S2EP3 - Parenting and Writing: Practicalities and Possibilities with KJ Dell'Antonia

Postpartum Production

19-04-2023 • 49 mins

“The thing that has not changed for me is the need to protect the time that I need to achieve my creative goals. But the biggest barrier is [that] there's always more to do in that busy household. So you have to make a concerted effort to set aside that time.” ~ KJ Dell’Antonia

In this episode, Kaitlin is joined by KJ Dell’Antonia, the New York Times best-selling author of The Chicken Sisters, In Her Boots, How to Be a Happier Parent, and the forthcoming Playing the Witch Card in a compelling conversation about the intersection of caregiving, creative practice, and capitalism production, and the impressive journey KJ has taken in navigating those roles.

A former editor of the New York Times' Motherload blog, and cohost of The #AmWriting podcast, KJ lives in Lyme, New Hampshire, with her husband and four children, and she has to go outside every day or else she and her dogs will go slightly insane.


KJ and Kaitlin talked about:

  • How KJ navigates the practicalities of juggling caregiving and creative practice and how she writes about parenting without disrespecting her children's private lives.
  • The challenges of parenting while pursuing creative goals and how to find a balance between the two.
  • KJ's methodical approach to creativity and the importance of setting achievable goals.
  • How to identify your own unique creative process and stay productive and happy with the work you do.
  • The importance of finding dedicated thinking and working time for creative goals, despite the busyness of household life, and the need to protect that time.
  • Finding balance in motherhood and creativity without compromising authenticity and finding real happiness.


More about KJ Dell’Antonia:

Website: https://kjdellantonia.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kjda/

The #AmWriting podcast: https://amwriting.substack.com/


Pre-order your copy of Playing the Witch Card: https://bookshop.org/a/86159/9780593713792


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