Selfcare for parents in keeping the spark alive

Parenting and Marriage in the Digital Age

22-08-2024 • 40 mins

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In this episode, we dive into the critical but often overlooked topic of self-care for parents. We discuss the guilt and societal pressures that many parents face, which can lead to burnout and loss of identity. Through our personal stories and experiences, we explore how to prioritise self-care, maintain your identity, and keep your marriage healthy and fulfilling while raising a young family. We also offer practical tips on how to recognize when you need self-care and how to make time for it without the guilt. Plus, we share some light-hearted moments from our own highs and lows of the week, including Ben’s laser tag adventures and the satisfaction of seeing our kids thrive in school.


Key Takeaways

  • Prioritise Sleep: Aim for at least eight hours of sleep each night to improve overall well-being.
  • Learn to Say No: Set boundaries and learn to decline additional responsibilities that stretch you too thin.
  • Work Together: Support each other in finding time for self-care and divide responsibilities to ensure both partners can recharge.
  • Let Go of Guilt: Recognise that self-care is not selfish; it’s essential for being the best parent and partner you can be.
  • Recognise the Signs: Be aware of when you or your partner need self-care, and be proactive in addressing it.
  • Know Your Rituals: Identify what activities help you recharge and make time for them regularly.

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Meet the Hosts

Nichole Farrow
A relationship and family coach with 7+ years of experience helping couples and families build healthier relationships. Featured on BBC 5 Live, Tatler, BBC Radio 4, and Spears Magazine, she brings deep knowledge and empathy to the podcast.

Ben Farrow
A professional builder and devoted husband, Ben offers a relatable perspective on balancing work, hobbies, and family life. When not on a construction site, he enjoys working on cars, crafting, and leading family adventures.

Our Mission
Our mission is to help couples maintain strong relationships, keep the spark alive, and create a nurturing environment for raising children. We focus on navigating challenges in a tech-driven world, finding balance, and thriving as a family.

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