The Cheer Mom Podcast

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The Cheer Mom Podcast is a place that helps cheer moms (and dads!) understand cheer and navigate this crazy world, so we can support our athletes. Listen to experts within the industry on topics like strength and conditioning, keeping our athletes safe, and all things High School, College and All Star Cheer. Grab your cheer mom beverage of choice, and let's be friends! read less
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What Does it Mean to be Coachable? With Orby Orta
11-07-2024
What Does it Mean to be Coachable? With Orby Orta
Your perfect style awaits, with Slick Hair Company! Visit slickhaircompany.com/thecheermomblog and use code THECHEERMOMBLOG for 10% off! This episode features Coach Orby Orta from the California All Stars, discussing his approach to coaching, and what it means to be coachable; not just for athletes, but for parents and COACHES as well. Coach Orby shares insights on effective coaching styles, the value of establishing strong relationships with athletes, and how to adapt coaching methods to meet the evolving needs of today's athletes. He also touches on parental involvement, addressing common issues such as setting realistic expectations and the importance of parent-coach communication. The discussion underscores the significance of trust, innovation, and love for the sport in building successful and cohesive cheer teams. It's no wonder Orby has coached so many successful teams and athletes! Wanna jump around? Here are some highlights: 04:54 Guest Introduction: Coach Orbie Orta 08:06 Coach Orbie's Journey in Cheerleading 09:11 The Importance of Passion in Coaching 10:47 Training and Creativity in Cheerleading 17:28 Balancing Coaching Styles and Personal Relationships 20:15 Building Relationships with Athletes 26:55 Addressing Toxic Coaching Cultures 29:52 The Importance of Being Coachable 32:38 Parental Influence on Athlete Development 40:24 Transitioning Athletes to New Coaching Styles 46:41 The Value of Building Relationships with Parents
The Legal Saga Continues as Monica Aldama Files a Lawsuit Against USA Cheer
06-07-2024
The Legal Saga Continues as Monica Aldama Files a Lawsuit Against USA Cheer
CONTENT AND TRIGGER WARNING This episode contains subject matter that may trigger some. Please take care while listening. The battle between Monica Aldama and USA Cheer continues as Monica calls the organization out for keeping her on the suspended list, costing her business deals and her reputation. Monica also names Madi Lane in the lawsuit and gives her account of what happened after an event that occurred in September of 2021, which is described in Madi Lane's original lawsuit against former athlete Salvo Amico, Coach Monica, and other Navarro College officials. This episode carefully navigates the lawsuit, detailing the accusations, responses, and impacts on Monica's personal life and career. I've covered this saga in multiple previous episodes, which are linked below. Wanna jump around? Here are some key details: 04:11 Recap of the Lawsuit Against Coach Monica Aldama 05:15 Understanding Lawsuits and Allegations 09:41 Coach Monica's Response 11:28 Details of the Lawsuit 32:59 Monica's Emotional Struggle 33:22 USA Cheer Suspension 36:52 Accusations against Safe Sport and USA Cheer 41:18 Describing Varsity Brands as a Monopoly 48:01 Monica's Allegations and Damages 56:08 Conclusion and Reflections   https://drive.google.com/file/d/1tXeUGCCgUlKgKcKpufVY-wpVEwiPE4Yj/view https://bleav.com/shows/the-cheer-mom-podcast/episodes/coach-monicas-beef-with-usa-cheer/ https://bleav.com/shows/the-cheer-mom-podcast/episodes/updates-on-varsity-law-suits-coach-monica-and-is-nca-getting-a-new-home/ https://bleav.com/shows/the-cheer-mom-podcast/episodes/navarro-cheer-bombshell/ Link to law suit brought against Monica Aldama
Addressing Toxic Cultures in Cheer, with Jeff Benson
20-06-2024
Addressing Toxic Cultures in Cheer, with Jeff Benson
Toxic cultures in cheer exist. The stories I've heard from so many of you are heartbreaking, and the language and styles that some coaches and owners are using are unacceptable. I am outraged on your behalf. So, I called Jeff Benson, who is an expert on communication and developing a healthy mindset and culture specifically in cheer. Jeff explains what it means to be psychologically safe and provides insights and practical tools for parents and coaches to foster healthier environments. The discussion covers the importance of a growth mindset, effective communication strategies, and the role of parents in recognizing and addressing toxic behaviors. Jeff emphasizes the need for a collaborative approach to creating champion-minded cultures in cheer gyms. Connect with Jeff: Instagram Facebook YouTube Mentioned in this episode (some links may be affiliate links, which means I get a small portion of your purchase, which helps the podcast!): Join me at The Cheer Collection's Premiere Party in Dallas! Crucial Conversations book Wanna jump around? Here are some highlights in the episode: 15:44 Tackling Toxic Traits in Coaching 38:19 Understanding Emotions: The Stoplight Metaphor 38:49 Handling Red Light Emotions 39:39 Gathering Information and Addressing Concerns 41:51 Psychological Safety and Emotional Regulation 45:48 Toxic Culture and Fixed Mindset 49:50 Effective Communication 01:00:03 Balancing Values: Winning vs. Well-being 01:13:50 Champion Minded Culture: Tools and Resources 01:18:58 Changing the Culture of Cheer
10 Questions to Ask Before Starting a New Cheer Season
23-05-2024
10 Questions to Ask Before Starting a New Cheer Season
Cheer requires a high level of time, finances, and sacrifices not just from the athlete, but from the people in his or her life. Here are the details from this episode: With the upcoming cheer season in mind, I HIGHLY suggest having discussions about team placements, setting personal goals, and considering what sacrifices are acceptable for cheerleading with your athlete and among your family. Financial implications, the importance of matching family values with the gym's, and defining success within cheerleading are just a few of the things you need to consider. This episode of The Cheer Mom Podcast provides guidance on managing expectations, the impact of cheer commitments on school and academics, and the importance of loving the sport beyond team placements. These ten specific questions are meant to prompt discussions about managing expectations for the upcoming season. Wanna jump around? Here are some key points within the episode: 02:36 Diving Into the New Cheer Season: Expectations and Preparations 04:48 The Essential 10 Questions for Cheer Families 15:51 Defining Success and Setting Personal Goals 24:41 Evaluating Team Placement and Managing Expectations 30:18 Aligning Gym Values with Family Priorities 32:07 Navigating Sacrifices and Setting Boundaries Mentioned in this episode: Qualities to Look for in an All Star Cheer Program Join our Facebook group! Please consider leaving a review in Apple Podcasts. It helps so much!
What does it take to be a college cheerleader? with Texas Tech Coach, Bruce Bills: REPLAY
03-04-2024
What does it take to be a college cheerleader? with Texas Tech Coach, Bruce Bills: REPLAY
Original Air Date: Nov. 1, 2022 You asked, and we listened. By popular demand, it's an episode all about college cheer! And I got to talk to one of the best in the industry: The head coach of Texas Tech cheer, Bruce Bills. Coach Bruce has been involved with this program for TWENTY. YEARS. He led the Tech coed team to their first large coed D1 Championship. He's been named coach of the year by the College STUNT Association. He knows what he's talkin' about, and he was so gracious to spend some time with me. I took to our Facebook group and asked you all what you would ask a college coach. You had great questions, and coach Bruce answers all of them in this episode. Questions like, what does it take to be a college cheerleader? Are clinics required? Do athletes need to have a cheer social media account, and if you're a girl, can you make the team if you're not a flyer or tumbler? This episode is highly informative, and I know you'll enjoy it!   ---------------------------------------------------- End-of-Season Gifts with The Cheer Collection https://thecheercollection.com/ Email Kristen at hi@thecheermomblog.com with questions and comments Join The Cheer Mom Hive on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/groups/cheermomhive/ Follow The Cheer Mom Blog on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thecheermomblog Follow The Cher Mom Blog on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@cheermomblog?lang=en   Music by Alex LaGrossa- Twisted Cutz Music Productions