In this episode of 'Who We Are and What We Need,' licensed mental health counselor Catherine Quiring hosts an insightful conversation about human nature, relationships, and meeting needs. Joined by licensed marriage and family therapist Paige Bond, who specializes in helping people-pleasers navigate non-momogamy. They discuss a range of topics including differentiation, emotional safety, polyamory, and the importance of understanding and expressing personal needs within relationships. They delve into the complexities of human connections, emphasizing the need for emotional corrective experiences, vulnerability, and creating a secure partnership. Throughout the discussion, they highlight practical strategies for nurturing relationships and navigating challenges, making it an enlightening listen for anyone interested in deepening their understanding of love and connection.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
00:54 Meet Paige Bond
01:58 Paige's Journey with Relationships
04:01 Understanding Love and Relationships
11:41 The Concept of Differentiation
16:20 Challenges in Relationships
24:40 Polyamory and Relationship Dynamics
28:52 Challenges in Monogamous Relationships
29:27 The Benefits of Non-Monogamy
30:17 Historical Context of Non-Monogamy
30:52 Patriarchy and Relationship Structures
34:11 Personal Experiences with Non-Monogamy
37:22 Exploring Sexuality and Identity
39:03 The Importance of Communication and Boundaries
49:17 Navigating Family Dynamics in Non-Monogamy
54:00 Final Thoughts and Resources
You can find Paige Bond at: www.paigebond.com
And her podcast Stubborn love here: www.paigebond.com/stubbornlovepodcast
My guest episodes on Stubborn Love are published 6/2023:
www.paigebond.com/stubbornlovepodcast/embrace-desires-rekindle-relationships and 1/2023: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2J7O5pqPcAJ5SqSNKu4hc4
Show Notes by AI and Catherine Quiring
Editing by: Somnath Basumatary
Logo by: Catherine Quiring
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