Creating Secure Relationships with Paige Bond

Who We Are & What We Need

05-06-2024 • 59 mins

In this episode of 'Who We Are and What We Need,' licensed mental health counselor Catherine Quiring hosts an insightful conversation about human nature, relationships, and meeting needs. Joined by licensed marriage and family therapist Paige Bond, who specializes in helping people-pleasers navigate non-momogamy. They discuss a range of topics including differentiation, emotional safety, polyamory, and the importance of understanding and expressing personal needs within relationships. They delve into the complexities of human connections, emphasizing the need for emotional corrective experiences, vulnerability, and creating a secure partnership. Throughout the discussion, they highlight practical strategies for nurturing relationships and navigating challenges, making it an enlightening listen for anyone interested in deepening their understanding of love and connection.


Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

00:54 Meet Paige Bond

01:58 Paige's Journey with Relationships

04:01 Understanding Love and Relationships

11:41 The Concept of Differentiation

16:20 Challenges in Relationships

24:40 Polyamory and Relationship Dynamics

28:52 Challenges in Monogamous Relationships

29:27 The Benefits of Non-Monogamy

30:17 Historical Context of Non-Monogamy

30:52 Patriarchy and Relationship Structures

34:11 Personal Experiences with Non-Monogamy

37:22 Exploring Sexuality and Identity

39:03 The Importance of Communication and Boundaries

49:17 Navigating Family Dynamics in Non-Monogamy

54:00 Final Thoughts and Resources


You can find Paige Bond at: ⁠www.paigebond.com

And her podcast Stubborn love here: www.paigebond.com/stubbornlovepodcast

My guest episodes on Stubborn Love are published 6/2023:

www.paigebond.com/stubbornlovepodcast/embrace-desires-rekindle-relationships and 1/2023: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2J7O5pqPcAJ5SqSNKu4hc4


Show Notes by AI and Catherine Quiring

Editing by: Somnath Basumatary

Logo by: Catherine Quiring

@catherinequiring (IG)

@cqcounseling (fb)

catherinequiring.substack.com

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