Why You've Not Met Your Person - Matthew Hussey

Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal

Apr 18 2024 • 1 hr 31 mins

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Matthew Hussey is one of the world's leading dating experts and a New York Times Bestselling author who has helped over 10 million people get the love life of their dreams.

In this interview turned coaching session we'll discuss his new book, "Love Life", the challenges of finding love, how to handle other people’s emotional responses and the importance of setting boundaries.


(00:00) Intro

(1:15) Welcome, Matthew

(4:05) Do men and women have the same challenges when looking for love?

(10:15) Can you choose who to be attracted to?

(17:06) “Life mountains”

(26:35) Question your instincts

(30:20) Masculine vs feminine energy

(37:40) Boundaries

(46:00) Parents vs partner

(1:00:17) Duty and obligation to parents

(1:11:40) Putting my needs first

(1:23:30) Being responsible for someone else’s feelings

(1:28:00) About finding love


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