I'm joined by Brianna McCabe, author of "The Red Flags I Repeatedly Ignored" to discuss why it's so important to consider our role in the things that happen to us. We chat about how our self-worth, friendships, and alcohol consumption all relate to the dating and relationship experiences we have, and why it's incredibly important to look within at our personal red flags. We discuss behaviors we've exhibited in the past that we're horrified about now, why the answers are always right there in front of us, and why college drinking and hookup culture has gotten out of hand.  Get "The Red Flags I Repeatedly Ignored" on Amazon!  Unlock Jennifer-Anniston-Approved hair at Lolavie.com and get 15% off with code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE at checkout Find your new uniform at Jenni Kayne with promo code SOP for 15% off jennikayne.com  Get 50% off Factor’s delicious, ready-to-eat meals with code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE50 at factormeals.com/seeingotherpeople50  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices