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Submissive Guide

We are a podcast sharing BDSM articles from Submissive Guide. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.Since 2009, Submissive Guide's mission has been to provide down to earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.No matter where you are in your submissive journey, we'll be there. read less
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Crafting Your Collaring Ceremony: Themes, Rituals, and Celebrations | Submissive Guide
06-03-2024
Crafting Your Collaring Ceremony: Themes, Rituals, and Celebrations | Submissive Guide
Receiving your collar is a special occasion for many submissives and slaves. When a collar comes into view, some people want to commemorate that with a ceremony. Let’s discuss collars, their symbolism in D/s and M/s relationships, and how you can build a formal ceremony around declaring your commitment to each other.Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/how-to-plan-a-formal-collaring-ceremony Resources: Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are You to Accept One?Here is a list of collaring ceremony stories I found online to get you started in your research to build your ceremony.Our Ceremony of Roses, Vow Renewal, and Re-collaring by Mrs DarlingOur Collaring Ceremony on the space betweenMy collaring ceremony script from my polyamorous commitment ceremony on Offbeat WedPlanning Our Collaring Ceremony on The ChateauCollaring Ceremony and Ceremony of the Roses on House of DaseinCeremony From The Heart: The Collaring Ceremony by NorischeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
On-Demand Ecstasy: Initiating Your Orgasm Control Training | Submissive Guide
05-07-2023
On-Demand Ecstasy: Initiating Your Orgasm Control Training | Submissive Guide
A beginner's guide that explores the practice of orgasm control and its potential for enhancing pleasure. The first in the series, this article covers the first steps to exploring orgasm control in your play.Resources on Orgasm Control Mechanics:Orgasm Control by RoverOrgasm Control Conditioning of Females on FetLifeTrain Your Body to Orgasm on CommandOrgasm Control Training: They Can’t ResistOrgasm Control by ginaStudy: Women's Attributions Regarding Why They Have Difficulty Reaching OrgasmBook: The Elusive Orgasm: A Woman's Guide to Why She Can't and How She Can Orgasm" by Vivienne Cass, Ph.DPart 2 of the Orgasm Control Training Series: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/orgasm-on-command-training-the-process-for-the-submissive Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are You to Accept One? | Submissive Guide
05-04-2023
Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are You to Accept One? | Submissive Guide
Wearing a Dominant’s collar is often a goal of any submissive in a D/s relationship. However, defining what a collar is and how you prepare to accept it can be daunting. Let’s tackle the important points about collars and if you are prepared for what a collar may mean for you and your relationship.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/expectations-of-a-collar-how-ready-are-you-to-accept-oneHere are a few more posts on collars you might find interesting:A Complete Guide to BDSM CollarsThe Role of the Collar in a Long Distance Relationship by kallistaThe Impact of Velcro Collars on the Symbolism and Value of Collars in D/s RelationshipsWhat Is a Collar in a D/s Relationship?What it Means to be Collared by LadySneakHow to Plan a Formal Collaring CeremonyTiered Collar System:Collar of ConsiderationTraining CollarFormal CollarSeries on Limits on Submissive GuideBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
New to D/s Relationships? Here's Your Foolproof Guide to Starting Out | Submissive Guide
01-02-2023
New to D/s Relationships? Here's Your Foolproof Guide to Starting Out | Submissive Guide
Relationships, even ones with power exchange, are built the old-fashioned way; dating, mutual compatibility, and communication. We all have a common ground to start from, even if we don't realize it. Unlike what many forums may say about D/s relationships and how they start, knowing the terms to use for your desires and being able to voice them to others does not produce an instant connection and a relationship. It's work from the start and continues to need nurturing for as long as you want the relationship to develop and succeed.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/new-to-ds-relationships-heres-your-foolproof-guide-to-starting-out-part-1Links Mentioned:How to Identify your Submissive Wants and NeedsCommunication Section of Submissive GuideNew to D/s Relationships - Part 2Paradigms of Power: Styles of Master/slave Relationships by Raven KalderaOur Discord Server - Kink NetworkBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
How to Identify Your Submissive Wants and Needs | Submissive Guide
01-12-2022
How to Identify Your Submissive Wants and Needs | Submissive Guide
Submissives all over seem to know what they want out of a relationship; it's always on their minds: the play, the sex, love, or the strictness of dominance. Wants are very valid to the happiness in your life, but more important are the needs. When you think of needs, the list seems to become harder, and people struggle more with defining what they really need.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/know-what-you-want-learn-what-you-needBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/storeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
A Submissive's Prime Directive: Take Care of the Property | Submissive Guide
02-11-2022
A Submissive's Prime Directive: Take Care of the Property | Submissive Guide
A Submissive’s primary focus should be taking care of the property. There are common ways we are not adhering to the prime directive, and there are ways we can make it more of a foundation for our lives. Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/personalgrowth/articles/take-care-of-the-propertyBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/storeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
Myths About D/s Relationships: How to Break Them Down to Find the Truth of a Healthy D/s Dynamic | Submissive Guide
06-05-2021
Myths About D/s Relationships: How to Break Them Down to Find the Truth of a Healthy D/s Dynamic | Submissive Guide
When people ask me what a D/s relationship is like, my first response is 'it looks like any other relationship,' but that's not entirely accurate. All relationships are unique and personal to the people in them, making a sound basis for any D/s relationship. In this article, I’ll cover a few common misconceptions of D/s dynamics, what a D/s relationship is not, and some core traits you can use to identify a healthy dynamic. You may be surprised to learn that they aren't as foreign as you think.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/an-open-letter-to-everyone-who-wants-to-know-what-a-ds-relationship-is-supposed-to-look-likeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/storeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
The Importance of Safety, Risk-Awareness and Consent in Pre-Scene BDSM | Submissive Guide
11-11-2020
The Importance of Safety, Risk-Awareness and Consent in Pre-Scene BDSM | Submissive Guide
Negotiation and consent are the primary ways BDSM is distinguished from abuse - they are essential parts of kinky play. But far too many people gloss over how important it is to be really good at negotiating so that you can have great kinky fun. And you want to have kinky fun, right?Read the Article: [link]The Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream.  Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/storeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
The Key Traits of a Service Submissive - They Can Be Learned! | Submissive Guide
28-10-2020
The Key Traits of a Service Submissive - They Can Be Learned! | Submissive Guide
Anyone can learn to be a good service submissive, even if you don't feel you are a people pleaser, because the key traits are all ones that can be learned and refined. When you take steps to improve yourself now, you'll be able to tackle a variety of service challenges and refine the services you wish to provide for your Dominant.Read the Article: https://www.submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/the-key-traits-of-a-service-submissive---theyThe Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream.  Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/storeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
Active Submission - Make Yourself Available to Your Dominant | Submissive Guide
14-10-2020
Active Submission - Make Yourself Available to Your Dominant | Submissive Guide
We need to make sure we take an active role in submission to help open up the dynamic and not wait for our Dominant to come up with a command to give us. By taking on an active role in our submission, we not only have more opportunities to be submissive, but we build a dynamic that provides an open exchange of power.Read the Article: https://www.submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/active-submission---make-yourself-available-tThe Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream.  Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/storeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
Non-sexual Service and How To Add It To Your Dynamic | Submissive Guide
30-09-2020
Non-sexual Service and How To Add It To Your Dynamic | Submissive Guide
Using my experience as a service submissive, I'd like to share what non-sexual service is and help you figure out if service is something you want to explore. I'll talk about a few different styles of service you could learn. Then we'll cover how you can start adding aspects of service into your relationship. Read the Article: https://www.submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/non-sexual-service-and-how-to-add-it-to-yourThe Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream.  Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/storeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store
A Beginner’s Guide to Sexual Power Exchange | Submissive Guide
16-09-2020
A Beginner’s Guide to Sexual Power Exchange | Submissive Guide
Sexual Power Exchange involves submissive partners who willingly and voluntarily relinquish control to their dominant partners, either in certain situations, for a specified period of time, or completely.  As long as you keep it fun and enjoyable, a bedroom power exchange can bring variety and playfulness to your sex life.Read the Article: https://www.submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/a-beginners-guide-to-sexual-power-exchange The Submissive Society gets early access to this video, the companion article, the podcast on this topic, and select tiers get exclusive bonuses and a monthly live stream.  Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/societyCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/storeBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://subgui.de/societyA very special thank you to all who have joined the Submissive Society on Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sources online. We're overwhelmed with your generosity and support. Thank you._____Looking for Submissive Guide elsewhere?►Site: http://www.submissiveguide.com►Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/subguide►Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/subguide►FetLife: http://fetlife.submissiveguide.com►YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/subguide►Patreon: http://subgui.de/society►Discord: http://subgui.de/chatCheck Out My Books!►https://subgui.de/store