The Submissive Next Door Podcast

Dr. K - Holistic Sexuality Educator

Are you ready for a new look at the world of sexuality and kink? This podcast, brought to you by Dr. K, Holistic Sexuality Educator, fitness trainer, model, and promoter of erotic intelligence, is an honest and down to Earth deep dive into the world of sex, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle. Dr. K. is a 24/7 submissive, deeply devoted to tantric practices, the power of embodiment, and holistic living, as well as an empowerment and intimacy coach. Topics range from sex education, LGTBQ+, consensual non-monogamy, Tantra, kink, BDSM, taboos, fetishes, sex toys, advice, experiences, consent, Shibari, and so much more! read less
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S2-Ep10: The Show is Back! Updates, The Vibe Expo, and More!
19-02-2024
S2-Ep10: The Show is Back! Updates, The Vibe Expo, and More!
After a long hiatus, the show is back with a new sound, new episodes, and more dynamic content than ever before! This is my first solo episode since starting season 2 and I am so excited to share all the exciting news with you! From the behind-the-scenes of The Vibe Expo in Hollywood, the official launch of Artistic Edge Magazine, new Toy reviews, and more! Get your drink and let's get into it!  Video Version of this podcast is available on Patreon! Links for this episode: Artistic Edge Magazine My Secret Diary   Patreon   That Lit Witch on YouTube My NEW Official Facebook Page Tyomi's Cowgirl Workout The Vibe Expo Information Page  ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch.   EDU Facebook. Official Facebook.  Twitter.  Personal TikTok Travel, Art, and BTS TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Substack or check out my Writing Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K."  ___________________________ Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store The Stockroom - The Premier BDSM Store & Sponsor of How to Build a Sex Room on Netflix Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit | Brand Collaboration Request
S2. Ep. 9 - Dr. Stefani Goerlich - Kink, Vanilla, and everything in between!
03-11-2023
S2. Ep. 9 - Dr. Stefani Goerlich - Kink, Vanilla, and everything in between!
Can vanilla and kinky people mix? What kind of people are drawn to kink and BDSM to begin with? And what does cyber security have to do with kink? In this episode, we cover all these topics and so much more! I am beyond excited to bring on the show someone I’ve admired for several years, the award-winning author and certified sex therapist, Dr. Stefani Goerlich! Her new book, With Sprinkles on Top, covers everything vanilla people and their kinky partners need to know to communicate, explore, and connect and she’s here to share her expertise to help others grow and thrive! We also take a surprising detour and discuss the interaction of cyber security and sex tech! You don’t want to miss this episode! Links for this episode: Stefani’s Instagram   Website   Twitter   New Book: With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect Be sure to also check out her other books:   The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K."    Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! True Corsets - My favorite corset company! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
S2. - Ep. 8: Special Guest TammyJo Eckhart, Award Winning Kink Educator and Author
10-10-2023
S2. - Ep. 8: Special Guest TammyJo Eckhart, Award Winning Kink Educator and Author
I am so excited to bring you a special podcast with the award-winning Kink Educator, published author, and historian, Dr. TammyJo Eckhart! She has also been the Dominant in her poly-house since 1993 with experience in opening up, as well as coming out in the mainstream. Her work as a kink activist has helped to shed light on the relationship structures, and her dedication to writing is not only insightful but walks the line of BDSM, Kink, Sci-Fi, and Erotica. She's an eclectic and amazing human that I can't wait for you to meet!  Join us on Patreon for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: TammyJo's Patreon TammyJo on Instagram TammyJo's Facebook TammyJo's Twitter TammyJo's official website ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K."  Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! True Corsets - My favorite corset company! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
S2-Ep7: Guest Interview - Author & Founder of Submissive Guide
18-07-2023
S2-Ep7: Guest Interview - Author & Founder of Submissive Guide
From BDSM dynamics, taboo kinks, to an extensive guide to An*l play and safety, we get down and dirty in this episode! I've admired Luna's work on the submissiveguide.com , the leading educational resource online for submissives, for years and share her passion for bringing the world of BDSM and D/s to others in an accessible, researched-based, and comforting way. She has written dozens of BDSM guides and just released her newest addition, "Exploring Anal Pleasures: A Submissive's Guide to Anal Play and Training." which provides a step-by-step approach to incorporating anal; play into your submissive exploration. Come hangout out as we dive deep on the episode of The Submissive Next Door Podcast! Join us on Patreon for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: The Sub Guide on Patreon The Sub Guide on Instagram THe Sub Guide on Facebook The Sub Guide on Twitter The Website ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K."  Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! True Corsets - My favorite corset company! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
S2-Ep6: Special Guests: Christian Pan on Sex, Life, & Erotica
06-07-2023
S2-Ep6: Special Guests: Christian Pan on Sex, Life, & Erotica
What happens when you get two queer erotica authors in a room together? Let's find out!  In this episode, I welcome Christian Pan, a fantastical sexy-smart bisexual author of erotic fiction based in New York City! Since 2021 he has published 5 novels, 90 short stories, and numerous reviews of erotic fiction & nonfiction. Since 2022, he has been the Captain of the Queer Erotic Content Creators Club, a permanent A Club on Patreon. He is here to chat about the world of queer erotic fiction, from how erotica authors research sex scenes, to how the concept of "erotic" has changed over the years. This is by far one of the most intellectually stimulating conversations I've had and you don't want to miss it! Grab a drink, kick back, and join us for a deep chat on all things erotic! Join us on Patreon for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: Christian Pan's Patreon Christian's Instagram Christian's Facebook Christian's Twitter All his links ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K."  Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! True Corsets - My favorite corset company! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
S2 - Ep. 5: Amplifying Your Sex Life with Special Guest Susan Bratton
21-04-2023
S2 - Ep. 5: Amplifying Your Sex Life with Special Guest Susan Bratton
In this episode, I sit down with a special guest and intimacy expert to millions, Susan Bratton! She is a self-proclaimed "Orgasmanaut..." that travels to the outer reaches of human orgasmic potential to bring back the map to the territory of pleasure and connection. She's here to chat about some of the most common sexual issues in relationships today and how to amplify your sex life! Susan is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality. She is also a best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs, including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed™, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. She has also been featured in the New York Times, on CNBC and the TODAY show, as well as frequent appearances on ABC, CBS, The CW, and NBC. A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon  - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: Susan's official website The Pumping Guide  The Seduction Trilogy  Sexual Soulmate Pact Sex Life Bucket list Soulmate Embrace Better Lover Susan's Instagram  Susan's Facebook Susan's Twitter ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Come hang out on The MŌN App!  (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K."  Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all! True Corsets - My favorite corset company! Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
S2-Ep4: Special Guests: The Creators of Swinger University
18-04-2023
S2-Ep4: Special Guests: The Creators of Swinger University
Are you ready to swing to the other side? Or maybe you are just thinking about it? Whether you want to learn more about the swinging lifestyle to better support others or thinking about opening up your own relationship, Ed and Phoebe Swinger are resources you need to know! They are experts in opening up and getting out there! Not only that, they tell it like it is and give practical advice, as well as insights into what it is really like to be swingers today. They also help to coordinate events for those "swinging through life!" I had the honor of interviewing them and chatting about many of the frequently asked questions I get from those new to the world of CNM. So grab a drink and kick back with us while we chat about play parties, swinging, jealousy, and all the bits in between! A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon  - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: Follow them on Patreon Follow them on Instagram Follow them on Twitter Check out their site ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Come hang out on The MŌN App!  (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K."  Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________ Press News & Press | Media Kit
S2-Ep3: Special Guest - Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries
03-04-2023
S2-Ep3: Special Guest - Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries
What happens when the girls next door get together to chat about sex, BDSM, favorite punishments, sexcapades, and more? You will find out all about it in this episode! In this episode, I welcome special guest Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries! After living a life putting her sex life on the back burner, she woke up one day and decided to "stop wasting the pretty" and get out there! She created a sexual bucket list and set out to reclaim her sexuality and document it every step of the way! Listen as we discuss the freedom of sexual exploration, including her experiences as both a Submissive in the past to a Dominant today.  A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon and YouTube - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! You can check out the podcast page for this episode on my official website too! Links for this episode: Website: The Curious Girl Diaries Website (With exclusive extras!) Podcast: The Curious Girl Diaries on Apple  Instagram: Layla London on IG  Facebook: Layla London on FB  Twitter: Layla London on Twitter  YouTube: Layla London on YouTube ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter. Educational TikTok Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram Come hang out on The MŌN App!  (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K."  Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Shop my Amazon Store  1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech ___________________________
S2-Ep2: Guest Interview - Erotic Expression with Eleanor O'Brien
02-03-2023
S2-Ep2: Guest Interview - Erotic Expression with Eleanor O'Brien
Are you ready to get erotic? Join me with one of the coolest women I have been lucky enough to meet! Eleanor O'Brien is the creator of Stand Up Smut, and Dance Naked Creative. For over a decade, she has helped people tell their stories in a way that celebrates their sexuality, revels in it, explores it, and firmly believes no one should be punished for their curiosity. With an MFA at the University of San Diego, she has done everything from Shakespeare at the Old Globe Theater and auditioned for commercials, film, and tv, but something felt deeply unsatisfying to her.  Only when she wrote her first show, Dominatrix for Dummies did she realize what was missing! She wanted to make theater that mattered and had something to say; that helped people see different possibilities for their own lives. She wanted to make shows about sex and that is just what she's done! Grab your drink and kick back! You are in for one erotic ride! A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber!  You can check out the podcast page for this episode on my official website too! Links for this episode: Website: Dance Naked Creative and Stand Up Smut's Official Site Patreon: Eleanor's Offical Patreon  Instagram: Dance Naked Creative on Instagram Facebook: Dance Naked Creative on Facebook YouTube: Dance Naked Creative on YouTube ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter. Educational TikTok   Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram  Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram  Come hang out on The MŌN App!  (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K."  Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
S2, Ep. 1: Flipping The Script - The History and How-To of One of the Top Kinks Today
03-02-2023
S2, Ep. 1: Flipping The Script - The History and How-To of One of the Top Kinks Today
I am so happy to share this with you all! After a long hiatus, The Submissive Next Door Podcast has officially launched with an all-new season and weekly shows! Guests are lined up, juicy topics are flowing, there is an all-new sound and vibe to the show; and I'm so stoked about it! For the first episode, I am chatting with you about my most requested topic to date! The history and how-to of P★gging!  In today’s episode, the topics we are going to cover are: What pegging isWhere pegging came fromA little history about the strap-onStatistics about the popularity of pegging todayBenefits of peggingHow to tell your partner you want to try itGetting started with pegging for beginnersAftercareFinal thoughts and precautions Grab a drink, kick back, and lets get kinky! A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber!  You can check out the podcast page for this episode on my official website too! Links for this episode: Article: The Male G-Spot Article: Insights: Pegging Search Term on PornHub (please see the episode page for a direct link)  Article: Sex and the Prostate: Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction Article: The Prostate Orgasm: What it is Research Article: Pegging and the heterosexualization of anal sex: An analysis of Savage Love advice Additional Resources Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University Ways to Connect Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More! Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter. Educational TikTok   Personal TikTok Podcast Instagram  Modeling Instagram Witchy Book Love Instagram  Come hang out on The MŌN App!  (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles. Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K."  Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
Ep. 41 - BDSM & D/s Myths: Breaking Down Common Misconceptions
13-08-2022
Ep. 41 - BDSM & D/s Myths: Breaking Down Common Misconceptions
We have all heard some myths about BDSM, Kink, and D/s. For those in the communities, these can feel like a slap in the face and often result in shame that hurts on a deeper level than even humiliation play can reach. They also result in misunderstandings and total avoidance to learning more about the world of kink and BDSM to those new to this world. It's time to dispel some that have made their way across my desk recently and provide the research to disprove them, as well as insight into what it's really like in a consensual dynamic.  Links for this episode: Case Study: What Is So Appealing About Being Spanked, Flogged, Dominated, or Restrained? Answers from Practitioners of Sexual Masochism/Submission  published in the Journal of Sex Research Case Study: Curative Kink: Survivors of Early Abuse Transform Trauma through BDSM published in The Journal of Sexual and Relationship Therapy Case Study: A Systematic Scoping Review of the Prevalence, Etiological, Psychological, and Interpersonal Factors Associated with BDSM published in the Journal of Sex Research Case Study: Bondage- Discipline, Dominance - Submission and Sadomasochism (BDSM) From an Integrative Biopsychosocial Perspective: A Systematic Review  published in the Journal Of Sexual Medicine Book: The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Dr. Sefani Goerlich Article: 94 Non-Binary BDSM Names for Doms & Subs by Sunny Megatron Book: Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagowski Book: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk Book: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships by Stella Harris Book: Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz Book: Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Helen LaKelly Hunt  (Great info on the Imago Dialogue) Additional Resources: Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Site: AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: TASHRA's Research Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Site: Center for Positive Sexuality Site: Sexual Health Alliance  Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram  Twitch with me! LIVE  Digital Magazine - Intellectual Intoxication - Dr. K's Gallery Musings & Gallery  Dr. K's  Kink-Affirming Holistic Coaching Practice Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)  About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ep. 40 - More Sex or More Intimacy?
27-06-2022
Ep. 40 - More Sex or More Intimacy?
Let's talk about Libido... in particular, how do we overcome libido discrepancy? (i.e.: when one partner wants more sex than the other.) While we are at it, let's take it a step further and throw parenting, life, and a little kink into the mix! In this episode, I'm going to address an insightful question from a follower concerning how to talk to their partner about the tough subject of getting more sex when one partner isn't feeling it. I also take you on a deep dive into a conflict resolution technique called "The Imago Dialogue" (and how it can be used as check-in method for D/s dynamics), how this fits in with creating more responsive desire, as well as teach you how to find what your inner self actually needs from sex. I'll also give actionable steps to reframe what pleasure is, and build a container of safety that will help partners connect on a deeper level, even when sex isn't on the menu! Let's get going!   Links for this episode: Video Podcast Version  Dr. K's Imago-Inspired D/s Relationship Dialogue Script will be available on Patreon and her Online Center for Sexuality & Kink Education Book: Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagowski Book: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk Book: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships by Stella Harris Book: Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz Book: Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Helen LaKelly Hunt  (Great info on the Imago Dialogue) Site: The Imago Relationship Official Site   Additional Resources: Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: TASHRA's Research Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram  Twitch with me! LIVE  Digital Magazine - Intellectual Intoxication - Dr. K's Gallery Musings & Gallery  Dr. K's  Kink-Affirming Holistic Coaching Practice Additional Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)  About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ep 39. - Let's Talk About Stress & Masturbation + 15 Minute Guided Meditation
25-03-2022
Ep 39. - Let's Talk About Stress & Masturbation + 15 Minute Guided Meditation
Are you all as stressed out as I am these days? In this episode, I'm analyzing the science behind stress from the perspective of the Stress Response Cycle, and how our sexuality plays into it. In addition, I'm going to discuss different ways to combat it from a holistic approach, including a thoughtful discussion on how mindful masturbation can be used as a tool to aid in wellbeing and stress managementment. As a bonus, this episode includes a 15 minute Chakra balancing body-scan guided medication to help you achieve a restful state of bliss at the end of the day. Get comfy and a settle-in for some serious self-care tonight!    Links for this episode: Book: Burnout By Dr. Emily Nagoski  Forsale18's Positive Thots St. Patrick's Day special with Dr. K on Positive Thots Twitch Stream  Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: TASHRA's Research Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE  Digital Magazine - Intellectual Intoxication - Dr. K's Gallery Musings & Gallery  Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)  About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ep. 37 - A Little Neuroscience and BDSM With a Side of Kink
04-03-2022
Ep. 37 - A Little Neuroscience and BDSM With a Side of Kink
Are you ready to get down and nerdy with me? Good! And yes, you read the episode number right... I had a brain malfunction and skipped 37, so we are looping back around! In this episode, I take you on a deep dive discussion on the neuroscience of BDSM, the theories behind what makes kink and BDSM a positive experience to those who seek the endorphin rush, as well as the case studies around the prevalence of kink and BDSM today. Class is now in session! Links for this episode: Book: The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Stefani Goerlich Book: Why Good Sex Matters by Dr. Nan Wise Research Article: Physical Pain as Pleasure: A Theoretical Perspective by Cara Dunkley, Craig Henshaw, Saira Henshaw and Lori Brotto Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance) Site: TASHRA's Research Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Case Study Findings: The Health & Healthcare Experience of Kink-Oriented People (2016) Research Article: The Effect of Sexual Arousal and Emotional Arousal on Working Memory by Ricky Au, and Verity Tang Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE  Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)  About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! 1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ep. 38 - ADHD, Sexuality, & Kink
04-02-2022
Ep. 38 - ADHD, Sexuality, & Kink
Are you ready for an ADHD-infused conversation about ADHD? Good! Me too! This episode dives deep into Ari Tuckman's book "ADHD After Dark", case studies, and more, while I share the down and dirty details about how I handle my tendencies during those intimate moments. I'll also share highlights about my appearance on Forsale18's Twitch Stream, "Positive Thots", as well as everything I have found so far as I work on an academic literature review on ADHD & Sexuality. Get ready! This is a long episode! The video version of this episode is available on Patreon! Thank you for all your support! Links for this episode: ADHD After Dark by Ari Tuckman Positive Thots on Twitch with Forsale18 Research Article: Diagnosis, Assessment, and Treatment of Hypersexuality by Meg Kaplan Site Article: We have ADHD. This is How We Have a Lot of Sex Research Article: Hypersexuality: Psychopathology or normal variant of sexuality?  Site Article: When ADHD Disrupts (and ruins) the Romance Site Resource: ADHD and Marriage Site Article: My ADHD Brain and 4 Odd Things that Freak it Out Book Resource: Taming Your Gremlin (A Surprisingly Simple Method for Getting Out of Your Own Way) Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE  Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)  About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ep. 36 - Special Guest: Big Daddy on Dynamics, Scenes, and More!
14-01-2022
Ep. 36 - Special Guest: Big Daddy on Dynamics, Scenes, and More!
I am so excited to bring you this very special episode! Big Daddy is here and he opens up about D/s dynamics from a Dom's perspective, maintaining a dynamic during a pandemic while working overtime, favorite scenes, orgasms, consent, and so much more! We also bring y'all on a deep discussion about check-ins, favorite toys, and finding pleasure through rituals. Dismantling stereotypes, one sex-positive conversation at a time! Links for this episode: Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Dr. K's Official Website _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE  Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)  About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!   The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ep. 35 - Top 10 List of New Year's Resolutions to Make 2022 Pure Pleasure!
07-01-2022
Ep. 35 - Top 10 List of New Year's Resolutions to Make 2022 Pure Pleasure!
It's 2022 and I have a list of resolutions for you! In this episode, I'm going to not only go into an ADHD tangent or two (when don't I? lol) but also give you a list of my Top 10 New Year's Resolutions aimed to level up your pleasure, expand your mind, improve your self-confidence, and boost self-love! As always, grab your favorite drink, and let's chill!  Links for this episode: Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality  Journal of Sex Research    Journal of Marital and Sex Therapy Journal of Sexual Medicine American Journal of Sexuality Education Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships Archives of Sexual Behavior National Coalition of Sexual Freedom _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE  Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)  About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K’s Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!   The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!   Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ep. 34 - I'm Back! Updates, Courses, and a Critical Review of  Wheel of Time
07-01-2022
Ep. 34 - I'm Back! Updates, Courses, and a Critical Review of Wheel of Time
I'm back! In this episode, I'll explain my hiatus, what projects are in the works, a new course launching THIS WEEK for others looking to get into podcasting within the realm of sexual education,  and we chat about a few topics that sprang up for me while watching The Wheel of Time during a recent TV binge. From polyamory, sexism, to power dynamics I noticed in this Prime TV series that has me left with extremely mixed feelings. Come chill with your friendly neighborhood Submissive Next Door and get nerdy with me! Links for this episode: Wheel of Time on Amazon Here is another great critical review of Wheel of Time by The Mythcreants   And another from Tor.com   Wheel of Time on Rotton Tomatoes _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE  Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)  About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K’s Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!   The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!   Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ep. 33 - QA Time Communicating Kinks, Brat dynamics, and Anxiety within D/s
25-09-2021
Ep. 33 - QA Time Communicating Kinks, Brat dynamics, and Anxiety within D/s
QA with Dr. K! I swear, I have the best fans and followers around :) Y'all send in some of the best, most passionate questions that deserve much more in-depth answers than what I can often convey in a single comment or 1-minute clip. In this episode, I'm going to discuss some questions submitted from fans that range from methods and communication techniques for bringing up the idea of kink to partner, get in-depth about the exciting dynamics of brats and their tammers, and the more therapeutic aspects of D/s for anxiety and panic attacks.  Links for this episode: Article: How BDSM Might Benefit Your Health and Improve Your Relationship Dissertation: Negotiating Self: An Exploration of Women ' s Perceptions of Their Feminist and Submissive Identities   Article: BRAT BDSM: Everything You Want to Know About Brats   Article: A Dom's Guide to Panic Attacks and BDSM (caring for their sub) _____________________ Peep my NEW Instagram - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Patreon - Erotica, Audios, Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more and select photography projects! Twitch with me! LIVE Every Tuesday and Thursday at 10am PST (1pm EST) Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)  About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech   Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K’s Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!   The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Ep. 32 - All About Smut
23-09-2021
Ep. 32 - All About Smut
The inner mind of an erotica writer is a strange and adventurous place... and when you combine that with a nerdy service sub with brat tendencies, well.. you get an episode like this! 😅 In this episode, we are going to take a trip down the rabbit hole and see what kind of fetishes, kinks (like Acousticophilia and Autagonistophilia), and provocative prose we find! I'll tell you about my newest paranormal erotica, "Dark Heat", the deliciousness I found while researching new kinks to write about, and give you just a taste of the audio version of the book!  WARNING: THIS EPISODE (like all my episodes really 😅) IS INTENDED FOR 18+ AND IS EXPLICIT IN NATURE. pst... you can also check out the video version! Links for this episode: A Kinky Fetish Dictionary Peep my NEW Instagram - Regular IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Patreon - Erotica, Audios, Kink Workshops, Courses, Merch, Discounts, and more and select photography projects! Twitch with me! LIVE Every Tuesday and Thursday at 10am PST (1pm EST) Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)  About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech   Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K’s Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!   The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links