'Principals, you can control the emotional temperature of your schools by not buying into the desire of those who employ you to make you afraid.....' says Jane Caro, a woman known for saying what's on her mind. Her low-boredom threshold level has seen her embrace many careers; she is a novelist, lecturer, mentor, social commentator, columnist, workshop facilitator, speaker, broadcaster and award-winning advertising writer.  Jane also has strong opinions on private schools and wonders why parents feel compelled to select their children's social groups.  'It's all about that bling, pushing the prestige and glamorous and brand private...'