Fatherhood and raising boys in todays changing norms of masculinity

DadSense with Subhasis Mishra

15-03-2024 • 1 hr 8 mins

In this episode of DadSense, the host engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Vivek Menezes, a loving father of three and a widely published writer and photographer living in Goa. Vivek shares his journey of growing up in a multicultural environment, moving from India to the U.S., and eventually choosing to raise his children in Goa to connect them with their roots. The discussion delves into the dynamics of modern fatherhood, the evolving understanding of masculinity in India, and the challenges and opportunities contemporary fathers face. Vivek also explores the influence of literature on his perspectives and the importance of open dialogues with children about societal changes, gender equality, and the complexities of navigating identity and privilege in today's world.


00:01:24 Welcome to DadSense: A Fresh Episode

00:01:36 Meet Vivek: A Father's Journey from Bombay to Goa

00:02:55 Vivek's Childhood and the Duality of Cultures

00:03:35 Fatherhood, Masculinity, and the Indian-American Experience

00:25:55 Navigating Fatherhood in the U.S. and the Decision to Return to Goa

00:37:28 Digital Natives and the Shift in Parenting

00:39:13 Embracing Nature and Culture in Goa: A Family's Journey

00:41:05 The Challenges of Education and School Choices

00:43:16 The Richness and Messiness of Living in India

00:52:31 Navigating Fatherhood and Masculinity in Modern India

01:05:22 Reflecting on Generational Changes and the Essence of Fatherhood


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