Dear Menopause

Sonya Lovell

Are you a woman experiencing changes to your physical, mental and emotional health you find hard to explain?

Have you tried talking to your doctor/partner/employer/best friend and been left feeling unsupported?

In this weekly show,  host Sonya Lovell interviews women's health experts and shares the stories of everyday women to help you understand what the hell is going on, why and where you can find support, empowerment and most importantly, a like-minded community.

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Episodes

90: Australia's Menopause Inquiry and the Push for Health Equity with Senator Marielle Smith
01-02-2024
90: Australia's Menopause Inquiry and the Push for Health Equity with Senator Marielle Smith
Senator Marielle Smith joins Sonya to discuss the Australian Senate Inquiry into Menopause and Perimenopause. Hear how this Inquiry hopes to break the silence on a topic all too often overlooked. Marielle takes us through the Inquiry's mission to recommend both legislative and societal changes and set the stage for a new era of understanding and support for this area of women's health.We delve into the heart of the Menopause Inquiry and the mechanics behind the submission process which invites public participation through the sharing of lived experiences.Understand how the submissions and evidence given are then crafted into actionable recommendations presented by the bipartisan Senate committee.Whether you're impacted by the issues discussed or a staunch advocate for women's health, this Inquiry is a testament to the collective effort of the Australian Senate. The Inquiry will culminate in a comprehensive report and recommendations due in September 2024.This is your opportunity to have your voice heard and to be a part of creating much-needed change in government policies, workplace environments, and the National and State healthcare systems.Resources:Submit Your Submission HereInformation on how to make a submissionInquiry Terms of ReferenceWellfemme's Template for SubmissionsSenator Marielle Smith's websiteThank you for listening to my show! Join the fun on InstagramTake the Midlife QuizStellar Women Website
89: Dr Fatima Khan: Weaving Eastern traditions with Western medical science
25-01-2024
89: Dr Fatima Khan: Weaving Eastern traditions with Western medical science
Have you wished that you could find a Doctor who weaves the wisdom of Eastern traditions with Western medical science?In this conversation with Dr Fatima Khan, we cover everything from hormone health to the influential role of our elders, reminding us that this phase is not just about changes but about adaptation and growth.Hormones can be a rollercoaster, and Dr Khan is no stranger to their ups and downs. Sharing experiences of her hormonal imbalances, this honest conversation with Dr. Khan highlights the need for clear, accurate education on hormone health. We debunk myths and alleviate fears, emphasising that Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) isn't a one-size-fits-all solution but part of a spectrum of options that cater to a woman's unique body and life. It's about finding balance and embracing lifestyle modifications that synergize with medical interventions to navigate these years with grace and vitality.As we wrap up our conversation, we turn our focus to the evolving landscape of women's healthcare. Discussing the need for more in-depth research and better access to specialised care, acknowledging the rich, complex lives women lead well beyond menopause. From heart to bone health, we underscore the necessity of personalised self-care rituals, challenging the norms that often leave women's health in the shadows. This episode is a hat tip to the strength of women in their midlife and a treasure trove of insights that will inspire you to cherish and prioritise your well-being as you move into your most liberating years.Resources:Dr Khan's websiteDr Khan on InstagramThank you for listening to my show! Join the fun on InstagramTake the Midlife QuizStellar Women Website
86: Early Menopause and POI at 15 Years Old with Sheree Hargreaves
04-01-2024
86: Early Menopause and POI at 15 Years Old with Sheree Hargreaves
When Sheree Hargreaves was diagnosed with premature ovarian insufficiency at just 15, it reshaped her teenage years in unexpected ways.Sheree, now 22, shares her courageous story, navigating early menopause symptoms and the complexities of hormone replacement therapy—a narrative that will both inspire and educate. Her candid insights put a spotlight on the urgent need to bridge the education gaps in women's health, especially for conditions like POI that are often shrouded in silence.In the realm of healthcare, it's not just about the treatments—it's about understanding the human experience behind the medical charts. Sheree opens up about the mental health rollercoaster that accompanies hormone imbalances, and how she's turned her fight into fuel for advocacy and outreach. She underscores the trial-and-error journey of finding the right medication and the severe complications that can arise, driving home the importance of informed medical guidance and support for individuals with POI.Through her Instagram platform, @lifeofpoi, Sheree creates a space for connection and support, providing a source of hope and representation for others walking a similar path. Her determination to educate, advocate, and pursue a PhD is nothing short of awe-inspiring—a clear call to action for all of us to lend our voices and join the conversation on women's health.ResourcesSheree on InstagramWhat is POI? - articleDaisy Network -  A Charity for Women with POIAll The Young Men - bookSlow Horses - Apple TVThank you for listening to my show! Join the fun on InstagramTake the Midlife QuizStellar Women Website
82: Menopause and Insomnia: Tracey Martin's Guide to Optimal Sleep
07-12-2023
82: Menopause and Insomnia: Tracey Martin's Guide to Optimal Sleep
Ever wondered why insomnia seems to be a constant companion when you hit perimenopause? Today, we unravel the mysteries of sleep, especially as it relates to women during the menopausal transition. I am joined by the incredibly knowledgeable Tracey Martin, a seasoned sleep coach who shares her insights on achieving optimal rest.Our enlightening conversation with Tracey takes us through the intricacies of sleep stages and the pivotal role they play in achieving deep, restorative sleep. We discuss the pivotal part played by temperature regulation and the sensory gating mechanism in maintaining sleep. If you're dealing with night sweats and hot flushes, know that you're not alone. These are just some of the challenges of menopause, brought on by hormonal changes like dropping levels of estrogen and progesterone. We didn't stop at just discussing the problems, though. Tracey offers invaluable tips to optimise your sleep environment and manage the effects of alcohol on sleep, and we deep dive into cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia (CBTi). We emphasise maintaining regular sleep schedules and avoiding sleep-disrupting foods. Our chat ends with a deep dive into how menopause impacts women's lives and the importance of these conversations. If you're transitioning through menopause or simply interested in achieving better sleep, this episode is loaded with practical advice and insights just for you.Resources:Tracey's websiteEmail Tracey: tracey@tminsomniatreatment.comTracey on InstagramBrandon Sanderson - AuthorThank you for listening to my show! Join the fun on InstagramTake the Midlife QuizStellar Women Website
80: Tania Dalton on Navigating Menopause with Resilience and Empowerment
23-11-2023
80: Tania Dalton on Navigating Menopause with Resilience and Empowerment
Have you ever reflected on the trials and triumphs of navigating through menopause? Well, this episode is a heart-to-heart with Tania Dalton who has journeyed through this phase of life and come out stronger. Tania shares her post-menopausal journey, discussing how it led her to reappraise her lifestyle choices, prioritise sleep, manage stress, and eventually improve her overall health. Tania's story isn't just about surviving menopause; it's about thriving. She redefines societal expectations by accomplishing physical feats like running a marathon and completing an Ironman triathlon post-menopause. Tania's tales of overcoming challenges and her dedication to achieving her goals are nothing short of inspiring, proving that age is just a number. We also delve into the thrill of solo travel, as evidenced by Tania's adventurous trip to Santorini, painting a vivid picture of the empowerment and freedom it can offer.Lastly, we delve into the profound effect menopause has on relationships and career choices while discussing the importance of resilience during this phase of life. Tania’s work in helping women over 50 embrace this stage and make positive changes to their health and lifestyle is truly commendable. This episode is a treasure trove of insights, whether you're approaching menopause, in the midst of it, or beyond. It's about embracing change, facing challenges head-on, and redefining your personal narrative around menopause.Resources:Beautiful Midlife - websiteTania on InstagramThriving Over 50 Facebook GroupSleep Benefits of Tart Cherry JuiceNYAD on NetflixThank you for listening to my show! Join the fun on InstagramTake the Midlife QuizStellar Women Website
78: Navigating Perimenopause Nutrition with Ange Clark
09-11-2023
78: Navigating Perimenopause Nutrition with Ange Clark
What exactly should your plate look like during perimenopause? This week, Ange Clark joins me to unravel the complex world of perimenopausal nutrition. A powerhouse in the field we dive into the far-reaching effects of low energy availability on the female body, and how to tackle the inevitable midlife weight gain with the right diet and exercise balance.We don't shy away from discussing the elephant in the room - the physiological, emotional, and mental effects of estrogen decline during perimenopause. Ange lends her expert insights on how to fight these changes through diet, resistance training, and more. We also spotlight the critical role of high-quality proteins during this phase and point you toward the best sources of these proteins. Add in a generous sprinkling of Vitamin D and Omega-3 fatty acids, and you've got a recipe for a healthy and balanced perimenopausal plate.But there's more to it than just what we eat. We discuss how hydration is often the overlooked hero during the perimenopausal period. From why salt is crucial for absorption to the benefits of drinking water with meals and how to remind ourselves to stay hydrated, we cover it all. As we wrap up, we provide a comprehensive look at women's nutrition during perimenopause - the key nutrients required, how to include them in your diet, and when to opt for supplementation. Buckle up, it's time for an enlightening journey with Ange and me into the world of perimenopausal nutrition.Connect with Ange:InstagramFacebookWebsiteThank you for listening to my show! Join the fun on InstagramTake the Midlife QuizStellar Women Website
75: Breaking Stigma and Personalised Care with Dr Louise Newson
19-10-2023
75: Breaking Stigma and Personalised Care with Dr Louise Newson
How much do you truly know about menopause? Do you know the struggles women face while accessing adequate care for menopause-related issues? I'm joined by a passionate advocate for menopause education, UK expert, Dr Louise Newson. She shares her journey and insights as a GP who identified significant gaps in the healthcare system for women going through menopause. Listen on as we unravel the layers of this complex topic.Our conversation takes a critical look at patient care, highlighting the predominant influence of hierarchical medicine and big pharma that can sometimes hinder patient autonomy and long-term health decisions. Dr. Newson shares her ground-breaking work aimed at improving the quality of life and future health of women through her clinic, app and websites. We also confront the risks associated with denying hormone replacement therapy (HRT/MHT) to some women, and the systemic issues within our healthcare system that call for a more equitable approach. We round up our conversation with an exploration of personalised care and shared decision-making in women's healthcare. We delve into the role of oncologists who often deny treatment to women with a breast cancer history.  And we talk about the persistent gender inequality in cancer treatment. As we wrap up, we urge listeners to continue educating themselves about menopause and break the stigma surrounding it.  Resources:Newson Healthbalance AppDr Newson on InstagramConfidence in the Menopause Online CourseThank you for listening to my show! Join the fun on InstagramTake the Midlife QuizStellar Women Website