Dear Dumb Bitch,

Kel Cal

Have you ever asked yourself, "why am I like this?!"????

Then you're in the right place! Welcome to Dear Dumb Bitch, kinda like Dear Diary, but Dear Dumb Bitch, because we all have an inner Dumb Bitch that's teaching us life lessons when we actually pay attention!

Join Kel Cal, life transformation and empowerment mentor, author, and speaker as she (over)shares her "why am I like this?" moments and the lessons she's learned from her past and everyday life with you here!

Disclaimer: These are her current views now, but she's continuously learning, evolving, and expanding her perspective so they may or may not be an accurate representation of her perspective and beliefs in the future. She's changed her mind in the past and will definitely change her mind again! Kel is not a therapist and doesn't play one on the internet and is an advocate for getting yourself the help, support, and guidance you need.

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Episodes

How to Be It Till You See It with Lesley Logan
16-04-2024
How to Be It Till You See It with Lesley Logan
ORDER How I Cured My Resting Bitch FaceSIGN UP for the INNER MAGIC WorkshopThis is an extra special episode because we have an absolutely amazing guest on the show!Lesley Logan is an entrepreneur, 2nd generation certified Pilates teacher, breathwork, habits and mindset coach, & the founder of OnlinePilatesClasses.com. Lesley has been teaching Pilates since 2008 & has run multiple studios, has trained hundreds of people to become teachers, & has taught thousands of students around the world. She helps women ditch perfection, take messy action, & prioritize themselves first so they can do life better. Lesley is also the host of the Be It Till You See It podcast and travels the world leading Pilates retreats.We dive into so many incredible topics like how Lesley discovered her true purpose and life calling and went from homeless, carless, & no place to work to a dream apartment & Pilates studio, how breakdowns can lead to breakthroughs, how to shift beliefs, & advice for beginning the journey of entrepreneurship.We also discuss:What to do if you feel stuck or don’t know what changes to make The real meaning of confidenceThe importance of taking messy actionHow to rise above perfectionism2 powerful journaling practices& way more than you knew you needed to know!Connect with LesleyInstagram: @lesley.loganWebsite: OnlinePilatesClasses.com // LesleyLogan.coPodcast: Be It Till You See It ORDER How I Cured My Resting Bitch FaceAPPLY FOR 1:1 PRIVATE COACHINGSCHEDULE A BREAKTHROUGH SESSIONSCHEDULE A DISTANCE REIKI ENERGY HEALING SESSION Let’s Connect! Instagram: @iamkelcal RESOURCES 💖 FREE Clarity Session to Get UNSTUCK 💖 FREE Get Over Your Toxic Ex Strategy Session 💖 BONUS Journal Prompts 💖 5 Step Guide to Get Over a Toxic Ex 💖 Understand Your Red Flag Style Quiz 💖 The Dumb Bitch Journaling Guide to Create Clarity & Get Unstuck 💖 Self-Care Sunday Email
The Dumb Bitch Guide to Your Nervous System & Using Somatics as a Modality to Heal Trauma with Veronica Rottman
05-03-2024
The Dumb Bitch Guide to Your Nervous System & Using Somatics as a Modality to Heal Trauma with Veronica Rottman
PREORDER How I Cured My Resting Bitch Face: Your Guide to Stop Settling, Fall in Love with Yourself, & Create a Life You’re Obsessed With on Amazon!This is an extra special episode because we have an absolutely incredible guest on the show!Veronica Rottman is a Somatic Practitioner & the founder of Waking Womb which is a somatics education & certification program that is centered around healing your nervous system so you can come home to your body through somatics. She holds space for trauma resolution through the nervous system & has helped thousands internationally through her offerings. Veronica’s areas of focus are pelvic health & embodiment, the female nervous system, somatic attachment, childhood trauma, & boundary ruptures.This episode is everything you ever needed to know about the nervous system & healing trauma using somatics.We dive into some powerful topics like:What the nervous system is & how it affects your lifeHow the body holds the potential to rewire your experiences in lifeWhy healing your nervous system is fundamental for creating the life you desire to liveWhy somatic practices & nervous system healing are the missing pieces if you feel like you’re doing all the “healing things” but still feel stuckWhy you can’t create your dream life when you’re living in survival modeHow somatic practices help heal traumaThe effects trauma has on the bodyThe truth about physical symptomsHow our attachment systems are imprinted in our nervous systemHow to reconnect with your body and build the relationship with your bodyWhy we avoid emotionsAnxiety & the relationship between anxiety & the nervous systemPractices to support your nervous systemWhat to do when you feel disregulatedThe importance of pleasure& so much more!Connect with VeronicaInstagram: @wakingwombWebsite: https://waking-womb.com/ORDER How I Cured My Resting Bitch FaceAPPLY FOR 1:1 PRIVATE COACHINGSCHEDULE A BREAKTHROUGH SESSIONSCHEDULE A DISTANCE REIKI ENERGY HEALING SESSION Let’s Connect! Instagram: @iamkelcal RESOURCES 💖 FREE Clarity Session to Get UNSTUCK 💖 FREE Get Over Your Toxic Ex Strategy Session 💖 BONUS Journal Prompts 💖 5 Step Guide to Get Over a Toxic Ex 💖 Understand Your Red Flag Style Quiz 💖 The Dumb Bitch Journaling Guide to Create Clarity & Get Unstuck 💖 Self-Care Sunday Email
Relationship Dynamics, Transcending Trauma, & How to Be Unbroken with Michael Unbroken
20-02-2024
Relationship Dynamics, Transcending Trauma, & How to Be Unbroken with Michael Unbroken
Sign up for the ART OF RE-INVENTION A free virtual workshop on 2.22.24 to re-invent the f*ck out of your life and step into the boldest, most authentic version of you!Join my BOOK LAUNCH TEAM Receive the latest updates, behind the scenes access, and exclusive opportunities for my soon to be published bestselling book!This is an extra special episode because not only do we have a guest episode, but this guest also happens to be the 1st male guest on Dear Dumb Bitch, which kinda feels like he took the Dear Dumb Bitch, virginity for male guests. On this episode we are joined by Michael Anthony aka Michael Unbroken. Michael is the founder of Think Unbroken, an entrepreneur, award-winning speaker, best-selling author, podcast host, coach, an advocate for adult survivors of childhood trauma, and an incredible human being!I took advantage of being able to ask a man absolutely anything and we dive into so many incredible topics including:Why some people heal and others don’tThe power of rock bottomRaising your standardsThe significance of personal responsibilityHow childhood trauma is the theft of identityHow relationships change as a result of your healing journeyBecoming a match for the relationship you desireStandards in a relationshipThe truth about having an emotionally available partnerThe importance of conflict in relationshipsPolarity in relationships and attracting a masculine man& so much more!Connect with MichaelInstagram: @michaelunbrokenThink Unbroken Podcast: Break Toxic Relationship Cycles with Kel Calwww.ThinkUnbroken.comORDER How I Cured My Resting Bitch FaceAPPLY FOR 1:1 PRIVATE COACHINGSCHEDULE A BREAKTHROUGH SESSIONSCHEDULE A DISTANCE REIKI ENERGY HEALING SESSION Let’s Connect! Instagram: @iamkelcal RESOURCES 💖 FREE Clarity Session to Get UNSTUCK 💖 FREE Get Over Your Toxic Ex Strategy Session 💖 BONUS Journal Prompts 💖 5 Step Guide to Get Over a Toxic Ex 💖 Understand Your Red Flag Style Quiz 💖 The Dumb Bitch Journaling Guide to Create Clarity & Get Unstuck 💖 Self-Care Sunday Email
Connect With Your Future Self
02-01-2024
Connect With Your Future Self
QUANTUM LEAP: Exclusive 1:1 Workshop to create your blueprint to QUANTUM LEAP in 2024 FREE for a limited availability for a limited timeThis episode contains a guided visualization to help you connect with your future self so you can create clarity with who you are becoming and the vision that you have for yourself and your life. This is a powerful AF practice to receive guidance from your future self so make sure you listen when you won’t be interrupted and have some space to get comfortable and journal!We also discuss:Why New Year Resolutions don’t workHow pedestaling your future self gives your power awayThe 2 most important aspects of manifesting  & way more than you knew you needed to know!Let’s Connect!Instagram // TikTokRESOURCESLearn more about my coaching programsFREE Clarity Session to Get UNSTUCKFREE Get Over Your Toxic Ex Strategy SessionJournal Prompts5 Step Guide to Get Over a Toxic ExUnderstand Your Red Flag Style QuizThe Dumb Bitch Journaling Guide to Create Clarity & Get UnstuckSelf-Love Love Language QuizORDER How I Cured My Resting Bitch FaceAPPLY FOR 1:1 PRIVATE COACHINGSCHEDULE A BREAKTHROUGH SESSIONSCHEDULE A DISTANCE REIKI ENERGY HEALING SESSION Let’s Connect! Instagram: @iamkelcal RESOURCES 💖 FREE Clarity Session to Get UNSTUCK 💖 FREE Get Over Your Toxic Ex Strategy Session 💖 BONUS Journal Prompts 💖 5 Step Guide to Get Over a Toxic Ex 💖 Understand Your Red Flag Style Quiz 💖 The Dumb Bitch Journaling Guide to Create Clarity & Get Unstuck 💖 Self-Care Sunday Email