated with you. Do you have a hard time experiencing the joy and seeing the goodness, despite it being right there in front of you? Do you find yourself constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop? You're not broken, and it's not that something is wrong with you. You just need some practice clocking the safety in the new reality you've been creating.  Tag @rulesandrebellion if you share this on social, it means a lot to me, and it helps get these ideas to other people, which helps our community grow with more support and attunement. If you want help in navigating this swampy healing journey, you can schedule a clarity call to chat to see if we're a good fit.
Ep 209 2024 Word of the Year and How to Use It
Jan 17 2024
Ep 209 2024 Word of the Year and How to Use It
I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but almost all of the 2024 new year content on social media is basically gone. That’s because all of that “New Year, New You” crap is all based on the idea of having everything PERFECTLY mapped out all before January 1st. At R & R, we know that expecting yourself to have your entire year perfectly planned and ready to go by the end of December is based on a bunch of arbitrary rules that throws perfectionists into anxiety fueled fight/flight survival mode.  You’ve got a real life and rarely, if ever, does it line up with a calendar.  Today's episode is all about picking a word/intention for the year. It came out mid-month because you deserve the time and grace to join the party when you are ready and able.  The intention behind picking a word of the year is to have a mental filter to align yourself and your actions with. With that chosen word, you create a guiding principle to keep coming back to, and make decisions with, no matter what kind of weird shit happens between now and 12 months from now. Picking a word for the year isn’t a brand new concept, but…do you actually know how to use your word of the year so that it's not just some woowoo exercise you forget about in a week? In this episode we talk about what our words are and why we chose them, but also what the hell to do with them next.  DM us on IG with your word so we can celebrate with you! And if you want to use this word as a spring board to create a year that you become the boldest, truest version of you, book your clarity call here today.
Ep 202 She almost threw in the towel...
Nov 9 2023
Ep 202 She almost threw in the towel...
Nell was fed up with her business being so hard, waking up with her heart racing, pressure in her chest and flushed with anxiety and panic as she launched into action to get her business WORKING. Her confidence was on a roller coaster, depending on how her social media content was performing, and she was angry, flooded with emotion and was close to throwing in the towel despite having a solid foundation of engaged and aligned followers AND having had genuine success in selling her courses and programs in thepast. Nell's post-concussion syndrome, ADHD, fluctuating hormones from her monthly cycle and chronic dysregulation had her stressed and anxious, operating in full-on masculine energy, draining her and leaving no room for inspiration. But Nell joins us in today's episode to talk about her transformational experience in our 5 Essential Pivots program. She talks about how she found her footing, the new relationship that has her glowing, how she feels about her business today and her exciting next season of expansion. 👉🏼 You can check out Nell here and make sure to follow her on Tiktok and Instagram. Book your complimentary clarity call with Brandon and myself here to chat about your next season of transformation.   Share this with people you love and on your social media if you found value in this episode. Check out our links page for free resources and on events, as it is updated regularly. Check out Habit Magic and the Boldly Becoming You Workshop Follow me on Instagram: @rulesandrebellion Follow me on Tiktok: @coachtashaskillin And check out all the ways to work with us here: www.rulesandrebellion.com