In this podcast of My Inner Torch I recount a personal experience of being in a relationship for 23 years and realizing it lacks fulfillment and intimacy. I delve into the challenges of being with someone who exhibits traits of a covert narcissist, discussing the psychological impact, stress, exhaustion, and disconnection from the world. I share a recent experience of a conversation with my wife. I emphasize the difficulty of detaching from such relationships and encourage recognizing dysfunctional relationships. I also touch on experiences related to narcissistic and borderline abuse, highlighting the shift from love bombing to a ruptured relationship.