Not All There

Chad J.

Whether you're battling addiction, supporting someone who is, or just curious about what life without substances looks like, “Not All There” is your go-to resource. Chad’s raw and intimate style makes even the toughest topics relatable and accessible. Feeling frustrated or confused by the sober life? Tune in—it’ll all start to make sense. Sober curious? Come listen, laugh, and discover that you're not alone on this journey. “Not All There” is more than just a podcast; it’s a community for those seeking to spread hope, love, and understanding in the world of sobriety. read less
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Episodes

The Art of Being Joe: A Conversation with Joe B.
Aug 29 2024
The Art of Being Joe: A Conversation with Joe B.
In this conversation, Chad and Joe B. discuss their experiences with addiction and recovery. They talk about the challenges of living a sober life and the lack of guidance and support after getting sober. Joe B. shares his journey of getting sober and how he struggled with finding his identity and fitting in. They also discuss their experiences with drugs and the impact it had on their lives. Joe B. talks about his passion for photography and how it became his artistic voice. The conversation highlights the importance of finding purpose and support in recovery. Joe B shares his journey of alcoholism and recovery, highlighting the moments of chaos and self-destruction that led him to seek help. He describes his experiences of moving from place to place, getting married, and hiding his drinking. Joe B emphasizes the importance of surrendering and seeking support from others in recovery. Joe B concludes by discussing the joy and fulfillment he finds in helping others on their own recovery journeys. Keywords  addiction, recovery, sober life, guidance, support, identity, fitting in, drugs, photography, purpose, alcoholism, recovery, surrender, support, sponsor, 12 steps, transformation, joy, fulfillment Takeaways The recovery industry provides tools and information for recognizing addiction and seeking help, but there is a lack of guidance and support for living a sober life. Getting sober is just the first step, and many people struggle with finding their identity and purpose after getting sober. Drugs and alcohol can provide a temporary escape and a sense of belonging, but they ultimately lead to more problems and hinder personal growth. Finding a passion or creative outlet can be a powerful tool in recovery and help individuals find their voice and purpose. Having a supportive community and seeking professional help are crucial for long-term recovery and maintaining a sober life. Alcoholism can lead to a life of chaos and self-destruction. Surrendering and seeking support from others in recovery is crucial for finding lasting sobriety. Helping others on their recovery journeys brings joy and fulfillment. Sound Bites "Once you get through rehab, you're like, okay, here you go. Go get him, tiger. And you're like, well, what the fuck am I doing now? Like, I don't have my shit together." "I just thought that I normalized and rationalized the way that I drank and used drugs to the point where it's like, everybody does this. They just don't talk about it." "I have to stay in the moment. I have to stay present. I have to stay in the middle of the herd." "I'm not this scheming, felonious dick that is not present for my relationships that cheats and lies even when the truth is good enough." "Getting outside of yourself and doing something for somebody else every day is really important. Just do something for somebody else each day. Get outside of yourself. You'll find that life has more meaning than you ever thought that it did."
Asking for Help: A Conversation With Matt B.
May 7 2024
Asking for Help: A Conversation With Matt B.
In this episode of "Not All There," Chad finds himself in a deep conversation with his friend Matt about a topic that resonates with many: the struggle of asking for help. As they sit down together, Chad opens up about his own experiences with sobriety and the unexpected challenges that come with it. Despite being on the path to recovery and maintaining his sobriety, Chad confesses to Matt that asking for help remains one of the hardest things he's had to do. Matt listens intently, understanding the weight of Chad's words as he shares his own perspectives and experiences. Throughout their discussion, they delve into the complexities of why asking for help can feel so daunting, even for those who are sober. Chad reflects on the stigma surrounding addiction and mental health, highlighting the fear of judgment and the pressure to appear self-sufficient. As the conversation unfolds, they explore the societal expectations placed on individuals to handle their struggles alone, as well as the misconceptions that asking for help is a sign of weakness. Matt and Chad discuss the importance of vulnerability and the strength it takes to reach out when in need. Ultimately, Chad and Matt's candid conversation serves as a reminder that asking for help is not a reflection of one's shortcomings, but rather an act of courage and self-awareness. Together, they navigate the complexities of overcoming the barriers to seeking support and the profound impact it can have on one's journey towards healing and growth.