Is God OK with healthy boundaries? Bestselling author and founder of Proverbs 31 Ministries Lysa TerKeurst shares what she discovered after in-depth study of goodbyes and boundaries. Sadie and Lysa discuss why the motivation BEHIND our boundaries is important and how you can tell the difference between a mistake and a pattern. Sadie shares personal stories of her past relationship red flags. Lysa gets intensely personal and honest about her current circumstance. Even though she never thought she'd be in this place, she knows God is good, God is good to us, and He is good at being God. This mindset helps her — and it can help you! — snap into focus what is true, despite how tough our realities are at any given time. Plus, what is the first step of seeking help when you understand and realize you're in a bad relationship? And encouragement to not confuse "difficult" with "destructive" in ANY of your relationships.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices