Not Well | A Comedy Podcast

Bobby, Jim & Friends

Join Bobby and Jim on 'Not Well', where fearless conversations meet humor and wisdom in an explosion of topics ranging from the latest celebrity gossip to the intricacies of gay issues and politics. With Bobby's unconventional wisdom, often fueled by his adventures with edibles, leading us into the most random and taboo subjects you'd never dare to bring up, and Jim's sharp intellect providing insightful commentary, there's never a dull moment.

Our podcast is a bold, inclusive space that welcomes gay men, straight women, and straight men alike, especially those who are curious about a wide array of discussions—including the candid exploration of sex and men's bodies. Bobby and Jim create a safe haven for laughter, connection, and sometimes the outright bizarre, ensuring our listeners feel happy, engaged, and part of a larger community.

Every Thursday we dive deep into everything under the sun, from the most controversial topics to the day-to-day quirks of life. Our unique content mix, featuring listener voicemails and the funniest Tik Toks, complements our discussions, making 'Not Well' more than just a podcast—it's a movement towards embracing our not-so-perfect selves.

Subscribe now and join our community where being 'not well' is celebrated, and discovering the joy in life's randomness is a weekly adventure. Experience the dynamic duo of Bobby's wild tangents and Jim's smart insights, and see why our listeners can't get enough of our unapologetic take on the world.

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What Are You Doing In That Hole? You Breathing?
29-08-2024
What Are You Doing In That Hole? You Breathing?
Send us a textThis episode of Not Well is a mix of casual banter, unexpected plans, and a humorous yet honest take on life’s little surprises. Bobby and Jim start off by discussing how they ended up recording the podcast, despite initial plans to do nothing for the day. They dive into random conversations about drinking habits, chugging beer, and the sheer absurdity of some of their experiences.The discussion also takes an amusing turn as they talk about everything from the anatomy of whales to evolution and how bizarrely complex life can be. They touch on political topics, including Kamala Harris, and offer a light-hearted yet critical look at current events. The episode is peppered with anecdotes about personal experiences, including the challenges of getting older, dealing with work stress, and the anticipation of an upcoming trip to Mexico.Towards the end, a listener's voicemail about helping someone struggling with addiction leads to a serious yet slightly humorous discussion about the difficulties of dealing with addiction and the importance of setting boundaries. Bobby and Jim both acknowledge that while they can offer some advice, they aren’t professionals and suggest focusing on self-care and support.The episode closes with some light-hearted conversation about the anticipation of their trip, their anxieties about traveling, and a fun manifestation moment where they humorously envision meeting hot golfers in Mexico. The overall vibe is relaxed, relatable, and filled with the kind of humor that makes life’s ups and downs a bit easier to handle.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
This Is a No-Edit Episode, So Watch Your Fu*king Mouth.
22-08-2024
This Is a No-Edit Episode, So Watch Your Fu*king Mouth.
Send us a textThis episode of Not Well was an unedited rollercoaster of laughs, candid discussions, and some unexpected twists. Bobby and Jim kicked things off by recounting a wild Saturday of day drinking that spiraled out of control, leading to some hilarious encounters and thoughts on dart-playing, margaritas, and even the unexpected behavior of some possibly gay softball players.The conversation then meandered into deeper, more philosophical waters, tackling heavy topics like the ethics of cremation, the futility of military glorification, and societal norms around death. The guys didn’t shy away from controversial opinions, discussing the often superficial nature of how we treat veterans versus other less “honorable” homeless people and how our obsession with bodies and afterlife rituals might be misplaced.In between these serious discussions, there was a lot of light-hearted banter about getting ready for an upcoming trip to Mexico, fashion choices, and even a funny voicemail about pretty privilege and homeless people. Bobby's sundry of the week lamented the challenges of dealing with difficult people at work, while Jim shared his struggle with the change from summer to fall, touching on the bittersweet feelings that come with the transition.Overall, it was an episode full of raw, unfiltered thoughts, blending humor with thought-provoking topics. No matter where you land on the spectrum of these discussions, it’s clear the duo isn’t afraid to speak their minds and have some fun along the way.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Its Giving Big Dad Energy
15-08-2024
Its Giving Big Dad Energy
Send us a textIn this hilarious and unapologetically candid episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive deep into the realities of turning 40, camping disasters, and navigating the treacherous waters of aging. As Bobby bids farewell to his 30s, the duo reflects on what it means to hit the big 4-0 and how it feels when your hangovers outlast your youthful spirit.The conversation veers into everything from the horror of assembling a tent at a questionable campsite to the realization that if you can’t find the hot people at the bar, you might just be the hot person. With their signature mix of humor and vulnerability, they explore the quirks of middle-aged life, including the complexities of body image, the unexpected joys of ramen noodles, and why it’s important to trust your gut – or as they call it, the “Oh” feeling.Listeners get a front-row seat to Bobby’s midlife crisis, which he jokingly describes as “wondering where to hang my balls this weekend.” The episode also touches on more serious topics, like the importance of being on anti-HIV meds and making sure you’re actually using them for their intended purpose.Bobby and Jim don’t shy away from calling out the hypocrisy in today’s society, as they dissect everything from problematic restaurant owners to politicians caught in drag scandals. They weave in stories of failed camping trips, encounters with creepy pool dwellers, and even a memorable massage from someone named Alan.This episode is a must-listen for anyone who enjoys a blend of sharp wit, relatable life struggles, and a bit of absurdity. Whether you’re a straight  trying to figure out your life or a gay man just looking for some laughs, Bobby and Jim provide the perfect mix of humor and heart, making Not Well the go-to podcast for navigating the chaos of modern life.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
If The Last Supper Had An Open Bar, There Would've Been Less Holy Communion And More Divine Hookups
01-08-2024
If The Last Supper Had An Open Bar, There Would've Been Less Holy Communion And More Divine Hookups
Send us a Text Message.In this lively and irreverent episode of the "Not Well" podcast, hosts Bobby and Jim tackle a range of topics with their signature blend of humor and biting commentary. The episode opens with Bobby humorously expressing exasperation, setting the tone for a conversation filled with snark and wit. As they delve into the subject of Christianity, the hosts express their frustration with what they perceive as a common persecution complex among some Christians. They humorously critique the tendency to overreact to criticism and poke fun at historical and religious narratives.The hosts draw a satirical parallel between modern complaints and events like the Last Supper, quipping that it "wasn't even the last supper, but you guys have to cry about everything." This line highlights their playful take on the serious subject of religious persecution. They further challenge the traditional narrative by humorously suggesting that the real "first supper" was more akin to a feast of Dionysus, referencing ancient Greek culture and the Olympics.The discussion takes an unexpected turn as Bobby and Jim speculate about historical figures and their roles, including a tongue-in-cheek reference to a "Korean crusader." This humorous conjecture underscores the episode's theme of questioning and reinterpreting historical and religious events. The hosts maintain a light-hearted and irreverent tone throughout, engaging in a conversation that blends dark humor, satire, and a touch of skepticism.This episode of "Not Well" offers listeners a unique perspective on religious topics, combining comedy with thought-provoking insights. Bobby and Jim's approach challenges conventional views while keeping the atmosphere light and entertaining, making for an engaging and memorable episode.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Brat Pack Life: Fluff That Little Hog, Strut Your Stuff, and Make No Apologies
25-07-2024
Brat Pack Life: Fluff That Little Hog, Strut Your Stuff, and Make No Apologies
Send us a Text Message.In this episode of "Not Well," Bobby and Jim dive into the unexpected announcement of President Biden stepping down, sparking a chaotic and humorous discussion about the political landscape. They express shock at the news, joke about Kamala Harris possibly becoming the next president, and comment on the absurdities of the political world, including Biden's physical struggles and Kamala's public persona. The hosts speculate on the implications of Harris's potential presidency, highlighting her public image and the comedic elements of her speeches.They also share personal anecdotes, including a recent wild weekend involving pool parties, bars, and meeting podcast listeners. The conversation shifts to their upcoming camping trip, where they discuss their insecurities, especially around body image and perceptions among their friends. The episode is peppered with lighthearted banter about their daily routines, such as the annoyance of morning rituals and the hilarity of public bathroom etiquette.Bobby and Jim also express their growing disinterest in straight spaces and the mundane nature of straight social events, preferring instead the freedom and excitement of gay gatherings. They end the episode with a humorous reflection on their shared experiences and a lighthearted sign-off.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Drunk national anthems, devilish speeches, and gapped-tooth gays—just another day in America's circus
18-07-2024
Drunk national anthems, devilish speeches, and gapped-tooth gays—just another day in America's circus
Send us a textWe kick things off with laughs and excitement, diving into a hilarious Ashley Tisdale video sighting. The conversation spirals into unexpected territory with mentions of bacterial vaginosis, stolen voices, and some notable cuts that keep everyone in stitches.Bobby then takes the stage to critique the Grammys, throwing shade at a four-time nominee and questioning the validity of music awards. The tea spills over Billie Eilish vs. Charlie XCX, societal biases, and some juicy personal anecdotes about cocaine use, high blood pressure, and the absurdities of workplace food theft. As if that wasn't enough, we also tackle political violence, the role of religion in society, and why certain political figures desperately need a reality check.Next, we dive into social observations and personal realizations, starting with tales of not noticing women and 'dick scanning' in Park City. The discussion shifts to the impact of transphobia and Matthew Shepherd's tragedy, interspersed with Aunt Lisa's hilarious 'ugly hot' celebrity game. We share our camping anxieties and excitement for 'Squirt weekend' at Camp Buck Wood, complete with public sexuality stories, 'sack diversity,' and 'ball painting.' We also humorously plan to call our campsite 'El Campground' for 'cis campers' and end with one of us feeling 'concrete legs' from being high, reflecting on life's novelty and excitement.The edible-fueled introspection continues with insights on autism, sensory overload during Notre Dame football games, and the beauty of solitude. We recount prime dining hall moments and the serenity of an overhead fan, blending humor with heartfelt exploration of personal growth and self-acceptance.Then, we tackle a beefy misunderstanding (not the food kind) and invite lesbians and gays to share their views on each other, aiming to compare notes and add some spice to the conversation.From there, we recount our bar outings, discussing social expectations and incidents like clapping at a bar, inquiries about Jimmy Carter, and a peculiar prayer to Helen Keller. Miscommunications, parade mishaps, and brunch party proposals highlight our social (mis)adventures, leading to reflections on organizing community events and improving social gatherings.Finally, we delve into vulnerability, body image, and social dynamics. We discuss the need for air conditioning, feelings of vulnerability in showers among friends, and personal grooming strategies. Observations on dental hygiene linked to sexual behavior, critiques of cycling attire and behavior, and whimsical musings about encountering Big Bird round out the fun. We conclude with an invitation for the LGBTQ+ community to share their perspectives, encapsulating discussions on personal vulnerabilities, societal observations, and the importance of community engagement.Join us for this whirlwind of laughs, snark, and all-Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Living In A Neon Pink Speedo World Where Cups Have Names And Dogs Twerk On Counters
11-07-2024
Living In A Neon Pink Speedo World Where Cups Have Names And Dogs Twerk On Counters
Send us a textIn this episode of 'Not Well,' hosts Bobby and Jim return from a pool session donning pink Speedos and dive into their usual humorous banter. They discuss everything from their forced poolside attire to the influence of their drunk sunglass escapades. Bobby identifies strongly with Hannah from the TV show 'Girls,' comparing himself to her while poking fun at the show's dramatic elements. They also touch upon various humorous topics such as gym etiquette, the peculiarities of cats, and the absurdity of fireworks celebrations. The podcast also features a voicemail rant that spirals into discussions on the absurdity of actor method performances, particularly criticizing character actors like Daniel Day-Lewis. The episode concludes with Bobby and Jim reflecting on their experiences at a recent Pride event, expressing their frustrations with their jobs, and diving into a discussion on social norms and expectations while humorously maintaining their trademark light-hearted tone.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Something's Poking Them in Between Their Shoulder Blades....It's Your Dick
04-07-2024
Something's Poking Them in Between Their Shoulder Blades....It's Your Dick
Send us a Text Message.In this hilariously chaotic episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim kick things off with a nostalgic trip down memory lane, reminiscing about their childhood memories with Muzzy, the language bear. They humorously recount the bizarre yet endearing commercials that convinced American children they could effortlessly learn French. This blast from the past sets the stage for the duo's trademark blend of humor and irreverence as they segue into their recent adventure-filled trip to New York City.Their New York escapade is nothing short of unpredictable. From attending jock nights to indulging in Michelin star sushi, Bobby and Jim leave no stone unturned. They vividly describe the scene at the jock night, where modesty was nowhere to be found, and everyone was flaunting their assets. Bobby shares a particularly embarrassing moment involving a toe cap floating in a pool, while Jim talks about dealing with the aftermath of a shawarma feast that led to the infamous sulfur burps. Their detailed accounts of navigating Brooklyn’s quaint neighborhoods, braving unexpected thunderstorms, and dining under the Brooklyn Bridge paint a vivid picture of their adventure.The episode doesn't shy away from the raw and risqué aspects of their trip. From candid discussions about sexual encounters at nightclubs to humorous takes on the peculiarities of gay nightlife, Bobby and Jim keep the laughter rolling. They recount perusing different rooms in search of the perfect partner, the awkwardness of making eye contact with someone less appealing, and the barbaric yet thrilling nature of these experiences. Their unfiltered storytelling captures the essence of their spontaneous and adventurous spirit, offering listeners a rollercoaster ride of humor, irreverence, and candid commentary on the eccentricities of gay life and travel.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
The Case of the Escaping Thong and Wandering Balls
26-06-2024
The Case of the Escaping Thong and Wandering Balls
Send us a Text Message.***Warning*** Bobby is hammeredHello, darlings! Buckle up for another electrifying episode of "Not Well" with your favorite disaster duo, Bobby and Jim! Tonight's show is serving up a cocktail of chaos, comedy, and maybe a touch of public indecency. As you hear this, we’re probably knee-deep in Pride festivities, or as we like to call it, "Jock Night," where our busses and dicks are out in full celebratory swing. 🌈Happy Pride, everyone! While you might be waving your rainbow flags, we're out here reminiscing about my sixth-grade girlfriend, Dee Dee, who later revealed she was a lesbian. Shout out to you, Dee Dee! Isn't it wild seeing people live their authentic lives? It’s all about being true to yourself, folks.Now, speaking of authenticity, we’re breaking down what it means to be genuinely not well. Whether it's dodging overpriced vodka Red Bulls at VIP events or avoiding the soul-crushing mediocrity of a corporate Pride parade, we're here to spill the tea and maybe a few cocktails.Pride is all about embracing who you are, even if that means wearing a thong and chaps to a party and having a ball (literally) pop out. Who knew fashion could be so hazardous? And let's not forget the new trend of GMEs (Gay Man Magnets). We're ready to pull in every hot guy from here to New York!We also dabble in the absurdity of themed parties and the struggle of dressing up. Honestly, the effort is exhausting, but when you turn heads in a thong, it's all worth it.So, whether you're a muddy bottom or a dirty side, remember to speak your truth and live authentically. Join us in this absolutely unhinged episode of fun. And to all our listeners, happy Pride and happy straight Pride to those watching the airshow in Grove City.Stay fabulous, stay true, and we'll see you next time on "Not Well."Adios, amigos! 🌈✨Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Who Needs Deodorant at a Musk Party When You Have Sulfuric Burps and Dry Mouth Nightmares?
13-06-2024
Who Needs Deodorant at a Musk Party When You Have Sulfuric Burps and Dry Mouth Nightmares?
Send us a Text Message.In this outrageous episode of "Not Well," Bobby and Jim dive into a whirlwind of unfiltered hilarity and unexpected revelations. They start with Bobby's new venture, Sugar Daddy's Creamery, which prompts a bizarre yet amusing discussion on homemade ice cream flavors. The conversation spirals into chaotic territory, touching on everything from embarrassing nudist magazine photoshoots to their struggles with addiction, where Bobby hilariously admits to his gambling problem and past smoking habits.As they discuss body image and confidence, the duo doesn't shy away from poking fun at their own quirks and insecurities, leading to laugh-out-loud moments about bread bowls, dry mouth nightmares, and the awkwardness of hook-ups. They also tackle serious topics with their signature humor, including a heartfelt voicemail about autism and the challenges of growing up undiagnosed.The episode is peppered with random asides, such as bizarre encounters with elderly women at an ice cream shop, musings on human motivation driven by envy, lust, and jealousy, and a hilarious critique of Columbus trying to be a "big city." Bobby and Jim's dynamic banter, combined with their no-holds-barred commentary, makes this episode a rollercoaster of comedy and candidness.Bobby was out of control so get ready. Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Watching Your Kid's Half Ass Achievements Isn't as Fun as My Night in the Dark Room at the Eagle
06-06-2024
Watching Your Kid's Half Ass Achievements Isn't as Fun as My Night in the Dark Room at the Eagle
Send us a textIn this episode of Not Well, hosts Bobby and Jim celebrate Pride Month with a humorous and cringeworthy intro, discussing LGBTQ+ identity and a quirky butter shop deal. They share their reactions to a listener's voicemail, sparking a deep discourse on public harassment, emergency responses, and Pride Month's diverse reactions. The conversation also covers corporate pride fatigue, activism, and the impact of religious and community cults. This episode critiques societal values, freedom, and social constructs, with a humorous take on parenthood, social pressures, and personal stories. The hosts also delve into diverse perspectives on fitness events, the philosophy of existence, and life's interconnectedness, wrapping up with light-hearted banter and a call to support through merch purchases.00:00 Introduction and Awkward Start00:12 Pride Month Celebrations00:19 Butter Shop Deals and Drawn Butter Discussion00:47 Crab Legs and Seafood Talk02:09 Sweating and Ear Irrigation02:49 Google Voice Voicemail03:07 Thatcher's Voicemail and Public Harassment07:20 Pride Month Reflections and Corporate Pride Critique12:51 Marjorie Taylor Greene Rant22:03 Cult Documentary Discussion34:12 Debating College Affordability34:54 Armed Resistance and Self-Defense38:22 Parents and Their Expectations43:47 High School Memories and Senior Pictures47:41 Rants on Public Behavior and Personal Preferences57:45 The Reality of Running and Fitness Culture01:05:08 Existential Thoughts and Reincarnation01:07:29 Closing Remarks and AnnouncementsSupport the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Seduction Games, Wiener Hunting, and Alleyway Secrets
30-05-2024
Seduction Games, Wiener Hunting, and Alleyway Secrets
Send us a Text Message.In this lively and unfiltered episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim dive into a myriad of topics, blending humor, personal anecdotes, and candid discussions on controversial issues. The episode kicks off with the hosts bantering about their recent experiences, including unexpected and awkward encounters with strangers. They recount a night out where Bobby found himself in an alley with a surprise penis in front of him, leading to a hilarious recounting of their adventures.The conversation then shifts to Bobby's attempts at playing a game of seduction, which he humorously admits is not going well. Jim teases Bobby about his direct approach to flirting and seduction, contrasting it with his own more coy and strategic methods. They discuss the concept of seduction techniques, drawing from the book "The Game," and how these tactics apply (or don't apply) in the gay community.Bobby shares his thoughts on the privilege and entitlement of celebrity children, particularly targeting Northwest and her Broadway debut, which he humorously compares to a "Make a Wish" performance. The hosts also delve into their own childhood memories, touching on moments that may have hinted at their sexual orientation from a young age.A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to a discussion on neurodivergence, with Bobby and Jim reflecting on their own experiences and traits that might suggest they are on the autism spectrum. This leads to a broader conversation about how they navigate social interactions and sensory overloads in crowded or noisy environments.The episode takes a serious yet comedic turn as the hosts express their frustration with societal expectations and the constant need to censor themselves to avoid offending others. Bobby passionately declares that he will no longer hold back and will speak his mind, regardless of potential backlash.The hosts wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to call in and share their most unfiltered thoughts and opinions, promising to protect their anonymity. They emphasize the importance of authenticity and honesty in their interactions, both on the podcast and in their personal lives.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
She went from cute little pop star to Bleach-Blonde, Bad-Built, Butch Body Lowe's lesbian
23-05-2024
She went from cute little pop star to Bleach-Blonde, Bad-Built, Butch Body Lowe's lesbian
Send us a Text Message.Hosts: Bobby and JimOpening Remarks:Bobby and Jim open the episode with casual banter, Bobby imitating Paris Hilton's voice.They express excitement for the episode, mentioning it's a bonus episode.Brief discussion about Paris Hilton's real voice and Bobby’s past obsession with her.Main Segments:Reacting to Political Drama:Bobby and Jim react to a political video featuring Marjorie Taylor Greene (MTG).They humorously critique MTG’s behavior and the chaos in Congress.Discussion on the insults exchanged in Congress, focusing on MTG’s appearance being mocked.Bobby and Jim joke about wanting to make T-shirts with the phrase "Bleach-Blonde, Bad-Built, Butch Body."Commentary on Celebrity News:They talk about various celebrities, including Jojo Siwa and her transformation.They discuss Britney Spears and a viral video of her.They critique Jennifer Lopez’s recent career moves, expressing discontent with her current projects.Harrison Butker's speech at a Catholic college is criticized, focusing on his views on women's roles.Personal Anecdotes:Bobby shares his recent solo trip to New York City, detailing his experiences and interactions.He describes going to the Eagle, a gay bar, and meeting various people, including a man named David from Columbia University.He recounts his experience at Goldilocks, a bear party, highlighting his awkward yet endearing interactions.Cultural Observations:Bobby and Jim discuss the culture and dynamics within gay bars and parties.They mention the importance of taking intermissions during long days in New York City to recharge.Listener Engagement:Bobby and Jim address listener questions and comments, discussing topics such as emotional versus physical affairs.They solicit listener input on seduction techniques and tips for their upcoming discussion on gay seduction strategies.Future Topics:Bobby hints at discussing a book called "The Game" and its implications for gay seduction.Jim mentions a future topic on autism and its potential overlap with being gay, teasing a deeper discussion in the next episode.Closing Remarks:Bobby and Jim wrap up the episode, encouraging listeners to call in with their seduction tips and feedback.They remind listeners to subscribe and follow the podcast.Bobby expresses excitement for the upcoming topics and interactions with listeners.This episode features a mix of humor, personal stories, and social commentary, staying true to the podcast's theme of exploring diverse aSupport the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
My Parrot Bit Me While I Stuffed a Ziploc Bag Filled With Vaseline in the Mattress
16-05-2024
My Parrot Bit Me While I Stuffed a Ziploc Bag Filled With Vaseline in the Mattress
Send us a Text Message.The latest episode of "Not Well" features a lively and diverse array of topics including biting parrots, unconventional mattress activities, the phenomenon of whiskey dick, and humorous pool party antics. Bobby and Jim also share their thoughts on circuit gays, their experiences in high school, and amusing stories from their past.The episode kicks off with Bobby and Jim reflecting on their recent conversations, touching on amusing incidents like biting parrots, whiskey dick, and even cucumber cutouts. They discuss the idea of becoming circuit gays, a subculture within the gay community known for their party-centric lifestyle, and question if they're inadvertently becoming part of that scene.They also delve into their high school years, with Bobby admitting to cheating his way through school and even creating fake progress reports. Jim shares his experiences in Mexico, emphasizing the ease of getting through customs and his various adventures, including balcony sex and mingling with fellow tourists.The episode wraps up with discussions on their upcoming trips, social events, and the realization that they might indeed be circuit gays, but with their own unique twist. Overall, it's a humorous and candid episode that showcases Bobby and Jim's dynamic and entertaining friendship.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Todd Likes The Inverted Dick. So There's Somebody For Everybody
09-05-2024
Todd Likes The Inverted Dick. So There's Somebody For Everybody
Send us a Text Message.In this episode of "Not Well," the hosts engage in a vibrant and eclectic discussion that spans a wide array of topics, reflecting the podcast's signature mix of humor, candor, and edgy commentary. The episode kicks off with tales from a recent trip to Mexico, highlighting the hassles of dealing with customs and the quirky inconveniences of travel. This sets the stage for a deeper exploration of personal experiences and societal observations.A humorous and somewhat graphic segment unfolds as one host discusses the effects of eating a large quantity of grapes, which leads to an unexpected and uncomfortable digestive reaction, humorously detailing the trials of dealing with a stomach upset from seemingly innocent healthy snacks. This personal anecdote spirals into a broader discussion on how everyday choices, like diet or travel, can lead to unforeseen consequences.The conversation takes a playful turn with a discussion on physical discomforts associated with everyday objects, specifically the thumb pain experienced from holding Outshine bars too long. This lighthearted complaint is juxtaposed with a more serious contemplation of health and illness as they touch on the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge, bringing a moment of reflection on community support for diseases.Throughout the episode, the hosts weave a theme of interconnectedness, musing on how everything from personal health to travel experiences are linked, creating a tapestry of life's oddities and adventures. They philosophize about the universe's bizarre connections, suggesting that every action and decision is part of a larger, interconnected system, whether it's dealing with customs in foreign countries, dietary repercussions, or the simple act of eating an icy treat.Overall, this episode encapsulates the essence of "Not Well," blending the trivial with the profound in a way that keeps listeners both entertained and reflective, always coming back for more of the unique takes on the chaotic journey of life.GayTravel, LGBTComedy, QueerLife, GayHealth, DragCulture, QueerVoices, LGBTQPodcast, GayHumor, QueerReflections, GayCommunitySupport, LGBTQLifestyle, GayBanter, QueerJourneys, GayExperiences, QueerInterconnectednessSupport the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
This Is Why I Go to Gay Campgrounds That Are Nude: Because Then You Don't Have to Dress Up
02-05-2024
This Is Why I Go to Gay Campgrounds That Are Nude: Because Then You Don't Have to Dress Up
Send us a textTune in to this week’s episode of "Not Well" where hosts Bobby and Jim navigate the chaotic and often hilarious realities of gay life with unapologetic honesty and sharp wit. In "Embracing the Chaos: Humor and Real Talk," listeners are treated to a no-holds-barred discussion that spans the complexities of health, personal anecdotes from gay camps, and candid insights into relationships within the LGBTQ+ community.Episode Highlights:Medications and Mishaps: Dive into the ups and downs of dealing with medications like Ozempic, complete with Bobby and Jim's personal tales of unexpected side effects and weight loss journeys.Life at Gay Camp: Explore the unique, often hilarious experiences at a gay camp, including candid discussions on nudity, social dynamics, and body image among peers.Unfiltered Sexuality and Social Interactions: The hosts share their frank and humorous experiences with sexuality and relationships, offering listeners an uncensored glimpse into their lives.Aging, Appearance, and Self-Perception: Engage with Bobby and Jim as they discuss the realities of aging within the gay community, tackling topics from body image to societal expectations with humor and honesty.Casual Banter and Social Commentary: From everyday interactions to broader societal issues, "Not Well" covers it all, delivering laughs and thoughtful commentary in equal measure.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
You Can't Put Your Own C*ck On A Pedestal
25-04-2024
You Can't Put Your Own C*ck On A Pedestal
Send us a textIn this episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim engage in a candid and freewheeling conversation that spans a wide array of topics, reflecting their podcast's ethos of exploring hot topics and deep dives into various societal issues. Their dialogue traverses the lighthearted to the serious, offering both humor and insight.Key Subjects Covered:Lifestyle and Leisure:The episode opens with a casual and relaxed tone as the hosts discuss their enjoyment of a rare Friday off, marked by beer drinking and anticipatory chatter about a weekend getaway. This segues into a broader discussion on leisure activities, personal preferences in beverages, and plans for future tattoos, highlighting their personal lives and interests.Social and Cultural Commentary:Bobby and Jim delve into more provocative territory, discussing societal norms and cultural phenomena. They offer opinions on everything from the social implications of tattooing to the dynamics of modern relationships and social interactions.Mental Health and Emotional Well-being:A significant part of the conversation turns towards mental health, with the hosts sharing personal anecdotes about coping with stress and emotional upheaval. They discuss the therapeutic effects of discussing personal issues openly, whether through humor or serious reflection.Travel and Adventures:The discussion includes detailed planning about their trip to New York, where they talk about not just the logistics but also the emotional significance of travel and its role in their lives, offering listeners a mix of travel tips intertwined with personal stories.Humor and Edgy Commentary:True to the podcast's nature, the conversation often veers into edgy and dark humor. The hosts explore topics that might be considered inappropriate in more formal settings, such as jokes about personal habits, nightlife, and even poking fun at societal expectations and norms.Detailed Exploration:Throughout the episode, Bobby and Jim maintain a dynamic and engaging dialogue that keeps the listener entertained and involved. Their conversation is punctuated with laughter, comedic timing, and an evident chemistry that highlights their long-standing friendship and shared history.They touch on the importance of authenticity in media and personal expression, subtly critiquing the often sanitized nature of public discourse. The episode is not just about sharing laughs but also about the deeper connection that comes from sharing real-life experiences and opinions, however controversial they may be.The hosts' discussion about mental health is particularly poignant, offering a blend of personal vulnerability and supportive camaraderie that many listeners might find both relatable and coSupport the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
I Don't Care If You Identify As A Goddamn Hobbit With Size D T*ts And A D*ck
18-04-2024
I Don't Care If You Identify As A Goddamn Hobbit With Size D T*ts And A D*ck
Send us a Text Message.The recent episode of "Not Well" offers a rich tapestry of discussions that traverse a wide array of experiences and reflections, encapsulating both the personal and the universal aspects of the gay experience. Early in the episode, a candid discourse emerges around the persistent fears of contracting HIV—a fear deeply ingrained from their youth, reflecting the enduring anxiety surrounding the disease despite advancements in medical understanding and treatment. This is juxtaposed with a lighter, though no less complex, exploration of bathhouse culture, where anonymity and adventure collide, offering a glimpse into the less-discussed corners of gay social life.As the episode unfolds, the conversation pivots to relational dynamics, particularly the caution advised when younger gay men interact with significantly older men. This topic opens a broader discussion on the nuances of mentorship, exploitation, and companionship within the community. In a shift towards the personal, the hosts share a humorous yet telling incident from a family group chat that surprises everyone involved, revealing the unexpected ways in which modern technology can alter family interactions. This familial theme is tenderly expanded as they reminisce about the bonding experiences between grandparents and grandchildren, illustrating the threads of connection that span generations.Midway through the episode, the dialogue takes a whimsical turn with discussions about living out a fantasy life with a hypothetical $10 million, and the comedic yet poignant mishaps during a karaoke session involving offensive language, highlighting the social sensitivities and the sometimes-blurred lines between humor and offense. The episode also delves into cultural trivia with a debate on what exactly corned beef is, proving that even the most mundane topics can spark engaging banter. As the hosts recount their adventures walking to a gay bar and the stark differences in perceived attractiveness standards in Columbus versus NYC, they unpack the complex interplay of beauty, body image, and self-esteem within the gay community.Concluding the episode, discussions become introspective and critical as the hosts discuss vacation planning around sexual adventures, punctuality in social engagements, and the evolving dynamics on platforms like Grindr regarding gender identity and tucking. These conversations not only reflect personal growth and community changes but also challenge the listeners to think about acceptance, respect, and the diverse ways of being within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. The episode wraps up with plans for a trip to New York City in June, promising more stories, reflections, and undoubtedly, a few misadventures, cementing "Not Well" as a podcast that both entertains and enlightens its audience.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Earthquakes Won't Stop Banjee Bitches from Smoking Candy Cigarettes on the Front Porch or Having A Sexual Revolution
11-04-2024
Earthquakes Won't Stop Banjee Bitches from Smoking Candy Cigarettes on the Front Porch or Having A Sexual Revolution
Send us a Text Message.In a particularly engaging episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim delve into a rich tapestry of topics, highlighted by Bobby's recent escapades in New York City and Jim's distinct take on several universally relatable subjects. The episode is a vibrant mix of humor, personal stories, and societal observations that listeners have come to love and expect from the duo.Bobby kicks things off with an enthralling recount of his New York City adventures, from the vibrant gay nightlife at the Eagle to an unexpected experience of an earthquake. His stories of freedom, sexual exploration, and candid social interactions in the city's bars provide a deep dive into personal liberation and the complexities of identity expression in such open environments.Jim, not to be outdone, steers the conversation towards a lighter, yet equally thought-provoking direction, discussing the peculiar charm of candy cigarettes. This leads to a nostalgic journey back to childhood, questioning the impact of such products and the oddities of marketing strategies aimed at children.Front porch parties come under Jim's scrutiny next, where he humorously contrasts them with their backyard counterparts, drawing on personal anecdotes to illustrate the unique social dynamics they foster. Jim's reflections are a humorous ode to community gatherings and the subtle societal cues that dictate our social interactions in these spaces.The conversation takes another turn as Jim shares his musings on Shih Tzu dogs, adding a dose of humor to the episode. His comedic take on pet preferences and the personalities of different dog breeds elicits laughter while subtly questioning why we gravitate towards certain pets.Throughout the episode, a hilarious incident involving the TSA and a personal item of Bobby's offers a moment of comic relief, highlighting the absurdities often encountered during travel. This story ties back to the overarching theme of the episode: navigating the unexpected with humor and grace.00:00:00 - Introduction and playful banter about upcoming trip and bear parties00:03:09 - Reaction to a voicemail about JVN's appearance and past00:10:34 - Allure and societal implications of candy cigarettes00:16:49 -  shih tzu and bacon.00:19:57 - Reflections on front porch parties.00:23:29 - Encounter with TSA over a personal item00:23:51 - Coining the summer's hottest insult: "Creole banjee bitch."00:39:29 - Exploration of sexual freedom and experiences at a gay bar in NYC.00:45:33 - Earthquake experience in NYC, adding an unexpected twist to the trip.00:52:00 - Delving intoSupport the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Big Pharma's Coin Grab, Plane Lady Cocktails, & Life's Bizarre Plot Twists
04-04-2024
Big Pharma's Coin Grab, Plane Lady Cocktails, & Life's Bizarre Plot Twists
Send us a Text Message.Hey there, our fabulous "Not Well" listeners! It's your favorite dynamic duo, Bobby and Jim, back at it again with another episode that's sure to have you laughing, thinking, and maybe even clutching your pearls a little bit.So, let's dive right in, shall we? We couldn't resist starting off with the hot mess express that is the "plane lady" fiasco. I mean, come on, what kind of cocktail was she on? We're thinking a generous pour of Xanax, a splash of Ambien, and maybe even a sprinkle of meth for that extra oomph. But hey, we're not judging… okay, maybe a little.Moving on to the queen herself, Lizzo. Girl, what is going on? Taking a break? We need to talk about this. And don't even get us started on her dance crew and the desperate need for a "glow up." We're here to spill the tea, and trust us, there's plenty to go around.On a more personal note, yours truly just celebrated 12 years of living my best life in Columbus. Can you believe it? Leaving the nest and spreading my wings was the best decision ever. And speaking of leaving the nest, is it just us, or is it trippy to watch our siblings become parents? Like, suddenly they're all "mom" and "dad," and we're over here still trying to figure out how to adult.Okay, let's talk about something that really grinds our gears: the pharmaceutical industry. Have you seen the prices of drugs like Ozempic? It's like they're trying to bankrupt us while lining their own pockets. It's time for a reality check, folks.And finally, the solar eclipse. Are we excited? Meh. We've got mixed feelings. But you know what really eclipses our enthusiasm? When people in our community become parents and suddenly lose their spark. We said what we said.Alright, that's a wrap for this episode of "Not Well." If you're new here, buckle up, buttercup. We're not holding back. And to our ride-or-die listeners, we love you more than a drag queen loves a good wig. Until next time, stay fabulous and stay "Not Well.Support the Show.As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week InstagramTwitterBobby's Only FansHelp us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe#gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell