While what one woman finds attractive in a man can differ from person to person, here are a couple of things high-value women will be highly attracted to in a man. I found these to be true in my own experiences, my friends, and my clients.
Clarity - Knowing who you are and where you are going and what you want.
Confidence- We may not always rank high in this one, but the good news is, we can always work on our self-confidence. I have experienced through my work and personal life that men with very low self-confidence dating someone they consider “out of their league” doesn’t work out well. Unless of course, they work on their confidence. In an effort to feel better about being in a relationship with this person, can develop toxic habits like being controlling, very jealous, paranoid behavior, and even emotional abuse. Why? people who are not loving themselves will try to cut you down to their size so you don’t outshine them.
Connection- How you connect with her will go a long way. Are you in tune with what she likes and doesn’t like? Are you trying to really get to know her by having honest conversations? Are you attuned to how she wants to receive love, attention, and appreciation?
Stability- This is huge if you’re looking for a serious relationship. No one wants to feel unsure about where their life is headed and especially after you get to a certain age and want a serious relationship with the right person. If you cannot provide her stability by showing her that you serious through your actions and not just words, she will eventually wisen up to your tactics.
Financial Security- Some of you may not like this, but I’ll say it anyway. Most high-value women want a man who can provide for them and their future families. I am not talking about large bank deposits, but enough to know that life won’t be a constant struggle financially. After all, it is one of the highest reasons for divorces- YES Money!
Attitude- Women may not want you to be positive 24/7 but for me, few things turn off faster than Mr. Gloom Doom. Women want to know that even through the hard times and the struggles, her man is still able to maintain a sense of leadership and a positive mindset that will help them through the tough times. I’m not saying fake it or don’t talk about your real fears and stresses, just TRY to be the captain of the ship in the midst of storm.
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