#14 - Finding the sweet spot between apathy and control ​

In Kinship - for makers who crave a vibrant life

27-04-2023 • 45 mins

I strive for that sweet spot.  The space between apathy and overcontrol, between sticking your head in the sand and beating yourself up over something, between perfectionism and doing things without a care.  It’s a balance.  Always.  Every day.  Every hour.  But it’s worth it.

Today I share my ideal work day, why getting to know yourself and working with your energy instead of against it are the first steps in living an intentional, joy-filled life, and how I know when to give myself grace and when to push past my resistance.

I love hearing about how others structure their days and lives to allow for more creativity and more integrity while not tipping over into too much control.   That sweet spot!

I love it so much, and I suspect you might too, that it will be a constant companion to this podcast.  Exploring what brings joy and vibrancy to another’s life and actionable steps on adding that to our own journeys; in whatever ways feel right.

Share with me your routines, ceremonies, and structures that support you!  I’ll share it on the podcast.  tina@kinshiphandwork.com

Take a listen!

Mentioned in the podcast

Human Design (I’m a Sacral Generator and it resonates deeply!)

Myers Briggs Personality Test (ENFJ here!  What are you?)

Your Astrological Birthchart (I am a sun sign – Aries, rising sign – Taurus, moon sign – Pisces)

The Enneagram Institute (now this shifts and changes for me.  ??  But right now I am a 3 with 2, 4, and 8 hot on its heals)

Julie Cameron’s The Artists Way

Sarai Mitnik’s writing on Substack – Making Time

Hey!  Do you know of someone who would make a great guest on the show?  (maybe you?)
Email me tina@kinshiphandwork.com

...and just because, an update on the Maker's Studio



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tina@kinshiphandwork.com