Calling In Sick

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by Dr. Erin Nance — board-certified orthopedic hand/wrist surgeon, founder of FeelBetr, and author of Little Miss Diagnosed: A Surgeon’s Guide to Breaking Bones and Bending Rules. She’s not just a medical provider — she’s a disruptor who deeply understands the trauma of being dismissed and misdiagnosed in modern medicine. Together, we dig into: ⭐ Why women’s symptoms are often dismissed — and the phrase “you’re just anxious” is still weaponized ⚠️ Why chronic illness diagnosis timelines lag — and how to advocate when you’re not being heard 🤝 How to use online communities, forums and social media safely to get answers and avoid misinformation ⚕️What practical phrases & scripts you can use at your appointment to avoid getting dismissed 🌍 The broader health crisis behind infertility and slow population growth… and why it’s not “women choosing careers” Whether you’ve been gaslit in the exam room, dismissed for your symptoms, or want to know how to build a better care team — this one’s for you. xx, Alex 💬 Comment Prompt: What’s the *most* gaslight-y thing a medical provider has ever said to you? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:02:10 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Mayfair, Weezie) 00:02:57 Introduction to Dr. Erin Nance 00:04:54 The most surprising thing Dr. Nance learned through social media  00:07:55 Dr. Nance’s FeelBetr platform 00:12:18 What practical phrases & scripts you can use at your appointment to avoid getting dismissed 00:14:54 How to use online communities, forums and social media safely to get answers and avoid misinformation 00:17:30 The broader health crisis behind infertility and slow population growth… and why it’s not “women choosing careers” 00:22:40 Hope is the most powerful drug 00:26:45 Why chronic illness diagnosis timelines lag — and how to advocate when you’re not being heard 00:42:34 Why women’s symptoms are often dismissed — and the phrase “you’re just anxious” is still weaponized 00:44:17 One Brain Cell Show: Summer House 00:46:22 Thank you for listening!!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Mayfair — https://go.shopmy.us/p-21890021 ✨Weezie — https://go.shopmy.us/p-18479099 Episode Resources: Dr. Nance’s App, Feelbetr — https://www.feelbetr.health/ Dr. Nance’s Ted Talk (7-Stages of Misdiagnosis) — https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dhs9wg1yN_s #callinginsick #chronicillness #medicalgaslighting #misdiagnosis #chronicpain #spoonielife #healthjourney #doctorstories #autoimmunedisease #ptsd #fertilityissues #medicaldismissal #mentalhealth #invisibleillness #selfadvocacy #healingjourney #chronicfatigue #spooniesupport #medicaltrauma #littlemissdiagnosed #erinNance #alexwildeson #healthcarebias #populationshift #patientadvocacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m pulling back the curtain on something I’ve never really talked about in depth: trauma therapy. Not wellness aesthetic therapy. Not “journal and manifest” therapy. Real, gritty, life-interrupting trauma therapy. In this episode, I’m sharing: 🧠 What trauma therapy actually is — and why I started ⚠️ Why I was afraid when life started to feel… good 💊 How my mindset has changed on medical trauma & how it affects my daily life 🛑 If I think trauma therapy is financially, physically and emotionally worth it From childhood illness to hospital PTSD, I’ve carried more “little t” trauma, or what I thought was “little t” trauma, than I realized… and trauma therapy has helped me stop minimizing it. This isn’t a step-by-step guide or a promise of a fix. It’s just me, sharing what I’ve learned so far. So whether you’re considering therapy, afraid to open that door, or deep in your own healing arc — this episode is for you. Sending my love, as always! xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s one thing therapy helped you realize… even if you weren’t ready to hear it? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:00:30 Life catch-up + why I’m finally ready to talk about this00:01:43 What is trauma therapy, why I started it 00:03:25 How I found my trauma therapist & my tips for you! 00:04:43 Lesson 1: My BIGGEST surprise with little T versus big T trauma! 00:08:04 Lesson 2: Fear things getting good?! Here’s my number one tip!!! 00:09:28 Lesson 3: How to NOT spiral in “what if’s”! 00:15:24 Is trauma therapy worth it?? Thoughts on the financial, emotional and physical impact 00:17:44 How my trauma therapy protocol is protecting me from physical flare ups!!! 00:18:35 Alex’s Picks of the Week (LOL I forgot to do them at the top — Tilt Beauty & Perelel) 00:19:50 One Brain Cell TV Show Pick of the Week00:21:24 LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Tilt Beauty — https://go.shopmy.us/p-21846268 — use “ALEXANDRA15” for 15% off at checkout! ✨Perelel Symbiotic Greens Powder — https://go.shopmy.us/p-21878658— use “ALEXANDRA” for 15% off at checkout! #podcast #podcastclips #chronicillness #autoimmunedisease #chronicpain #chronicfatigue #spoonielife #healthjourney #callinginsick #spooniesupport #chronicillnessawareness #medicaljourney #disabilityawareness #survivalmode #identityshift #traumatherapy #ptsd #medicaltrauma #mentalhealth #spoonie #alexwildeson #traumahealing #invisibleillness #selfadvocacy #mindbodyconnection #medicalgaslighting #cptsd #healingjourney #therapytools Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by  ⁨@miraclman31⁩  -- podcaster, speaker, and survivor of one of the rarest neurological conditions on earth: Locked-In Syndrome from Acute Toxic Progressive Leukoencephalopathy (ATPL). Jake’s story is raw, gripping, and—somehow—hilarious .We’re digging into: 🧠 What the mind does when you’re fully aware but can’t move 💥 The absurdity of pain, and the power of humor in surviving it ☁️ What near-death teaches you about presence, faith, and the fragility of life 🪫 Why full recovery might be the wrong goal—and what really matters in healing Whether you’ve lived through something unbelievable or you just feel unseen in your pain, this episode is your reminder: the human spirit is feral in the best way. And you? You’re more resilient than you think. xx, Alex Comment: What’s a moment where you felt completely alone in your pain — and what got you through it? TIMESTAMPS:  00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick!  00:03:10 Introduction to Jake Haendel & Locked-In Syndrome 00:29:45 Jake’s self talk while he was locked-in for 10 months 00:46:15 A tiny movement in Jake’s wrist that lead to recovery  00:50:25 Jake’s mental health & struggle with addiction  00:59:15 Near death experiences & religion  01:12:10 One Brain Cell Show: The Wire, documentaries & standup  01:18:08 Thank you for listening! Connect with Jake & Discover his App! • Jake on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miraclman31/?hl=en • AHOI, a platform to discover accessible places & navigate the world with ease -- https://ahoimate.com/ ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack -  https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Pain Bandaids: https://shopmy.us/collections/746944 #CallingInSickPodcast #JakeHaendel #LockedInSyndrome #ChronicIllnessWarrior #PainManagement #SurvivorStory #MedicalTrauma #InvisibleIllness #DarkHumorHeals #FeralResilience #SpoonieCommunity #RareDiseaseAwareness #ChronicPainLife #MentalHealthAndIllness #DisabilityAdvocate #YoureNotAlone #ResilienceStory #HealingJourney #SurvivingTheUnthinkable #LifeAfterIllness #PodcastClip #WellnessPodcast #StorytimePodcast #RawAndReal #EmotionalAF #HealthStory #UnbelievableSurvivor #PainAndHumor #HumanSpirit #ChronicIllnessPodcast #AlexWildeson #podcast #medicalgaslighting #chronicillness #callinginsick #anxietymisdiagnosis #selfadvocacy #healthjourney #doctorstories #spoonielife #autoimmunedisease #dismissedagain #womenshealth #patientadvocacy #selfadvocacymatters #justanxious #tiktokmedicine #medicalbias #healthmisinformation #callinginsickpodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by the one and only Dr. Karan Rajan (@dr-karan-explores) — NHS surgeon, educator, and one of the most trusted voices cutting through health misinformation on TikTok. This episode is all about the emotional and medical consequences of constant dismissal and gaslighting — especially for women and people with chronic illness. When you’re told “it’s just anxiety” over and over again, it’s no wonder so many patients turn to the internet in search of answers. And unfortunately? The internet doesn’t always get it right. We’re digging into: 💭 Why “you’re just anxious” has become medicine’s favorite (and a dangerous) catch-all 🧠 How being dismissed by doctors leads patients toward TikTok, Instagram, and wellness rabbit holes 🔍 Why some unlicensed “experts” thrive online — and how to navigate health content without shame or pseudoscience 🗣️ Real advice for self-advocacy at medical appointments 💚 The one thing Dr. Karan wishes medicine had more of Whether you’ve walked out of a doctor’s office questioning your reality, or found yourself spiraling through symptoms, supplements, and side effects — this episode is your reminder: You’re not alone. You’re not dramatic. You’re not just anxious. xx, Alex This week, let us know... What’s a moment you knew something was wrong — but no one believed you? TIMESTAMPS:  00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick!  00:02:40 Alex’s Picks of the Week 00:05:50 Introduction to Dr. Karan Rajan 00:21:15 How being dismissed by doctors leads patients toward TikTok, Instagram, and wellness rabbit holes 00:34:15 Why “you’re just anxious” has become medicine’s favorite (and a dangerous) catch-all 00:44:50 Why some unlicensed “experts” thrive online — and how to navigate health content without shame or pseudoscience 00:54:30 Viral medical misconceptions  01:12:30 One Brain Cell Shows: The Sandman 01:16:00 Thank you for listening!  ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack -  https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Lotus Wei — https://www.lotuswei.com/alexandrawildeson ✨Clevr Strawberry Matcha — https://clevrblends.com/AWILDESON — AWILDESON for 15% off all orders!!! ✨YumeRest Duvet — https://go.shopmy.us/p-21120056 #podcast #medicalgaslighting #chronicillness #callinginsick #anxietymisdiagnosis #selfadvocacy #healthjourney #doctorstories #alexwildeson #spoonielife #autoimmunedisease #dismissedagain #womenshealth #patientadvocacy #selfadvocacymatters #justanxious #tiktokmedicine #medicalbias #healthmisinformation #callinginsickpodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to Calling in Sick — and buckle up because this week? Saint Cooper is back!!! We're calling these the Chaos Episodes™, because that's exactly what it is: one part love story, one part medical update, and several parts unhinged. This week we’re diving into: 💖 How we have fun as a couple even when chronic illness is center stage 🐊 Animal therapy and my current backyard lizard obsession ☕️ My caffeine addiction & our beige flags for each other 📺 Headed to the big screen!!! 🐶 Our thoughts on pet insurance and if it’s scam or savior? 🧠 Trauma therapy, pain management updates, and prednisone It’s chaotic, it’s cozy, it’s just what you expect from Calling in Sick. So thanks for hanging with us again — don’t forget to DM us your couch recs and tell us where you stand on the pet insurance debate. xx, Alex & Coops 💬 Comment: What’s your take on pet insurance?! ** GIVEAWAY ON SOCIALS IN PARTNERSHIP WITH THE HIDDEN DISABILITY SUNFLOWER PROJECT ** Giveaway includes HDS gear + airline gift card!  ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack -  https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Grove Co. — https://go.shopmy.us/p-20737557 — ALEXANDRA25 for 25% off all orders +$75!!! #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #selfadvocacy #medicalbias #vasculitis #mixedconnectivetissuedisease #ibd #irritableboweldisease #trauma #ptsd #mentalhealthmatters #findjoy #glimmers #guiltforjoy #endometriosis #lupus #MS #chronicfatiguesyndrome #eds  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to another week of Calling in Sick! The past two episodes were all about setting boundaries with ourselves so we can choose joy more often. And this week? Let’s just say I’m still paying off my Spoonie Jail invoice… and unfortunately, there’s no early release for good behavior. 😅 When flare days stretch into flare weeks (or months), it starts to feel like you’re living the same day over and over again. I call it the Chronic Illness Groundhog Day effect — and I know I’m not alone. This week, I’m breaking down: 🧠 Why time gets weird when you're sick (yep, there's actual neuroscience behind it) 😵‍💫 The “oops-I-had-fun” crash cycle + how to set better boundaries with yourself 🌟 My go-to brain hack to feel momentum—even from bed (escape the loop!) ✨ A peek into my new “Come With Me” series for chronic-illness-friendly escapes Whether you’re stuck on the couch or just tired of feeling stuck, this convo is your permission slip to reclaim time, joy, and a little sparkle! Thanks for Calling in Sick with me again! xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s one micro-novelty you’re trying this week? Join the challenge on social media!!! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:06:30 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Typology Paris Self-Tanning Trio, True Botanicals Glow Drops, Olive & June Press-On Nails, Paint by Numbers) 00:10:48 The Groundhog Day Effect 00:16:55 Introducing micro-novelties 00:20:10 How I discovered go-to brain hack to feel momentum 00:25:35 One Brain Cell Show of The Week: Clarkson’s Farm 00:26:45 LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Typology Paris Self-Tanning Trio — https://go.shopmy.us/p-20574989 ✨True Botanicals Glow Drops — https://go.shopmy.us/p-20403404 ——— Buy at The Detox Market Online and Get 15% off at checkout with code ALEXWILDDETOX15 ✨Olive & June Press-On Nails — https://go.shopmy.us/p-15896419 ✨Paint by Numbers (Paint Anywhere) — https://go.shopmy.us/p-20403274 #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #selfadvocacy #medicalbias #vasculitis #mixedconnectivetissuedisease #ibd #irritableboweldisease #trauma #ptsd #mentalhealthmatters #findjoy #glimmers #guiltforjoy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Last week, we talked about giving ourselves permission to have fun — but this week? We’re swinging the pendulum back the other way. Because I made zero adjustments and just had fun… which was great until it wasn’t. Truth is, one of the hardest people to set boundaries with is actually ourselves. In this episode, I talk through what it looks like to chase joy, crash hard, and try to recover without beating yourself up. Spoiler alert: I’m recording this after two straight days of IVIG, so I’m right in the thick of it. Here’s what we get into: 🚷 Why we need to set boundaries with ourselves to make life sustainable 🧳 The “oops I had fun and now I’m in spoon jail” cycle 🌿 Ottine road trips, mineral springs, and my new “Come With Me” content series 🪑 The adjustments I’m making in real time This one’s for the people who are 0 or 100, all or nothing, go-go-go until your joints give out. You’re not lazy. You’re not failing. You’re just human — and that’s more than enough. Thanks for Calling in Sick with me, again 💛 xx, Alex Comment: What’s one boundary you’re learning to set with yourself lately? Need to catch up on last week's episode? Here! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:00:30 Alex Life Updates! 00:03:00 Alex’s Picks of the Week! (discount code & links below) 00:04:28 The asterisk that should come after “Just Have Fun!” 00:06:00 How I allocate spoons (aka my energy!!) 00:11:30 Why I landed myself in sick chick jail this week (sorry for having a good time!!!) 00:15:43 Introducing My New Content Series, Come With Me!! 00:20:10 What Boundaries I’m Putting Up Against Myself 00:23:05 One Brain Cell TV: Your Friends & Neighbors (Apple) 00:28:06 LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack -  https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨The Detox Market — https://go.shopmy.us/p-19681555 ———- ALEXWILDDETOX15 for 15% off at checkout! ✨Tower 28, SOS Line — https://go.shopmy.us/p-19830687 #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #selfadvocacy #medicalbias   #vasculitis #mixedconnectivetissuedisease #ibd #irritableboweldisease #trauma #ptsd #mentalhealthmatters #findjoy #glimmers #guiltforjoy  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m back on the mic this week after a little solo pod pause — and I’m kicking things off with something I’ve been thinking about (and living) a lot lately: joy guilt. You know that old rule: “If you’re too sick to go to school, you’re too sick to have fun?” Yeah, that one. Turns out, it doesn’t translate to life with chronic illness. But we still carry it — and it quietly shapes how we see ourselves, how we mask, and how we justify joy when we’re supposed to be struggling. In this episode, I dig into: 💭 Why we fear being seen laughing or “doing too well” 😰 The guilt spiral when symptoms shift — and the fear of not being believed 🎭 How chronic illness can force us to perform misery to protect our empathy 🔥 The lies we were taught about rest, pain, and productivity 🩵 And the truth: Joy is not a betrayal. It’s part of the healing You don’t need to earn your joy. You don’t have to be falling apart to rest. You are not required to apologize for your life, your sparkle, or your softness. So f*@k it — I’m having fun. And I hope you will too. Thanks for Calling in Sick with me 💛 xx, Alex 💬 Comment : Have you ever felt like you had to downplay your joy just to be taken seriously? TIMESTAMPS: TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! (Baby I’m Back for a SOLO!!) 00:02:55 Alex Life Updates! 00:4:08 Alex’s Picks of the Week! (discount code & links below) 00:6:12 Why does having fun feel WRONG when you’re chronically sick?! 00:11:02 How to shed the guilt we feel when we have fun! 00:14:16 Why it’s important to live a full life, in my humble opinion ;) 00:15:42 My number one tip for spending happy spoons!! 00:19:40 One Brain Cell TV: Conan O’Brian Award Ceremony 00:22:22 LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack -  https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Ursa Major’s Facial Wipes — https://go.shopmy.us/p-19427967 ✨Oliva Flora’s Entire Face Care Set — https://go.shopmy.us/p-19668471 ———- callinginsick10 for 10% off at checkout! #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #selfadvocacy #medicalbias   #vasculitis #mixedconnectivetissuedisease #ibd #irritableboweldisease #trauma #ptsd #mentalhealthmatters #findjoy #glimmers #guiltforjoy  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by the one and only, Sasha Pieterse-Sheaffer — who you might know from her starting role in Pretty Little Liars or Inherent Vice. Today, Sasha spends her time as an actor, podcaster, founder, advocate, and fellow chronic illness warrior. We sat down and talked about her real life plot twist: getting diagnosed with PCOS and epilepsy, navigating autoimmune symptoms, and redefining herself while the world was watching. We also chat:🎥 What it was like getting sick in the public eye, without a formal diagnosis🗞 The internet’s reaction to body changes — and reclaiming the narrative👶 Motherhood, identity shifts, and the “new you” that chronic illness brings💬 The mantras, mindsets & moments that get her through the hard stuff Sasha shares her raw truth about rebuilding trust with her body, the hardest lessons she’s learned, and the surprising silver linings she’s found along the way. Whether you're in the thick of chasing a diagnosis or learning to live life on new terms, this episode is a gentle reminder: you are not alone, and healing doesn’t mean going back — it means going forward as someone new. Thanks for Calling in Sick with us 💛xx,Alex 💬 Comment prompt for socials:What’s one thing chronic illness has taught you about who you are? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick!  00:01:44 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Merit, SuperGoop) 00:03:01 Introduction to Sasha Pieterse-Sheaffer (PCOS & epilepsy) 00:10:20 What it was like getting sick in the public eye, without a formal diagnosis 00:34:43 Motherhood, identity shifts, and the “new you” that chronic illness brings 00:49:10 The mantras, mindsets & moments that get her through the hard stuff 01:12:12 Thank you for listening!  ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Merit, The Uniform Tinted SPF 45 — https://go.shopmy.us/p-19230899 ✨SuperGoop Glow Oil SPF 50 — https://go.shopmy.us/p-14387605 Guest Information: • Find her on IG - https://www.instagram.com/sashapieterse/?hl=en • Listen to her Podcast, Women in the Nude - https://www.youtube.com/sashapieterse • Shop her Beverage, Hippie Water - https://www.hippiewater.com/ • Checkout HotStart VC - https://www.hotstart.vc/ #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #SashaPieterse #CallingInSickPodcast #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneAwareness #PCOSAwareness #MotherhoodAndIllness #SpoonieSupport #IdentityShift #InvisibleIllness #ChronicIllnessWarrior #SpoonieLife #MentalHealthMatters #HealingJourney #ChronicFatigue #BodyChanges #MedicalGaslighting #WomensHealth #ReclaimYourBody ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re getting grounded, energized, and totally fascinated by the ancient wisdom of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM). I’m joined by Dr. Jennifer Ashby — a TCM doctor at UCSF — to explore the intersection of Eastern and Western care for whole-person healing. We get into the foundational teachings of TCM, the biggest surprises patients experience when they first try it, and how it’s being used right now in hospital settings like UCSF (yes, really!!). We also talk: 📣 Why TCM is so much more than acupuncture & herbs 🧠 The reason why TCM doesn’t separate mind, body & spirit 🌊 Micro-changes that have macro impacts to our health 📦 Why what you think impacts how you feel Whether you’re new to holistic wellness or just tired of treating symptoms without addressing the why — this one’s full of grounding insight, accessible tools, and (as always) a little cozy chaos. Extra benefit... Dr. Ashby is one of the most relaxing humans I've had the pleasure of being around... she is Xanax in human form. Thanks for Calling In Sick with us 💛 xx,Alex 💬 Comment: Have you ever tried acupuncture, herbs, or any form of Eastern medicine? What was your experience? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:02:44 Alex’s Picks of The Week (Four Sigmatic Golden Latte, Coracle Water Bottle) 00:04:04 Welcome Dr. Jennifer Ashby 00:07:10 Dr. Ashby’s approach: Eastern and Western care for whole-person healing 00:32:30 Accessible tools for learning about TCM 00:42:50 Understanding cause and effect in health 00:46:10 Dr. Ashby asks my top 2-3 things for a healthy day 00:49:30 The Epic 8: 8 habits for longevity and well-being 01:07:15 Mastering habit changes for better health 01:13:30 One Brain Cell TV: Joe Coy, White Lotus 01:16:10 LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson -- https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Four Sigmatic Golden Latte — https://amzn.to/4dM5LMg ✨Coracle Water Bottle — https://go.shopmy.us/p-18936532 Links from the Episode: • Lymphatic Class - https://www.dailyom.com/courses/science-based-lymphatic-drainage-rescue/ • Detox Class - https://www.dailyom.com/courses/drain-unhealthy-toxins-from-your-body/ • Dr. Ashby’s Epic 8 Class - https://www.drjenniferashby.com/epic-8-course-interest • Daily Om’s 3-Day Virtual Global Summit - https://live.dailyom.com/global-summit/ ✨Use code “3017” for 50% off all 3 days!! Guest Information: • Work with Dr. Ashby - https://www.drjenniferashby.com/ • Follow Dr. Ashby - https://www.instagram.com/drjenashby/?hl=en #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #zachspiritos #neurology #gastroenterology #immunology #selfadvocacy #medicalbias #clinicalstudy #clinicaltrial #vasculitis #mixedconnectivetissuedisease #ibd #irritableboweldisease #trauma #ptsd #mentalhealthmatters #traditionalchinesemedicine #easternmedicine #wholepersonhealth #accupuncture Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to Calling in Sick — this week you’re in for a little peak into my life. Saint Cooper, my husband and sporadic co-host, is back for round two of two brain cells and one microphone. He try to keep me emotionally grounded while I spiral through a whirlwind of updates. This episode is cozy chaos. We cover grief, gratitude, gut health, identity shifts, and TV trash — with a few laughs and “did we overshare?” moments sprinkled in. We talk about: 💉 What it’s actually like to participate in a clinical study ✈️ My first solo trip in years (and why it lowkey changed me) 🧠 A raw mental health check-in post-trial If you’ve ever been in a season of transition, medical mayhem, or re-entry into life after a hard thing... this one’s for you. Thanks for Calling In Sick with us 💛 xx, Alex (& Coop) 💬 Comment: Should we keep making chaos episodes like this? What should we name this subseries?! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! (featuring St. Cooper) 00:05:43 Reflecting on my time in Philly during the clinical study 00:11:40 My first solo trip in years – the experience and what it taught me (and why I decided to bring my service dog) 00:17:20 Diving into my clinical study experience 00:30:20 What comes next after completing the clinical study 00:34:45 A mental health check-in 00:42:27 Alex’s (and Coop’s) Picks of the Week 00:47:28 One Brain Cell TV: Talking Succession & SLOMW 00:54:25 LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack -  https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Orgain — https://go.shopmy.us/p-18572123 ✨Feel Good Foods — https://go.shopmy.us/p-18572074 #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #zachspiritos #neurology #gastroenterology #immunology #selfadvocacy #medicalbias #clinicalstudy #clinicaltrial #vasculitis #mixedconnectivetissuedisease #ibd #irritableboweldisease #trauma #ptsd #mentalhealthmatters  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by Dr. Preston Roche—a psychiatry resident, former Air Force Academy track athlete, and viral medical content creator known as ⁠ ⁨@itspresro⁩ ⁠. Preston brings a blend of clinical insight and personal vulnerability and I share my experience with acute and chronic pain (including how I think about and manage CRPS). Together, we dive into the messy, misunderstood world of chronic pain, mental health, and medical bias. In this episode, we talk: 🧠 How today’s doctors learn about pain (chronic and acute), and how that compares to real life 📉 Why chronic pain can be dismissed in ER or hospital settings 🥼 Why patients struggle with seeking pain relief 💛 How to advocate for yourself and your pain (and why certain phrases may be working AGAINST you!)
 💊 What pain relief options can we have in our toolbox? ⚠️ The deep overlap between depression and pain (and why being in the hospital spikes this connection 👀 The Truth Behind the Chronic Pain and Illness Olympics Whether you’ve been dismissed by a doctor, told your symptoms are “in your head,” or just want to understand your body better—this one’s for you. You are not making it up. You are not alone. And you deserve care that actually cares. Thanks for Calling in Sick with us 💛xx,
Alex 💬 Comment: How has chronic illness impacted your mental health? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:02:00 Alex’s Picks of The Week 00:02:51 Interview with Preston Roche 00:07:55 How Pain is Taught to Today’s Doctors - from the class room to the hospital 00:11:30 Why is My Pain Questioned in the Hospital? 00:18:50 Have I Suffered Enough to Receive Pain Relief? 00:23:14 The Relationship between Doctors and Chronic Illness Patients 00:26:32 Why “I know my body best” and “I have a high pain tolerance” may get you dismissed by medical professionals 00:41:06 Hospitalization and In-Patient Pain and Mental Health Management 00:48:47 The different types of psychological pain 00:56:13 Why “it’s just anxiety” is a problem for people with chronic illnesses 01:00:01 Is it our fault to feel depressed, anxiety or pain?01:09:11 The Truth Behind the Sick and Pain Olympics 01:16:00 The One Brain Cell Segment 01:21:51 LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Feet Warmies — https://getwarmertimes.com/collections/warmers/products/toe-warmers ✨Saje — https://go.shopmy.us/p-18164585 Resources on Understanding Pain and Pain Management: • https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/2661581 • https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/2673971 #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #neurology #selfadvocacy #medicalbias #prestonroche #psychiatry #chronicpainandmentalhealth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by neuro-gastro-immunologist, Dr. Zachary Spiritos, an incredible voice in the fight to make invisible illnesses seen, heard, and helped.. Together, we unpack some of the most maddening, misunderstood, and under-discussed challenges in healthcare today—especially for women and people living with chronic conditions. From gut issues to gender bias, from misdiagnosis to self-advocacy, this conversation is packed with clarity, and compassion. In this episode, we talk: 🧠 What makes an illness “invisible”—and why they get dismissed 📉 Where the disparity in women’s health comes from ⚠️ The reality of medical gaslighting and how to respond 🥼 How to advocate for yourself in appointments, and have success! 💩 Why gut issues show up in so many chronic conditions—and what to do about it Whether you’ve been dismissed by a doctor, told your symptoms are “in your head,” or just want to understand your body better—this one’s for you. You are not making it up. You are not alone. And you deserve care that actually cares. This episode left me full of hope - for my own health, and the future of women’s health. Thanks for Calling in Sick with us 💛 xx, Alex 💬 Comment: Have you ever left a doctor’s appointment feeling dismissed or doubted? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick!  00:02:15 Alex’s Picks Of the Week (IB Guard, Magnesium)  00:03:45 Meet Dr. Zachary Spiritos & understanding neuro-gastro-immunology  00:24:48 Where the disparity in women’s health comes from 00:29:00 The reality of medical gaslighting and how to respond  00:44:33 How to advocate for yourself in appointments, and have success! 00:47:34 What’s next for Dr. Zachary Spiritos  00:55:00 Dr. Zachary’s final recommendations 00:57:25 Thank you for listening!!!  ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack -  https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Episode Sponsor: LifeBoost Coffee! • First Time Customer (58% off): https://lifeboostcoffee.com/pages/healthy-coffee-ot2e-19-cp?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON • Subscribe and Save (Up to 48% off): https://lifeboostcoffee.com/pages/subscribe-save?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON • Use Code ALEXANDRA10 for 10% off!!! https://lifeboostcoffee.com/?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨IB Guard — https://go.shopmy.us/p-17801495 ✨Pure Encapsulation (Magnesium Supplementation) — https://bit.ly/PureSummerSale25 ** May 15th - May 26th, 15% off + always free shipping ***This offer is good for one order of any product combination and valid 5/15/25 through 5/26/25 at 11:59 p.m. PT. One-time use per customer. While supplies last.  #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #zachspiritos #neurology #gastroenterology #immunology #selfadvocacy #medicalbias  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re diving deep into a condition that’s often misunderstood, minimized, or completely missed: endometriosis. I’m joined by the wonderful Autumn Weimann (@grlwithbangs)—naturopathic doctor (@period.prep), clean beauty founder (@Banginhair.shop), and advocate for body-literate healing. Autumn shares her powerful story of navigating chronic pain and years of unanswered questions before being diagnosed with endometriosis, and taking her healing into her own hands. We trace her journey from feeling unheard in medical offices to becoming her own best advocate, healer, and educator. In this episode, we talk: 🩸 What endometriosis actually feels like (and why it’s so often missed) 💔 The emotional toll of misdiagnosis and mistrust in your body 🌿 Why Autumn pivoted into naturopathic medicine 💄 Launching a clean beauty brand grounded in hormone health 🧠 Reconnecting with your body when it’s been the source of so much pain Whether you’ve experienced chronic pain or just want to better understand your body, this episode is a must-listen. You deserve care that believes you, honors your intuition, and supports your whole self. Thanks for Calling in Sick with us this week 💛 xx,Alex 💬 Comment: What symptoms did you ignore that—looking back—were big warning signs? TIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:02:30 Alex’s Picks of The Week (Clean Beauty... see links below!!)00:03:40 Welcome, Autumn Weimann (her story: early symptoms to diagnosis)00:11:10 Why Autumn Became a Naturopathic Doctor, Diagnosis & The Period Prep 00:17:30 Why Boundaries Are *SO* Important 00:22:00 Challenging the Chronic Illness Identity Takeover 00:25:30 What Is The Period Prep Kit?!00:32:21 Biggest Misconceptions Around Endometriosis00:34:11 Alex Spilling the *Tea* on her Second Endo Surgery 00:37:36 How Endometriosis Impacts Fertility & Dreams of Motherhood00:48:00 Is Clean Beauty Really Clean?!00:58:57 Our Biggest Tips for Navigating YOUR Health01:03:01 One Brain Cell Pick of the week (Love on the Spectrum & Vanderpump Villa)01:07:31 Wrap Up, Endo Gala, and Thank YOU!01:10:28 THANK YOU & LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Bangin’ Hair – https://www.banginhair.shop/product-page/banginhair-serum ✨HigherDose Infrared Hat - https://go.shopmy.us/p-14854531 Use code ALEXANDRA15 for 15% off #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #ChronicIllnessCommunity #endometriosis #autumnweimann Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, things are a little different — and a little chaotic. I was too discombobulated to record a solo episode, so Cooper (my husband) hopped on the mic with me. We laughed, we spiraled, and then we got real about why life has felt so hard lately: In this week’s episode, we talk: 💥 A nasty IVIG reaction 🚑 A surprise ER trip 🛑 A home invasion 💉 Starting a new oral chemo 🏡 Family visiting 🫠 And feeling... not like myself at all We talk about what it’s like when everything hits at once, and how chronic illness can make navigating life with a chronic illness that much harder. Even though it’s been overwhelming (to put it lightly), there’s something comforting about saying it all out loud — and laughing through the absurdity when we can. This episode is for anyone who feels like they’re in survival mode and missing the person they used to be. You’re not broken. You’re carrying more than most people can even imagine. Thanks for Calling in Sick with us this week! xx, Alex & Saint Coop 💬 Comment: what’s your number one tool for getting back to feeling like yourself? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! (Featuring Cooper as Alex) 00:01:40 Alex’s Picks of The Week (you just have to watch this one if you want a laugh) 00:07:29 Thank you to our sponsor this week: Lifeboost! 00:09:05 Alex’s recent reaction to IVIG 00:13:57 Alex’s trip to the emergency room 00:19:55 Alex & Coop’s home invasion experience 00:25:20 Survival mode activated as a result of IVIG, ER trip & the home invasion 00:29:15 One Brain Cell Pick of The Week: Last One Laughing and One Other 00:31:00 Wrap UP, Giving yourself grace & what’s helping right now 00:33:42 LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Episode Sponsor: LifeBoost Coffee! • First Time Customer (58% off): https://lifeboostcoffee.com/pages/healthy-coffee-ot2e-19-cp?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON • Subscribe and Save (Up to 48% off): https://lifeboostcoffee.com/pages/subscribe-save?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨ Duvet Robe — https://rebrand.ly/6tq0q7k✨ Ring Security Camera – https://amzn.to/3ErNp6b ✨ Lifeboats Coffee - https://lifeboostcoffee.com/?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #ChronicIllnessCommunity Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey sweet friends—no full episode this week, just a short 10-minute update from me. Between a rough IVIG reaction, an unexpected ER trip, and a literal attempted home invasion (yes, really), I’m throwing it back to a past episodes: Processing Your Chronic Illness—because wow, I need to listen to this one this week too!! This week on Calling in Sick, I’m diving into something that doesn’t get talked about enough: the identity shift that happens when you're living with a chronic illness — whether you have an official diagnosis or not. There’s a specific kind of grief that comes from realizing you're no longer the person you once were. The person who had endless energy. The person who didn’t have to think twice about plans, goals, or dreams. The person who didn’t wonder, "Do I look sick enough for people to take me seriously?" In this solo episode, I’m opening up about: 💭 How chronic illness impacts your sense of self (even before a diagnosis) ⚡ Why comparison — to others and to your old self — can feel so brutal 🩺 The silent pressure to “look” sick enough for care 🧠 How processing a chronic illness mirrors the stages of grief 📚 Plus: My tips, tricks, and personal mindset shifts that have helped me find myself again If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, "I don’t even recognize my life anymore," — this one’s for you. You are not alone in this identity shift. You are not broken. You are just becoming someone new. Thanks for Calling in Sick with me again — xx, Alex 💛 💬 Comment: What’s been the hardest part of your chronic illness identity shift? What part of your “old” self do you miss — and what new part of you are you starting to love? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:02:01 Alex's Picks of The Week (Mayfair Group Sweat Suits, Intelligent Change 5 Minute Gratitude Journal) 00:04:02 One Brain Cell Segment: Below Deck 00:06:25 Processing your identity with a chronic illness intro 00:12:11 Post-Diagnosis Prioritization 00:12:11 Post-Diagnosis Prioritization 00:19:46 The Challenges of Shifting Identity with Chronic Illness 00:28:31 My Tips for Handling the Identity Shift 00:45:41 My NUMBER ONE Tip for Handling the Identity Shift 00:48:01 Thank You for Listening! Thank you to our sponsors this week: *Lifeboost - Visit www.lifeboostcoffee.com/?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON and use code ALEXANDRA10 for 10% off your order for a healthier coffee experience – decaf included – you’ll love. Alex's Picks of the Week: *Mayfair Group - Visit http://go.shopmy.us/p-16514050 and use code Alexandra15 for 15% off *Intelligent Change - Visit https://www.intelligentchange.com/ALEXANDRA10 and use code Alexandra10 for 10% off at checkout Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack — https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod Powered by: https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m getting real about something I never thought I’d question: Am I still ambitious? There was a time when I crushed my to-do list before lunch, never let an email sit unanswered, and found purpose in being productive. But now? I procrastinate. I forget things. I carry a running to-do list that I never finish. And between the brain fog, pain, meds, and fatigue… I started to wonder if I’d lost my drive entirely. But then it hit me… maybe ambition just looks different now. In this solo episode, I’m opening up about: 💭 What it’s like to lose your “high-functioning” self 💊 The quiet shame of feeling dulled by meds 🔥 How chronic illness reroutes your ambition from speed to survival 🌱 Why softness, slowness, and intention might be the new success 📺 Plus: My current comfort-watch in the One Brain Cell segment (spoiler: it’s called warm hug in TV form) This one is for anyone navigating big identity shifts—especially if you’ve had to ask yourself: “Who am I without the hustle?” My answer? Darling... you’re not behind. You’re becoming. xx, Alex 💛 💬 Comment: Do you feel like your ambition or drive has changed since getting sick? How have you redefined success? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick 00:00:35 Life Update: Becoming a Procrastinator!! 00:02:58 Alex’s Picks of the Week: Hilma Supplements + DoBites 00:06:11 The Old Version of Me: Urgency, Output, Identity 00:08:25 Grief & the Unbecoming of the Old Alex 00:11:00 Discovering the New Me -- Freedom After Grief 00:17:30 Chronic Illness Management vs. Urgency 00:20:20 One Brain Cell Segment: Love on the Spectrum 00:23:59 THANK YOU!!!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨ Hilma Supplements – gentle, clean symptom support https://rebrand.ly/6tq0q7k Use code ALEXANDRA20 for 20% off!! ✨ DoBites – functional, top-8 allergen-free snack bites for energy & focus https://amzn.to/3G6bQGt #podcast #podcastclips #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #SelfWorth #SuccessMindset #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #SickGirlLife #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #ChronicWarrior #FlareUpTips #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #selfworth #selflove #success #hustleculture #ambition #drive #success #urgency Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by the incredible Kwame Appiah—someone you might recognize from Love Is Blind (Season 4), but today, we’re going far deeper than reality TV. Kwame opens up about his real-life health journey: the early signs he ignored, the emotional toll of not having answers, and what it meant to finally get a diagnosis—and then face the hard work of rebuilding from there. We talk about the frustrations of navigating a broken healthcare system, the grief and grit that come wit h chronic illness, and how healing isn’t just physical—it’s emotional, relational, and deeply personal. My favorite part? Kwame’s take on gratitude, growth, and positivity. We also dive into how illness reshapes not just our bodies, but our relationships—with others and with ourselves. In this episode, we unpack: ⚡️ The moment Kwame knew he couldn’t keep ignoring his body 🌀 The emotional rollercoaster of chasing a diagnosis 💬 How his relationship with Chelsea evolved through it all 🧠 The shift from shame to self-trust 📺 Plus: our favorite shows in this week’s One Brain Cell segment (spoiler: we couldn’t pick just one) This episode is vulnerable, honest, and a reminder that chronic illness doesn’t define you—but it can transform you. As always, sending my love! xx, Alex 💛 💬 Comment Prompt: What’s one health lesson you had to learn the hard way—but now wouldn’t trade? Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick!  00:01:18 Alex’s Health Update 00:03:40 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Broc Shot, Loftie Alarm Clock) 00:06:33 Introduction to Kwame Appiah (Season 4 of Love Is Blind) 00:12:35 The moment Kwame knew he couldn’t keep ignoring his body 00:17:57 The emotional rollercoaster of chasing a diagnosis 00:38:13 How Kwame’s relationship with Chelsea evolved through it all 00:48:25 Kwame’s take on gratitude, growth, and positivity 00:55:00 One Brain Cell Segment: Our favorite shows (spoiler: we couldn’t pick just one) 01:04:36 Thank you for listening!  ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: (Both included in this week’s giveaway!) • Broc Shot – https://brocshot.com/?ref=ALEX15 — 25% OFF YOUR FIRST ORDER! — Your daily broccoli sprout shot for detox & anti-inflammatory love • Loftie Alarm Clock – https://byloftie.com/ALEXWILDESON — 15% OFF YOUR FIRST ORDER! — Because waking up slowly is an act of self-care #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #DuvetDay #RestWithoutGuilt #SelfCare #AutoimmuneDisease #SpoonieLife #SickGirlEra #CallingInSick #DisabilityAwareness #ChronicFatigue #InvisibleIllness #Burnout #RestIsProductive #HealthJourney #SpoonieSupport #FlareUpTips #MentalHealth #KwameAppiah #HealingJourney #InvisibleIllness #ChronicIllnessAwareness #SpoonieSupport #DiagnosisJourney #ChronicPain #SelfWorth #AutoimmuneDisease #EmotionalHealth #RelationshipGoals #MentalHealthMatters #HealingInPublic #HealthJourney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re talking about something that’s both terrifying and beautiful: how to make new friends when you’re chronically ill. Let’s be real—chronic illness changes your social life. While some relationships run the distance, there are far too many that end… some fade out, some end loudly and some just stop making sense. But as painful as that can be, it also creates space. Space for people who get it. Who don’t need explanations. Who meet you where you are now. In this episode, I’m unpacking: 🌿 How chronic illness can be a filter for real, aligned friendships 💔 Why losing friends isn’t always a failure—it’s often a shift ✨ How to make new friends that actually work for your energy, needs, and lifestyle 🧃 What “low-spoon friendship” looks like and why it’s actually magic 📱 Where to find spoonie friends who get you This isn’t just about friendship breakups—it’s about friendship breakthroughs. Sending love (and new friend energy)! xx, Alex 💛 💬 This week’s Comment Prompt: What is one thing you are putting on your “talking-points” list for chatting with new friends? Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick!  00:05:24 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Prequel, Nécessaire) 00:07:46 Making New Friends With A Chronic Illness  00:08:52 What Makes A Good Friend  00:11:20 The Importance of Friends  00:12:52 Anxiety Around Making New Friends 00:19:35 How I’ve Been Able To Make New Friends This Year 00:26:23 A New Friend Success Story  00:31:37 One Brain Cell Show Of The Week: Only Murders in the Building  00:33:15 Thank You For Listening!  ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: OLD Alex’s Picks of the Week: • Prequel Reactive Skin Solutions: https://go.shopmy.us/p-15249470 — CHECK BACK IN FOR A CODE! • Necessaries Body Serum: https://go.shopmy.us/p-15250836 — CHECK BACK IN FOR A CODE! #podcast #podcastclips #CallingInSick #ChronicIllness #MakingFriendsWithChronicIllness #InvisibleIllness #SpoonieLife #FriendshipBreakups #LowSpoonHangs #DisabilityAwareness #ChronicPain #AutoimmuneDisease #SickGirlEra #HealthJourney #SpoonieSupport #NewFriendEnergy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re talking about one of the most underrated tools in the chronic illness toolbox: the intentional duvet day. If you’ve ever felt guilty for resting, questioned if you're "sick enough" to slow down, or struggled to explain why you need a full day in bed after a good day—this episode is for you. I unpack why these days are essential for long-term management (not lazy days!), how to spot your “check engine lights” before a crash, and how I’ve learned to communicate my need for deep rest without feeling like a burden. So tune in to hear: ✨ My favorite Duvet Day skincare & hydration essentials (hello dewy skin girlies!) 🛏️ What a Duvet Day actually is (and how to make it restorative, not just reactive) 🎁 Why receiving care is not a weakness—and how to reframe the guilt 💡 How to explain your needs to others using Spoon Theory & the Stoplight Framework 📺 One Brain Cell rec of the week: Drive to Survive and why I’m suddenly a motorsport girlie now For this week, put your latest hyper-fixation during duvet days in the comments section!! I need some new recs ;)  As always, thank you for listening and resting with me 💛 xx, Alex Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:02:30 Alex’s Life & Health Updates of the Week 00:12:33 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Filterbaby, Doré) 00:15:45 What is a Duvet Day & how to keep it intentional? 00:19:20 Reframing Duvet Days 00:27:05 How to communicate that you need support (Spoon Theory, Stoplight Analogy) 00:32:05 One Brain Cell TV Show: Drive to Survive 00:34:52 Thank you for listening!!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: • FilterBaby Faucet Water Filter: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14894038 — ALEXANDRAW10 for $10 off! • Dore Facial Serum: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14894003 — ALEXANDRA10 for 10% off! #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #DuvetDay #RestWithoutGuilt #SelfCare #AutoimmuneDisease #SpoonieLife #SickGirlEra #CallingInSick #DisabilityAwareness #ChronicFatigue #InvisibleIllness #Burnout #RestIsProductive #HealthJourney #SpoonieSupport #FlareUpTips #MentalHealth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices