For The Love of Kids

Stephanie Jane Bennett

When you suddenly find that the centre of your universe is your child, your whole life shifts. Your days, your nights, your relationships, your behaviour and most noticeably yourself. It’s a pivotal moment of metamorphosis however subtle because your life simply won’t be the same again. So how do you navigate that? And if you’re not a parent how can you find ways to relate, support and keep hold of that person you knew before mother or fatherhood (who’s still very much there btw)? Join me and my guests as we share our experiences and try to figure this out… for the love of kids! read less
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Episodes

#E3: Leadership lessons, being more than just a mum, & freelancing for the win - with Dr Katie Best
Nov 2 2023
#E3: Leadership lessons, being more than just a mum, & freelancing for the win - with Dr Katie Best
In a recent study into motherhood by the parenting app Peanut. 75% of women they spoke to described feeling invisible and 94% feel unappreciated, unacknowledged or unseen. That’s not the news you want to hear if you’re an expectant mum but it might be the news you need to hear to realise you’re not alone if you are a mum and feeling the same.  In the #InvisibleMother report, Peanut explains that each stage of motherhood can feel like a cloak of invisibility.  Society expects us to do it all and be it all, often without any appropriate support or societal infrastructure. And with so many female leaders, leaving their roles in senior positions at this juncture in their lives, isn’t it time something changed?  Having taken the leap from Managing Director of a social media agency at the time I got pregnant to freelance marketing consultant before my daughter turned two, I’m on my own journey of rediscovering my role in society as a mum, a career woman and the person I was before.  So who better to speak to about the lessons we can all learn about leadership, freelancing and being more than just a mum than Dr Katie Best. Katie is a leadership coach, consultant and executive educator who helps senior leaders and their organisations to accelerate their leadership and enhance their performance.  She's a parent to one daughter, and regularly works with leaders who are parents, helping them navigate tricky issues such as work-life balance, the return to work after parental leave, and career development. And she's currently writing a book helping leaders to solve their messiest leadership problems, to be published by Hachette in 2025. She also writes a fortnightly leadership agony aunt newsletter, Dear Katie, which I love as it focuses on helping leaders tackle all kinds of problems.  But most importantly to me, she was my Head Tutor on LSE's MBA Essentials online certificate programme which I finished the day my daughter Naomi was born.  Join us now as we talk about leadership lessons, being more than just a mum and how freelancing has been the way forward for a mum like Katie. (Note: The Invisible Mother report by Peanut App was released after the recording of this episode) — Dr Katie Best Connect with Katie for thoughtful content on leadership and beyond on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drkatiebest/  Sign-up to ‘Dear Katie’, her bi-weekly newsletter that solves readers’ messy leadership problems. https://katiebest.com/sign-up/ Subscribe to Katie’s YouTube channel to develop the skills, attitudes and confidence to excel in leadership.https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7Io11QQ6AaZNKHyIjx2wzw Read the Invisible Mothers report by Peanut App https://invisible-mothers.peanut-app.io/ and join in the conversation on social media: #invisiblemothers Follow For the Love of Kids on Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/loveofkidspodcast/
#E2: Surrogacy, two under three, my husband and me - Featuring Jonathan Kirkby
Oct 19 2023
#E2: Surrogacy, two under three, my husband and me - Featuring Jonathan Kirkby
Steph talks with Jonathan Kirkby about his journey to parenthood via surrogacy and the joys and challenges of raising two kids under three with his husband. -- As a teen in the 90s I was hugely influenced by the notion of girl power, going after whatever I wanted and believing it could be possible to achieve it. So when the traditional options of becoming a parent looked bleak, I took matters into my own hands and explored other options. Now a proud solo mama thanks to the wonders of science, I know there are so many other routes to parenthood. I considered fertility treatment, adoption and even fostering on my journey but something I hadn’t considered for myself was surrogacy. But my guest today did. Not once, but twice. And his journey began at the height of the pandemic. Jonathan Kirkby, managing director and co-founder of award-winning communications agency Instinct PR here in London, has been at the heart of successful parenting campaigns for the past ten years. There’s not a journalist or influencer with children under ten he hasn’t worked with. But he’s the first to admit that now with two kids under two, he’s more inspired than ever to deliver evermore brilliant campaigns, because as a parent himself now he gets exactly what’s needed by the amazing brands he works with every day. Join us now as we chat about Jonathan’s incredible surrogacy journey, how his life has evolved and why he’s so passionate to spread awareness about the many routes to parenthood there are to explore. —— Learn more about surrogacy: https://www.mysurrogacyjourney.com/ https://www.worldwidesurrogacy.org/ Learn more about fertility treatment and donors: https://www.cryosinternational.com/ https://www.europeanspermbank.com/https://www.carefertility.com/ And for more information on surrogacy, IVF, adoption and donor insemination via the NHS in the UK: https://www.nhs.uk/pregnancy/having-a-baby-if-you-are-lgbt-plus/ways-to-become-a-parent-if-you-are-lgbt-plus/ Follow For the Love of Kids on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveofkidspodcast/