Find Your Feminine Fire

Amanda Testa, Sex, Love + Relationship Coach

Are you a high achieving woman ready to have more energy and sexual desire again, but feel stuck because you are too busy,  feel overwhelmed, and don’t want one more thing on your “to do” list? Congratulations brave one, The Find Your Feminine Fire podcast is for you. In this podcast, renowned Sex and Relationship Expert Amanda Testa shares what it really takes to have incredible sex, enjoy deeply connected relationships, and light yourself up from the inside out.  Over the years, Amanda has guided thousands on transformative journeys to heal their relationship with their sexuality, fully embrace pleasure without shame, own their electrifying confidence, and have epic relationships. Listen in to discover how to fan the flames of your Feminine Fire, fall in love with your sensual self again, and experience intimacy like never before - all in a way that feels really good to your system.  Ready To Get Your Feminine Fire Back? Head to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods for free goodies and your Free Sensuality Activation! Join my FB community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/FindYourFeminineFire read less
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Episodes

Sacred Self Care And Cultivating Community
6d ago
Sacred Self Care And Cultivating Community
In this episode, Amanda talks about the importance of deeper self-care that really taps into your sexual energy, creativity, and personal power. She explores how taking care of yourself in a more sensual way can help you connect better with yourself, your loved ones, and your community. Amanda also touches on the need to create supportive spaces and rituals for expressing your sexuality and creativity.  She shares practical tips on how to bring more pleasure into your daily life, connect with your body and spirit, and feel a stronger sense of belonging. The episode wraps up with a simple mindfulness exercise to help you enjoy the present moment more fully. Key Takeaways from this Episode:  Redefining Self-Care: Self-care isn't just about pampering yourself with bubble baths or face masks. It's about truly listening to your needs, nourishing your roots, and creating a supportive environment that lets you bloom naturally. Simple Joys: Find small ways to add pleasure to your daily routine. Whether it's sprucing up your workspace or shifting your mindset while doing chores, these little changes can make a big difference in how you feel. Connecting to Sensuality: Embracing your sensuality starts with self-care rituals that feel good to you. By exploring what makes you feel alive and practicing it regularly, you create a strong foundation for deeper connection with yourself and others. Building Supportive Communities: Surround yourself with people who love and accept you for who you are. This creates a safe space where you can express your true self, both sexually and creatively, without fear of judgment. Follow What Feels Good: Whether it’s in your personal life or relationships, trust what feels right for you. Experiment, explore, and don't be afraid to move on if something doesn’t resonate. It’s all part of finding what truly makes you happy. -- Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode. Your support means the world to me and helps other women find their way back to their sensual, creative selves. You can find bonus materials for each episode at amandatesta.com/create.
Creating New Pathways and Setting Healthy Boundaries
19-08-2024
Creating New Pathways and Setting Healthy Boundaries
This week on the podcast, Amanda breaks down how trying new things can boost creativity and improve your sex life by helping your brain form new connections. She dives into the idea of neuroplasticity—how our brains can change and adapt—and explains why setting and communicating healthy boundaries is crucial for personal growth.  Amanda shares some real-life examples and tips on how to set and maintain boundaries to strengthen intimacy and creativity. Plus, she offers practical advice on how to recognize and respect your limits to support your creative and sexual well-being. Key Takeaways from this Episode: Embrace Change and New Experiences: Amanda highlights the magic of neuroplasticity—basically, your brain's ability to rewire itself. Trying new things, whether in creativity or sex, helps form new neural pathways and keeps things exciting. Novelty Boosts Growth: Doing something out of the ordinary triggers dopamine, the feel-good chemical in your brain, which can enhance learning and personal growth. Stepping out of your comfort zone, even just a little, can do wonders. Boundaries Are Essential: Healthy boundaries aren't just about saying "no." They're about protecting your energy and well-being, allowing you to thrive both creatively and intimately. Amanda stresses the importance of identifying and communicating your limits. Creative Exploration Fuels Intimacy: Engaging in creative activities can deepen your connection with your partner. It’s all about play, experimentation, and being open to new ways of expressing yourself, which can spill over into your sexual life. Practice Saying Yes and No: Amanda suggests tuning into how your body feels when you're genuinely saying "yes" or "no" to something. This awareness helps you make decisions that align with your true desires, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling life. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode. Your support means the world to me and helps other women find their way back to their sensual, creative selves. You can find bonus materials for each episode at amandatesta.com/create.
Finding Your Flock And Empowering Connection with Hey Birdie
23-07-2024
Finding Your Flock And Empowering Connection with Hey Birdie
Ever wondered what happens when women flock together with purpose? 82% of women feel more empowered when part of a supportive community, so If you're a woman seeking personal growth, adventure, and genuine connections, you'll love this week's episode.  I’m your host Amanda Testa, and today  I'm thrilled to introduce you to the visionary founders of Hey Birdie. I'm talking with with Jess Lindsley and Heather Bahlmann, who with their collective professional backgrounds in Wellness, Community Development, Event Planning, Programming, and Leadership, create and hold space for women and transwomen to gather, connect and empower one another to live a fuller life through Hey Birdie. We're jamming on why connecting with others is so important, what inspired them to start Hey Birdie, and how female support groups can be super healing.  Here's why you absolutely need to tune into this episode: Discover how to find your flock and create meaningful connectionsLearn why curiosity and new experiences are crucial for personal growthUnderstand the healing power of women's communitiesGet inspired to step out of your comfort zone and embrace adventure Enjoy!  — If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship, head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started. Sign up here to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Activation Practice
How to Get Out of a Relationship Rut with Mark and Amanda Testa
16-07-2024
How to Get Out of a Relationship Rut with Mark and Amanda Testa
In this episode of 'Find Your Feminine Fire,' My husband Mark and I dive into the usual issues couples deal with, like feeling distant, having different sex drives, and lacking emotional closeness. We open up about their own experiences and offer real-life tips to dodge these problems, keep the intimacy alive, and bring back the spark in long-term relationships. We also talk about why sexual health, good communication, and taking care of yourself are so important. The episode highlights how being creative and putting in effort are key to keeping a loving and lively relationship. Key Takeaways from this Episode: Staying Connected Takes Work: Relationships can easily fall into routine and disconnection, especially with busy schedules and life transitions. It’s crucial to actively work on staying connected with your partner through regular communication, shared activities, and quality time together. Alone Time is Essential: Finding alone time as a couple, even when life is hectic, is vital. This could mean getting creative with scheduling or finding small moments to be together without distractions, such as morning coffee talks, walks, or even just hanging out in the kitchen. Communication About Sexual Health: Open communication about sexual health issues like mismatched libidos or erectile dysfunction is important. These topics can carry shame but addressing them together can lead to finding solutions and strengthening your relationship. Balancing Parenthood and Partnership: Balancing being parents and partners is challenging, especially when children are at home more often. It’s important to find ways to maintain your relationship, such as setting boundaries with children about needing adult alone time and involving them in understanding the importance of a healthy relationship. Intentional Screen-Free Time: Reducing phone and screen time, especially during moments meant for connection, can significantly improve the quality of your interactions. Consider having electronic-free zones, like the bedroom, and leaving phones behind during dates or walks to stay present with each other. — If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship, head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started. Sign up here to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Activation Practice
What is Embodiment and Why is it Key for Better Sex?
08-07-2024
What is Embodiment and Why is it Key for Better Sex?
In this episode of the 'Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast,' Amanda talks about what embodiment means and why it's important for better sex, intimacy, and connection. She explains how tuning into your body's wisdom can lead to real change.  Amanda shares what she's learned from coaching at embodiment retreats in Costa Rica, focusing on the healing benefits of group work and the non-linear path of personal growth. She also covers the language of sensations and the perks of practices like breathwork and pleasure-focused activities, showing how these can make life more vibrant, connected, and fulfilling. Key Takeaways from this Episode: Embodiment Basics: Amanda talks about how embodiment means tuning into your body's wisdom, which helps improve sex, intimacy, and connection. It's about getting in touch with what's happening beneath the surface, not just what's in your head. Healing in Groups: Being in a group can be super powerful for healing. Watching others grow and heal reminds you of your own potential. Plus, personal growth isn't a straight line—it's full of ups and downs, but you become more resilient over time. Body Image Reality Check: Being around different body types in a group can help heal body image issues. The media often shows unrealistic body standards, so seeing real bodies helps you appreciate the beauty in diversity. Language of Sensations: Learning to understand your body's language is key. Your body talks to you through sensations—like feeling tight, tingly, or heavy. Tuning into these sensations can help you stay present and enhance your pleasure. Embodiment Practices: Practices like breathwork, dancing, and pleasure-focused activities help you connect with your body. These practices can lead to more creativity, better relationships, and overall well-being. Even simple things like noticing sensations can make a big difference. Check out my program, Pleasure Foundation here — If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship, head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started. Sign up here to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Activation Practice
Sex and Your Stars, Tapping Into The Erotic Energy of the Zodiac with Stefanie Iris Weiss
02-07-2024
Sex and Your Stars, Tapping Into The Erotic Energy of the Zodiac with Stefanie Iris Weiss
In this episode, I'm talking with clinical sexologist and astrologer Stefanie Iris Weiss, diving into how astrology can be a portal for exploring and expanding one's sexuality.  Stefanie explains how astrology can be a portal to discovering our sexual selves and liberating our erotic energy. She discusses how shame often blocks our sexuality, and how markers in our astrological charts can help identify and work through those shame points to reconnect with pleasure. Through the lens of astrology, Stefanie guides listeners to tap into their innate sexual vitality, gifts and superpowers based on their sun sign and other key placements. She shares personal stories and client examples to illustrate. The conversation also delves into: The erotic energies of the astrological seasons and how to harness themCultivating a sensual relationship with the moon and its cyclesEco-sexuality and finding eroticism in naturePractical pleasure practices to enhance your sex life, like the "Erotic Moon Gaze"Her new book, Sex And Your Stars: A Sexologist's Guide To The Erotic Energy Of The Zoidac. Whether you're an astrology buff or just looking for new ways to expand your sexual horizons, this episode will leave you seeing stars - and your erotic potential - in a whole new light. Stefanie's perspective is refreshing, shame-free, and full of juicy insights to help you unlock more pleasure and "Feminine Fire."   — If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship, head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started.  Sign up here to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Activation Practice
The Future of Psychedelic Therapy with Sherry Rais
10-06-2024
The Future of Psychedelic Therapy with Sherry Rais
Today’s episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the cutting-edge therapies transforming mental healthcare. We’re diving deep into the realm of psychedelic assisted therapy with a remarkable guest, Sherry Rais. Sherry is the CEO and co-founder of Enthea, and she has been at the forefront of blending purpose with professionalism, guiding entities from startups to global organizations like the United Nations and World Bank in achieving their mission. In this episode, you’ll discover why Sherry’s work is pivotal in the current wellness revolution and how Enthea is making psychedelic therapy accessible to more people. With Sherry’s rich background in public policy, in-depth research in psychedelics, and her dedication to reducing human suffering, you're going to gain some very valuable insights today into the future of mental healthcare. Key Takeaways from this episode: Transforming Mental Health: The episode discusses how psychedelic-assisted therapy is revolutionizing mental health care, showing particular promise for women and potentially reducing the need for traditional medications.Science Behind Psychedelics: Listeners get an overview of the scientific principles behind psychedelic therapies, helping them understand how these treatments work and their potential benefits.Practical Access: There is practical advice on how to safely access psychedelic-assisted therapies and tips on finding reputable providers, ensuring listeners can navigate this emerging field responsibly.Enthea’s Mission: The podcast highlights how Enthea is working to make psychedelic therapies more accessible by integrating them into employer health benefit plans, aiming to broaden the reach of these innovative treatments.Future of Treatment: The conversation explores the future vision for psychedelic therapy, discussing its potential to transform mental health care and the ongoing efforts to make these therapies widely available and safe. — If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship, head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started. Sign up here to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Activation Practice.
Unlocking The Power Of The Mind To Heal Chronic Pain With Brandy Gillmore
03-06-2024
Unlocking The Power Of The Mind To Heal Chronic Pain With Brandy Gillmore
From Pain To Empowerment. Do you or a loved one suffer from chronic pain? Have you ever felt the frustration of hearing there's no solution for your suffering? How this affects your relationships, and challenges your intimacy? If so, this episode is for you. Today, I’m thrilled to be joined by Brandy Gillmore, a researcher and mind-body healing expert with an extraordinary story of recovery and empowerment. Brandy shares her personal journey from enduring two devastating accidents that left her in extreme pain and reliant on a wheelchair, to discovering the profound healing power of the mind. Key Takeaways from this episode: Healing Through the Mind: Brandy talks about how she beat chronic pain and disability by using the power of her mind. Emotions and Health: The chat highlights how our emotional patterns and awareness can really impact our physical health and recovery. Research and Tips: Brandy shares what she's discovered through her research and gives practical tips for emotional healing. Beyond Positive Thinking: An important takeaway is the difference between just thinking positively and making real emotional changes for true healing. New Healing Perspective: Brandy stresses the need to change how we think about healing, showing how our minds can lead to lasting health improvements. — If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship, head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started. Sign up here to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Activation Practice.
Supporting Our Intimate Health With Caroline Goodner
28-05-2024
Supporting Our Intimate Health With Caroline Goodner
We often don’t talk about common vaginal health issues, and the mental impacts of those issues.  Today We are talking with Caroline Goodner, the co-founder and CEO of OrganiCare, a leader in transforming feminine healthcare by making highly effective, natural products that are science-backed and available over the counter through national retailers.   Listen in as we discuss promising solutions for common vaginal health issues,and why lifting the taboo around this subject is key. Key Takeaways from this episode: Tackling Common Yet Under-Discussed Conditions: Conditions like yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis (BV), and genital herpes are very common but often not talked about due to stigma.  Addressing the Emotional Impact: Women's sexual health issues don't just cause physical discomfort; they also bring emotional challenges. Feelings of shame, uncleanliness, and anxiety can be alleviated by having effective treatments readily available, enabling women to get back to their normal lives quickly. Innovative and Safe Solutions: Organicare focuses on innovation and safety, using ingredients like oxygenated olive oil to provide antifungal, antibacterial, and antiviral properties without the negative side effects of traditional medications. Empowering Women Through Education and Support: Talking openly about sexual health and providing education on common conditions and treatments helps reduce stigma and empower women. — If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship, head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started. Sign up here to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Activation Practice
The One Thing You Can Do To Improve Your Relationship with Mark and Amanda Testa
21-05-2024
The One Thing You Can Do To Improve Your Relationship with Mark and Amanda Testa
What's the one thing I can do, such that doing it will make everything else easier or unnecessary?  Today on the pod my husband Mark and I are sharing how prioritizing your relationship can make everything else in your life better. This episode was inspired by the book, "The One Thing" by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan. We talk about the power of focusing on one important thing at a time and explore how prioritizing your relationship can have a ripple effect on your whole life. Liisten in to discover: The Power of One Thing: Learn how zeroing in on one priority—like your relationship—can simplify everything else. The Multitasking Myth: Discover why multitasking isn’t as effective as we think and how focusing can improve your life. Daily Life Impact: See how a strong relationship boosts your success at work, with your kids, and in your community. Vulnerability & Communication: Find out why being open and communicating well with your partner is crucial. Setting Boundaries: Get tips on creating boundaries with technology to strengthen your connection. Having Fun Together: Embrace playfulness in your relationship for more joy and intimacy. — If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship, head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started. Sign up here to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Activation Practice
New Solutions for ED with Dr. Elliot Justin
15-05-2024
New Solutions for ED with Dr. Elliot Justin
Are you looking to elevate your sexual health and wellness? ED, aka Erectile Dysfunction, can cause real struggles in relationships.  And, ED is not just a later in life problem. 30% of men at the age of 30 suffer from ED. This number increases 10% every decade of age after. If this issue affects your relationship, you’re in luck as today on the podcast I’m talking with Dr. Elliot Justin, MD, the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men’s erectile fitness. He has a background in Emergency Medicine and healthcare technology consulting.  Happily married for 35 years, and father of three children, Elliot and his wife Ann live in Montana with three energetic mares and a flock of chickens. He is a passionate trail rider who sometimes imagines, to his wife’s chagrin, that he’s a centaur. Listen in to discover: ED Affects All Ages: ED isn't just an older guy problem; men of all ages can experience it, and it impacts both their mental and physical health, plus their relationships. Dr. Justin’s Journey: Dr. Justin’s story is inspiring—after a major accident, he got into sexual wellness and invented a smart cock ring that helps with ED and gives important health insights. Breaking the Stigma: We dive into why it's so important to talk openly about sexual health and work on breaking the taboo around ED. Root Causes Matter: Instead of just treating symptoms, we need to look at and address the root causes of ED for better long-term results. Non-Pharma Solutions: Firm Tech’s products offer a drug-free way to boost sexual performance and overall health, which is a game-changer for many. Relationship Tips: There’s practical advice on how partners can introduce these tech solutions into their relationships to enhance intimacy and sexual health.   Ready to “put a ring on it”? Use my promo code “FIRE” for a 20% discount here   —   If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship, head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started.   Sign up here to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Sensuality Activation Practice.
The Power Of Intentional Dreaming With Madeline Giles
06-05-2024
The Power Of Intentional Dreaming With Madeline Giles
Are you ready to tap into the transformative power of your dreams? In the latest episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast, we dive deep into the world of intentional dreaming with Madeline Giles, a somatic spiritual counselor, breath facilitator, herbalist, and novice beekeeper devoted to living and dreaming a more compassionate world into being.  Her new book, "Then I Woke Up, Dreaming With Mother Earth" complies some Madeline shares her own compelling journey of healing and awakening through dreams, and offers potent practices to help you cultivate a sacred relationship with your own nighttime visions. You'll discover how to: Set intentions for your dreams to serve as a portal for divine guidance and inner wisdomDecode the unique symbolic language of your dreamsNavigate nightmares and intense dreams as catalysts for healing and growthCreate a dreamspace imbued with safety, protection, and rejuvenationSleep more restfullyand much more! Whether you're a seasoned lucid dreamer or a curious newbie, this episode will inspire you to embrace your dreams as a treasured ally on your path of self-discovery and awakening. Find out more about Madeline Giles and her new book HERE. _________ If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started.  Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice!  Thank you for listening, I will see you in the next episode.
How To "Get Quiet" In A Busy World with Elaine Glass
01-05-2024
How To "Get Quiet" In A Busy World with Elaine Glass
Has our very noisy world disconnected you . . . from yourself?? If you are on a path to restoring your sacred connection to yourself and to all that really matters to you…. tune in. In today's episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with the inspiring Elaine Glass - visionary author and master life coach with over 15 years of experience helping people transform their lives.  We dive into some of the themes of her most recent book, "Get Quiet, 7 Simple Steps To The Truth Of Who You Are." Elaine shares her personal journey of finding her way back to her truest self after going through a challenging 13-year marriage that ended in divorce. She talks about how the stress and heaviness of that situation led to an autoimmune disease, and how she had to make the difficult decision to leave the marriage in order to reclaim her health and wellbeing. Tune in to discover: • The importance of getting quiet and creating space to reconnect with your inner wisdom and intuition, and simple steps to do this. • How to use movement, rest, and being in your body to release stuck energy and emotions. • What it takes to create a healthy, nourishing environment, and why this is so important. • How to reconnect with a spirit of play and creativity.  • The healing power of presence and deep listening, and much more. While it can feel daunting to make big life changes, Elaine shows that it's possible to find your way back home to yourself, one small step at a time. I hope this conversation inspires you to trust those inner nudges and give yourself full permission to pursue what makes you come alive.  Enjoy! If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then head over to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to get started.  Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice!  Thank you for listening, I will see you in the next episode.
Leaping Big In Life And Love With Gay Hendricks
15-04-2024
Leaping Big In Life And Love With Gay Hendricks
Are you ready to manifest your next level life and relationship?  If you’re looking to find out what it really takes to go beyond your happiness ceiling and experience the joys of life in deeper ways, you are in for a very special treat this episode.   Today I’m  talking with the incredible Gay Hendricks, PhD and we are going to dive into what it takes to bring forth your genius in your life and relationships.  As a leader in the fields of relationship transformation and body mind therapies for more than 45 years, Dr. Hendricks and his wife Katie have written more than 40 books, trained thousands of coaches, appeared on Oprah, and hosted seminars around the globe.   In this episode, we are going to be diving in what it takes to bring forth your genius in your life and relationships, the common "Upper Limit Problems" that hold us back, and powerful insights to connect to your unique genius and shine it in more fulfilling ways. Dr. Hendricks reflects on 44 years with his wife Katie, and shares some powerful advice to a successful, love filled relationship, and much more inside! Enjoy the episode!    _______ Remember, you deserve to experience vibrant, fulfilling love, intimacy, and connection in your life. If you're ready to take the next step and explore your unique desires and challenges in a free personalized sensuality discovery session, visit www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to download your Free Sensuality Kit or to book your session with Amanda.
Why A Checklist Won't Get Your Libido Back
09-04-2024
Why A Checklist Won't Get Your Libido Back
Have you ever tried to improve your sex life or increase your sensuality by making a checklist of things to do? Many high-achieving individuals, especially women juggling multiple roles, find comfort in the structure of a checklist. But what exactly should you include in your checklist to enhance your sensuality and embrace your feminine essence? We explore the dos and don'ts of checklist items, separating the effective from the futile. True transformation doesn't happen overnight. We explore the concept of practice and experimentation in the realm of sexuality and relationship dynamics. Like building strength in the gym, cultivating intimacy requires patience, consistency, and a willingness to find the pace that is right for you   As you listen, you'll discover how the journey toward rekindling your Feminine Fire is more about embracing practices, exploring what feels good, and allowing yourself to grow at a pace that feels right for you. Amanda provides insights on why you can't just checklist away certain aspects of your journey and why compassionate support may be what you truly need. Remember, you deserve to experience vibrant, fulfilling love, intimacy, and connection in your life. If you're ready to take the next step and explore your unique desires and challenges in a free personalized sensuality discovery session, visit www.amandatesta.com/thegoods to download your Free Sensuality Kit or to book your session with Amanda.