Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx at chop it up with J Prez, mistaeastcoast Craig, Tina from Splash Mocha and a few more guest. Sex, laughs , and flogging. Just Tune in and enjoy!!!!!! Sorry the feed got cut at the end so if you were not with us live you missed it forever! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Mrs. Mocha is Back and joined by.... Angel Minx, Siren, Coco and more talk dirty at Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Nothing like sexy ladies talkin about sex sex and more sex. In classic Dirty girls style they are wide open, all over the place, and Fun as hell to listen to!!!!!!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx pregame at the Splash Mocha live the day before it kicks off. They start off with DFW Goliath and Craig and are invaded by Mrs. Mocha , Angel Minx, Coco and more! The pregame show was all over the place and yet it is a great listen and will get you primed and ready for the following shows! Enjoy!!!!!!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

On this episode. Mr. Mocha and the rest of the panel welcome guest contributors Doyle and Socrates.The guests share their personal stories on the cause of low or no self love. They share the effects that has had on their ability to deal with rejection both in and out of the lifestyle. Doyle contributes with his perspective on going down the rabbit hole of self doubt and how easily it is to fall into negative patterns when you lack an affirming upbringing.  Mr. Mocha by comparison shares his own experience of self love and confidence which was grown with his fathers guidance. They also discuss how self talk affects your self esteem and how to change your self talk to boost your self esteem. They round out the discussion by talking about rejection and all its inner and outer workings. How males rejecting each other has an effect but also remembering that a NO right now may not mean NO forever. Come along with this group of experienced lifestyle men as they dive deep into male emotions and experiences. #LowSelfEsteem#FearOfRejection#swingers  #theLifestyle#LifestyleJourney #swingerEducation #lifestyleRejection  #MenAndTheirEmotions#THeMaleEmotionalJourney --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Mr. and Mrs. Mocha interview Wayne and Tina 3 days before Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Get it from the Owners mouth. What is Splash Mocha ? Where did it start? and How did it evolve? What makes Splash different from other events? And get personal and Learn about Splash Mocha's owner Wayne and his wife's intro into the Lifestyle. Customer service manager Tina shares her and her husbands LS intro and how they met Wayne and his wife. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Let's talk about it!  Mrs. Mocha invites Salacious Scarlet from the Slut Sisters to share in a discussion about new advancements in sexual health. We are sharing our lived experience as sexually empowered women who take excellent care of our sexual health. Stigma surrounding STI's contributes to sex negativity in our culture. Topics discussed include: PrEP for HIV preventionDoxyPEP, a revolutionary new treatment protocol that provides post exposure prophylaxis for bacterial STI's such as Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and Syphilis.Vaginal health products for the ladies that promote healthy ph and vaginal microbiome. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Part 2 with Drew Marston. Mr. Mocha and Drew talk finding the right couples. What he looks for and what he avoids. Understanding bonds and boundaries. Responding to having personal boundaries push.... and so much more! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Drew Marston is an experience Bull in the lifestyle as well as the founder and publisher of Spades Magazine. This is the first in a series of interviews with Drew. In this episode Mr. Mocha gets Drew's origin story. How he found the Ls, how long he's been in the LS, and his journey from rookie single guy to successful BBC Bull! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Dive into single male etiquette with Mr. Mocha and Q as they discuss the dynamics and roles for single men in the lifestyle. Mr. Mocha discusses the various roles, relationships and dynamics in the lifestyle and how the single male interacts with each one. They take you step by step from building a profile on lifestyle sites, approach, managing and responding to rejection and knowing how to read a room.  They encourage observation and the importance of being selective. #theLifestyle  #Swingers  #Interracial Swinging #Pineapple  #upsidedownpineapple #LifestyleEmotionalIntelligence #SwingerCommunity #lifestyleEducation #swingerEducation #slutsisters #EmotionalSupportGroup #cuckold #StagandVixen #cuckoldCouples #Unicorns  #Hotwives  #lifestyleRejection --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Come along for the ride as Mr and Mrs Mocha take us on their journey through the lifestyle and the art of sport F*cking. Hear how they manage  their challenges with juggling life's responsibilities, children and jobs to make time for play! They discuss the ins and outs, and ups and downs of growing through their lifestyle experiences from hosting parties, attending events to going to clubs and solo play experiences. The biggest game changer being the Splash Mocha events. Learn the importance of checking in with yourself and communicating with your significant other in order to keep the lifestyle fun and entertaining without causing unnecessary issues. Listen along as they discuss the various interactions they have had with couples and other play partners.  And we know you are dying to hear how Mr. Mochas "BIG Dick" created challenges during play! Single or a part of a couple we know you will gain something from this experienced duo that you can apply to your own lifestyle journey. #Upsidedownpineapple  #swingers  #theLifestyle  #lifestyleterms #swingerEducation #lifestyleEducation  #LifestyleJourney #pegging #Kink --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

On this episode, Mr. Mocha and Michael C the host of the keys and anklets podcast invite us into their conversation on the subject of BBC. The conversation is sparked by a black female author who finds the term offensive and objectifying. They cover the history of the term BBC and how the term has been used throughout American history. Also discussed …how men of all races view being  “objectified “ by women and the perspective of black men’s views on the term BBC . Is it truly the objectification of black men or is it simply a description and fetish?They discuss how to approach guys with a BBC in a diplomatic and complimentary manner. The conversation is wrapped up by inviting any black men who have played interracially BUT do NOT like to be called BBC to comment but to also beware that they will be called out if they have taken advantage of that fetish. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Mr. Mocha, Mr. Minx Join Pagan, and guests as they discuss the affects of growing up in strict cultural and religious families. They tackle tough topics head on …follow their journeys on how they overcame the fear, guilt and judgements of organized religion with a focus on how religion affects our values, judgements and choices in the LS! #ReligionInTheLifestyle#ethicalNon-Monogamy#theLifestyle #Pineapple #Upsidedownpineapple#swingers#lifestyleEducation#swingerEducation#Cuckold #RelgionsAndEthicalNonMonogamy#ReligeousCults --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Part 4 in this continued series on emotional intelligence for men, Mr. Mocha, Mr. Minx, Craig McKenny & guests, describe Pre-nut vs post nut brain. They also cover a wide range of male emotions and reactions including, your brain trying to resolve unresolved issues through dreams, Jealousy and envy amongst single men, Bad actions from single men, and Dealing with rejection. They also dive into specific management techniques for the Cuck vs. bull. Also covered are The Lifestyle Journey for new couples. Specifically being open to your partner’s undiscovered fantasies, lifestyle specific desires and giving your spouse the gift of true honesty. Wrapping up the session with a Q & A for our listeners. You won’t want to miss a minute!  #ethicalNon-Monogamy#theLifestyle #Pineapple #Upsidedownpineapple#swingers#jealousy #the7DeadlySins#LifestyleEmotionalIntelligence #lifestyleEducation#swingerEducation#Cuckold  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Part 3. In this episode we continue to discuss emotional intelligence for men in the lifestyle (Cuckholds, Bulls, Married men and Manicorns)*Creating a “safe space" for men to talk about their feelings*What are the underline issues of what you are feeling *The importance of support groups, fellowships and / or mentoring to help men in the lifestyle *Managing expectations *The ability to be vulnerable and the “Process” of vulnerability*How unresolved emotional issues will come out in the lifestyle*We hear from the audience and “Slut Sisters” on their take on emotional intelligence for men in the Lifestyle *How respect is the cornerstone of lifestyle*Ownership of couples *Dealing with negative or unwanted emails #theLifestyle#Cuckhold #stagAndVixen#Swingers #Interracial #Swinging#Pineapple #upsidedownpineapple#LifestyleEmotionalIntelligence #TheManCode #ethicalNon-Monogamy#EmotionalManagement#LifestyleEmotionalManagement #HardConversations#HardConversationsintheLS#CommunicationinSwinging#SwingerCommunity#lifestyleEducation#swingerEducation#EmotionalSupportGroup --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

In this continuation of “Men and their emotions with Mr. Mocha and Lupe Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx discuss how men can navigate their emotions in the Ethical Non-Monogamous Lifestyle They discuss the “Active Seeking of the Knowledge” How do you deal with the feelings of watching your wife play or interact with another male. How do men manage their emotions when seeing their partner being pleased by other men in a way that you haven’t or when the play is even better then yours. How to develop Emotional intelligence for men in the Lifestyle And How to build a strong foundation with your S/O in the lifestyle --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Mr. Mocha and Mike C from the Keys and Anklets podcast finally record a random conversation. Mr. Mocha and Mike C spends hours in random conversation . After every chat they both say.... we should have recorded that. Half way thru a conversation they agreed to record and share! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Mr. Mocha chat with Demetri Vc about what a Cuckold couple should expect from his as a Bull. He talks sexual boundaries and kinks. They also speak on his introduction to content and why prefers Lifestyle creator. They take a moment to answer questions from listeners on twitter spaces. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

We all have emotions but how do we manage them ? Mr. Mocha and Lupe chat about the male emotional state when dealing with different thing men experience in the lifestyle. Lupe shares a moment of insecurity after watching his wife Micha's response to a guy that she was sexually attracted to. This episode was recorded live on twitter spaces with interactions from listeners. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Mr. Mocha shares with the listeners how he share the experience when Mrs. Mocha has a playdate. He talks about his feeling from and their interactions for the time she plans her date until the date is over. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support

Mrs. Mocha's back in action... Kinda. After missing the friend, excitement, and sex of the party for a few events we are back. On this episode we talk about being back in the thick of it. The Mocha's share what they did and saw. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ofacez/support