This week on the podcast, Marcia and Stacey talk with guest girlfriend, Amie Pronk about the new short film, For Our Daughters. This film is the brain-child of Kristin Kobes DuMez, author of the book Jesus and John Wayne. They discuss themes from this film, which includes sexual and spiritual abuse in the church. It’s a hard topic, but also hopeful because more and more women are choosing to bravely speak out about their experiences. Their stories matter because they are helping others who have been abused feel seen, believed, and supported. It is our hope that by highlighting this film, we can help continue these important conversations.Resources mentioned:For more information about the film: https://www.forourdaughtersfilm.com/Book mentioned by Nancy French, GhostedKristin Kobes DuMez Substack Christa Brown Substack-----Then we talk with special guest, Irene Williams about how to “find our spark”! It’s a fun and informative conversation about how to get unstuck and move forward in our lives. You will love what Irene has to say!ABOUT IRENE:Irene Williams is a speaker, writer and life coach for entrepreneurs and executives. Her unique frameworks are ideal for those ready to take their businesses and lives to the next level, launch personal brands or transition to new career paths. She comes to this chapter of her professional life following 25+ years in brand communications, PR and social media management, including 13 years as a digital marketing agency owner.Through The Irene Williams Podcast, she shares intelligent inspiration for life, while her Confirm Humanity podcast focuses on ‘how to be human in a digital world.’ Find Irene’s digital business card with links to her ventures at irenewilliams.biz.To sign up for Irene’s new program, “Spark”: https://irenewilliams.com/courses/Irene's Podcasts:The Irene Williams PodcastConfirm HumanityThe Blonde Leading the Blind podcastTo learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Our girlfriend, Marie Griffith joins us this week to talk about her backpacking adventures and how nature can be a healing escape for us. I think even the most "indoorsy" person will be inspired!To read more about Marie's adventures, check out her blog at: https://www.livelikeitmatters.net/ Then, we talk to our special guest, Dr. Merry Lin about her new book, Rebecoming: Come Out Of Hiding to Live as Your God-Given Essential Self. Some of the things we talked with Dr. Lin about are:How we process all our decision through our emotions.Why it’s important to name our emotions correctly.What is our “essential self”? and how do we get in touch with it?What is the Enneagram and how can it help?What causes our essential self to go into hiding?Why do we sometimes stay in unhealthy relationships or situations?How does getting to know ourselves go hand in hand with getting to know God?We loved our conversation with Dr. Lin and we know you will too!About Dr. Lin:Dr. Merry C. Lin is a psychologist, podcaster, and author with over 30 years of clinical expertise.  She is the Executive Director of Dr. Lin & Associates, where she leads a team of psychotherapists, life coaches, and leadership experts. A wise counsellor and respected speaker, she can be heard on her popular podcast, The Fully Lived Life, with her friend, Coach Gillian, where they speak about life, love and purpose through the lens of faith and science. She is an advocate for social justice and works globally to equip and support leaders who serve human trafficking and abuse survivors. Dr. Merry is the author of The Fully Lived Life: Rescuing Our Souls from All that Holds Us Back, and her teaching videos are available on her website, YouTube and RightNow Media. She has a new book that just came out, Rebecoming: Come Out of Hiding to Live as Your God-Given Essential Self in July 2024.To order the book Rebecoming: https://www.amazon.com/Rebecoming-Come-Hiding-God-given-Essential/dp/1540904202To connect with Dr. Lin:   https://linktr.ee/DrmerryRESOURCES MENTIONED: Article that Stacey mentioned about change:How to get your team on board with a major change: https://hbr.org/2022/08/how-to-get-your-team-on-board-with-a-major-changeFor more information about the iEQ9: Stacey is an iEQ9 practitioner and if you’re interested in taking the iEQ9, you can pick your preferred version at this link: https://www.integrative9.com/StaceyWynn/enneagram/test/individual/ Stacey uses the iEQ9 as part of her coaching practiGod And My Girlfriends MinistriesA non-profit ministry helping women flourish in their relationships with God and others.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

We dove right into the political arena this week with our guest girlfriend Melissa Jackson. We talked about the value of debates, how to find trusted sources for breaking down political issues, and how religious beliefs help shape our political beliefs. We also talk about the difference between values and beliefs. It's a great conversation!Then with special guest, Petra Amrein, we dig into:1. What does it mean to be our own advocate?2. How do you fill up your own cup when you feel depleted?3. What does “turning inward” look like?4. What is “pro-aging”? 5. Changing the language around aging.We had some great conversations and I hope you'll enjoy this first episode of our brand new Season Five!About Petra Amrein:"Petra is an integrative health coach and nurse with a deep passion for nurturing well-being and fostering positive change. With a blend of compassionate care and holistic health strategies, Petra guides individuals toward balanced and fulfilling lives, emphasizing the connection between mind, body, and spirit. Her focus is on empowering women to prioritize self-care, embrace authenticity, and find harmony in all aspects of life. As a pro-age advocate, Petra celebrates the wisdom and strength that come with age, inspiring others to live with confidence and true self-expression.” To connect with Petra Amrein:https://petraamrein.com/https://www.instagram.com/the.happy.peach/https://www.instagram.com/the.peachie.life/---------------LINKS TO THINGS DISCUSSED:Sharon McMahonhttps://www.instagram.com/sharonsaysso/https://sharonmcmahon.com/podcasthttps://substack.com/@sharonmcmahonPantsuit Politics:https://www.instagram.com/pantsuitpolitics/https://www.pantsuitpoliticsshow.com/https://substack.com/@pantsuitpoliticsAllsides Media:https://www.instagram.com/allsidesnow/https://www.allsides.com/unbiased-balanced-news*We did some checking and it’s the FCC (Federal Communications Commission) that regulates interstate and international communications by radio, television, wire, satellite and cable - Melissa was right. :-)  And the regulation Melissa was talking about was called the Fairness Doctrine, which required the holders of broadcast licenses both to present controversial issues of public importance and to do so in a manner that fairly reflected differing viewpoints. Online store we featured:https://2ndandmine.com/God And My Girlfriends MinistriesA non-profit ministry helping women flourish in their relationships with God and others.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Are you a Mom that is going through a faith deconstruction? Do you wonder how to raise your own children to believe in God and have faith when your own journey is in transition? Then you are definitely going to want to listen in to our guest today!Our guest for our Season Four finale is the wonderful Elizabeth Enns Petters. Lizz is a freelance writer and a podcaster known for the Deconstructing Mamas Podcast. She is the daughter of biblical scholar Pete Enns. Lizz is passionate about normalizing deconstruction as a crucial part of the faith process, and creating a safe space for people from all walks of life to explore God in their own way. She currently lives on the East Coast with her husband and two young children. You can connect with Lizz at these links:Her website: https://www.elizabethpetters.com/Her Instagram: https://www.facebook.com/elizabethennspettersand to Listen to the Deconstructing Mamas Podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/deconstructing-mamas/id1612182466---------Also, Stacey and Marcia do a little recap of some of their favorite conversations from Season 4 and talk about what might be coming up for Season 5. Thanks to everyone who has joined our podcast community. Make sure you subscribe to our Instagram and our Facebook page to keep up with all the latest and to give us feedback on what you are enjoying and what you want to hear so we can serve you best with this podcast.Have a great summer and we will see you in August 2024!Resources Lizz mentioned:Meredith Anne MillerTo learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

As we enter into this political election season, we reached out to former Nashville Mayor and current TN Congressional Candidate, Megan Barry for a chat. We found her lovely, forthcoming, and inspiring.  Also, Marcia and Melissa Jackson discuss how they are navigating the political climate and why it's important for us as women to pay attention to what is happening right now... and then use our voices... and of course, VOTE.----ABOUT MEGAN BARRY:Megan is the daughter of a proud Marine and a stay-at-home-mom. She grew up with her three sisters in Kansas and moved to Tennessee to attend Vanderbilt University. She served on the Nashville/Davidson county Metro Council, and then became the first woman elected Mayor of Nashville/Davidson County.  While in office, she worked across party-lines to promote and pass funding for transportation and road projects across Tennessee. She also created Opportunity Now, a program that creates thousands of paid opportunities for young people throughout the private, public, and nonprofit sectors. Bringing together business and community interests, Barry played a key leadership role in attracting professional soccer to Nashville, and forged a public-private partnership that enabled construction of a permanent home for Nashville SC. While mayor, the Barry’s lost their only son, Max, to a drug overdose. Since leaving office, Barry has worked to combat the shame and stigma of substance use disorder by sharing Max’s story. Megan Barry is married to Bruce Barry, and they share their home with two rescue pups, Natasha and Winslow Arizona.In Congress, Barry will focus on protecting reproductive freedom, addressing gun violence, creating economic opportunities and safeguarding benefits for seniors and addressing the devastation of the opioid epidemic.Connect with Megan:Website: https://www.meganbarryforcongress.com/or on her socials:Twitter: Instagram:Facebook: TikTok: ------Mentioned in this podcast:Articles on Election Stress Disorder:https://newsnetwork.mayoclinic.org/discussion/is-election-stress-disorder-real/The amazing Ember mugs:  https://bit.ly/3xMYP0v---Links to Resources for Substance Abuse Help:https://www.samhsa.gov   This is the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration - lots of resources to help people who need access to treatment and other resources.https://www.shatterproof.org/learn/addiction-resources https://countitlockitdropit.org -provides resources on where to drop your unused medications God And My Girlfriends MinistriesA non-profit ministry helping women flourish in their relationships with God and others.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Without a doubt, we have the most requests on this podcast to address friendship issues and how to forge more meaningful relationships with women. Today, we do just that! We have as our guests this week, three of the most talented and respected singer/songwriters in Nashville joining us to talk about their careers, their families, their friendship and how they balance them all!We welcome Emily Shackelton, Jenn Bostic and Sarah Darling this week as they discuss how to forge friendships in a competitive business, how to find balance in their lives and more. You guys are going to fall in love with these three ladies and get inspired too. So join us this week for a great episode!ABOUT OUR GUESTS:Emily Shackelton is a singer/songwriter hailing from Biwabik, Minnesota. She celebrated her first Number 1 with Carly Pearce's breakout single "Every Little Thing” in 2018, and recently celebrated her second Number 1 with Pearce's hit song "What He Didn't Do".  Emily was awarded “Breakout Songwriter of the Year 2018” by Music Row Magazine and proudly writes for Winsongs Publishing. Her writing catalog also includes singles and cuts by Reba McEntire, Joe Nichols, Runaway June, Sara Evans, Jana Kramer, David Cook, Lauren Alaina, Chrissy Metz, Joy Williams and more, as well as tv shows like Nashville, American Idol, and Dancing With the Stars. INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/emilyshackelton/Jenn Bostic is a soulful singer/songwriter with a hint of pop, blues and gospel. Her hit song “Jealous of the Angels,” written for her late father,  has over 50 million collective streams on YouTube, has gone #1 on various iTunes charts by various artists in the United Kingdom and Ireland. Bostic has performed sold out tours across the United States and Europe, including performances on the stages of The Grand Ole Opry, The Ryman Auditorium, and Lincoln Center. She was twice named “International Touring Artist of the Year,” by the British Country Music Association (2017/2018).  Her latest album, “You Find a Way,” created with Grammy nominated producer and hit songwriter, Lauren Christy, released July 2022, and was named “Album of the Year” at the 2022 Louder than the Music Awards.WEBSITE: https://www.jennbostic.com/INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/jennbostic/Sarah Darling’s musical journey has taken her from a small town in Iowa to a global tour to hone her craft and develop her unique sound. Her credits include five full-length albums, multiple singles, including a #1 on the UK Country charts, and many duets. She has over 20 million streams, 11 million video views, and over 90 appearances on the Grand Ole Opry stage. She is one of the first Sirius XM The Highway™ Finds and part of the first class of CMT’s Next Women of Country. She has performed at the CMA Music Fest, Nashville Meets London, British Country Music Festival, British Summertime Festival supporting Bonnie Raitt, James Taylor, Paul Simon, Carrie Underwood, Scotty McCreery, and more. She has appeared on Conan, CMT, The Bachelor, HLN, Fox & Friends, and more.WEBSITE: https://www.sarahdarling.com/INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsarahdarling/To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Church is supposed to be our safe place. Our Christian brothers and sisters are supposed to support us when we are lied about, misrepresented and treated unfairly. What do you do when all that fails you?Our guest today knows all too well about this kind of church hurt. Aimee has been through it all and is using her voice to help others who are trying to process this kind of hurt. The kind of hurt that shatters everything you knew to be true. Her story is compelling and awful and beautiful all at the same time. Find out how she is walking out of a deeply painful place, with her faith in Christ intact. We are thrilled to have author/speaker/blogger, Aimee Byrd as our guest this week. Marcia, Stacey and Marie Griffith have a beautiful conversation with Aimee about healing after church hurt and how to move on from that without losing your faith in Christ. Her story is powerful and we know it will be encouraging for many of you. ABOUT AIMEE BYRD: Aimee is the author of several books, including The Sexual Reformation, Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, Why Can’t We Be Friends?, No Little Women, and her new book coming out May 7th is called The Hope In Our Scars.She writes about looking for the beauty and wonder in theology—learning about God—and spiritual formation, Aimee writes about the things she hoped to talk about in church. In this quest, she’s found many others who’ve been disillusioned by the church but are still looking for what’s real, beautiful, true, and good. It’s often not where we think it is. She writes regularly on her Substack at https://aimeebyrd.substack.com/To learn more about Aimee: https://aimeebyrd.com/To pre-order The Hope In Our Scars: https://www.amazon.com/Hope-Our-Scars-Underground-Disillusionment/dp/0310157145/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1699453248&sr=8-1More podcasts that dive deeper into Aimee's story:The Roys ReportThe Two Cities Podcast------Also, our friend Staci Frenes joins Marcia in the girlfriend chat segment and they talk about the complicated emotions surrounding Easter when you are in deconstruction and the difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking. Join us!To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

We are back with Pt. 2 of our conversation with Tiffany Lee (Plumb music) and Melissa Jackson as we discuss Tiffany's faith shift and how a perfect storm of circumstances led her into re-thinking everything she knew about life and love and spirituality. Pre-order Plumb's new album: Candy Coated Waterdrops ReimaginedAnd our friend Amie Pronk rejoins us in the girlfriend seat this week as they talk about what makes life worth living. Also, Amie and Stacey help Marcia do some inner child work. :-) ------About Plumb: As a musical artist, Plumb has sold over 500,000 records, and over two million singles worldwide. Originally signed as a contemporary Christian music recording artist in 1997, Plumb is now known as well as or better in alternative rock and EDM, and for the use of her music in film and television than she is in the contemporary Christian music market.Plumb has co-penned songs for numerous other artists, including Michelle Branch, Mandisa, Mandy Moore, Jaci Velasquez, and Natalie Grant, and had music placed in many films and television shows.And she is the author of two books, “Need You Now” and “Fight For Her”To learn more about Plumb:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/plumbmusic/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/plumbmusic/ About Melissa Jackson:Melissa Jackson is strategic marketing manager, brand developer, and website creator. Melissa works for the General Council on Finance and Administration for the United Methodist church as their marketing services manager. She has lived in Nashville for 25 years. She spent six of those years working as a graphic designer for Word Entertainment and Warner Bros Records, and four years as the Director of Creative Services for Trevecca Nazarene University. She loves to write, read, vacation with her husband and two daughters, fish, play board games, and loves to curate playlists and listen to her vinyl collection.To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Many of you know Tiffany Lee by her stage name, Plumb. She has toured the world, sold over 500,000 records, and over two million singles worldwide. Today, we just get to talk to "Tiff" as her best friend, Melissa Jackson calls her. Tiff and "Melis" give us a beautiful and authentic view into their friendship and both give some amazing advice on how to navigate long-term friendship, how to hold one another accountable, and how to critique each other without coming across as being critical. We know you guys are going to take what you hear today into your own friendships and be better for it!Also, this is just Part One of this interview. We had such a rich and vibrant conversation that we broke it up into two parts, so make sure you listen again next week for the rest of the conversation!----------About Plumb: As a musical artist, Plumb has sold over 500,000 records, and over two million singles worldwide. Originally signed as a contemporary Christian music recording artist in 1997, Plumb is now known as well as or better in alternative rock and EDM, and for the use of her music in film and television than she is in the contemporary Christian music market.Plumb has co-penned songs for numerous other artists, including Michelle Branch, Mandisa, Mandy Moore, Jaci Velasquez, and Natalie Grant, and had music placed in many films and television shows.And she is the author of two books, “Need You Now” and “Fight For Her”To learn more about Plumb:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/plumbmusic/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/plumbmusic/ About Melissa Jackson: Melissa Jackson is strategic marketing manager, brand developer, and website creator. Melissa works for the General Council on Finance and Administration for the United Methodist church as their marketing services manager. She has lived in Nashville for 25 years. She spent six of those years working as a graphic designer for Word Entertainment and Warner Bros Records, and four years as the Director of Creative Services for Trevecca Nazarene University. She loves to write, read, vacation with her husband and two daughters, fish, play board games, and loves to curate playlists and listen to her vinyl collection. To order Stacey's honey:https://www.instagram.com/rockypointbees/To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Are you finding yourself at a crossroads? Do you find yourself wondering "What now, God?" -- well even if you aren't in "mid-life" right now, you're going to love this inspiring conversation with our guest, Debbie Cunningham.Debbie is a jazz recording artist, author, speaker & podcast host. After spending more than a decade in the music business and singing about love & romance, she decided to write a book about it… and published her first book, Dancing in The Kitchen in 2019. — In it, Debbie shares stories and strategies for couples to build lasting love even when life is challenging. In 2023, she began to notice how most women feel a sense of loneliness and a lack of connection through the midlife years. Debbie felt God nudging her to encourage them on line by starting a podcast called Midlife Crescendo. There she encourages women to not just survive midlife changes but intentionally cultivate and pursue their passions through this second phase of life. Personally, she enjoys spending time with her husband Derek, her 2 kids and 2 grandsons, traveling, and pausing for afternoon tea or the sunset as often as possible. Debbie resides in Franklin,Tn.You can connect with Debbie here:Her website: https://debbiecunningham.netPersonal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/debbiecunninghamofficial/OR for the podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/midlifecrescendo/To sign up for her FREE WEBINAR, Four Keys to Launch Your Midlife Dream, go here: https://debbiecunningham.net/4keys---Sitting in the girlfriend chair this week is Melissa Jackson.Melissa Jackson works for The General Council on Finance and Administration of The United Methodist Church as a Visual Content Specialist and Brand Development Strategist. She lives in Nashville, TN with her husband, Tim, her two daughters, June and October, and their dog Frankie.To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Without a doubt, we have had the most requests asking us to dive into friendships and the nuances behind making and keeping good friends here on the podcast. Insert our guest this week - Lea Sims! This lady brought some amazing insight on female friendship, why it's so important, how to make good friends and BE a good friend. You guys are going to LOVE what Lea has to say. We also talk about getting "un-stuck" in life, and a bit about her faith journey and how deconstruction has played a part. This episode is a bit longer than usual but it was too good to cut it down! Don't miss this conversation. ABOUT LEA: Lea Sims is a Christian author and teacher living in Jacksonville, Florida, who writes fiction books, study guides, and resources to help women find freedom, identity and purpose in their lives, ministries and careers. She has written two books, Running From Monday and Waiting On Tuesday. She has since spent 19 years in women’s ministry leadership, where she has followed the call of God on her life to rescue, teach, and equip women in the church—advancing that goal against the backdrop of an evolving global church, debates around the role and value of women in ministry, and the increasing need for female voices on critical theological issues. By day, she is the chief marketing officer for a global healthcare NGO, shaping narrative and brand messaging for an organization whose mission she is deeply passionate about. And at all times, she is a grateful daughter of God, wife, mom, grandmother, and friend. To connect with Lea:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lea.simsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lea_sims/---RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Books:Dancing in the Darkness: Spiritual Lessons for Thriving in Turbulent Times, by Otis Moss IIIWith Head and Heart: The Autobiography of Howard Thurman, by Howard ThurmanBe The Bridge, by Latasha MorrisonFierce Love, by Rev Jacqui LewisTheologizin’ Bigger, by Trey FergusonCaste, by Isabel WilkersonReading While Black: African American Biblical Interpretation as an Exercise in Hope, by Esau McCaulley Jesus and the Disinherited, by Howard ThurmanBonhoeffer's Black Jesus: Harlem Renaissance Theology and an Ethic of Resistance, by Reggie L. Williams------Book Clubs coming up:In March on Wednesday nights: Field Notes for the Wilderness: Practices for An Evolving Faith, by Sarah BesseyFor all the info on this group and to sign up, go here: https://godandmygirlfriendsministries.org/online-book-clubs ---Starting March 17th on Sunday nights: The Way of Integrity, by Martha BeckJoin the FB group, The Deconstruction Zone for more info, or email Stacey at thegamgpodcast@gmail.com for more details.God And My Girlfriends MinistriesA non-profit ministry helping women flourish in their relationships with God and others.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Our special guest this week is Brandi Wilson. Marcia and Stacey talk with Brandi about her newest book, "Better Than Okay: Finding Hope and Healing after your Marriage ends". Brandi has managed to write the perfect handbook for handling life after loss, betrayal and heartbreak. But her advice isn't limited to divorce. What she learned and is sharing with us all now, is great advice for navigating any kind of grief and loss. Don't miss this inspiring conversation!Brandi Wilson is an author, coach, and speaker who has been in leadership for more than a decade at Leading and Loving It, a non-profit created to empower women to love life and ministry. Brandi has helped plant two churches and is passionate about walking alongside single moms and divorced women as they navigate parenting and life. Her latest book is Better Than Okay: Finding Hope and Healing After Your Marriage Ends. Brandi lives with her three sons in Nashville, TN. And you can find all about her and what she is doing at lovebrandiwilson.com.To connect with Brandi: Her websiteHer InstagramHer FacebookOrder Brandi's book More about Brandi's coaching---And in the girlfriend chat, Stacey and Marcia welcome Stacey's real life girlfriend, Roni Saulsberry for the first time to the podcast. We discuss social media usage, how much news is healthy to take in, and more.... Instagram post discussed in girlfriend chat God And My Girlfriends MinistriesA non-profit ministry helping women flourish in their relationships with God and others.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Our special guest this week is Amanda Held Opelt. Marcia and Stacey talk with Amanda about her newest book, "Holy Unhappiness: God, Goodness, and The Myth of The Blessed Life".  If you have ever wondered why life can seem so hard, even though you are trying your best to do everything "right", this episode is for YOU. Also, Juli-Maners Hood returns in the girlfriend seat and brings us a beautiful "good news" story that you don't want to miss!---Amanda is an author, speaker, and songwriter. She writes about faith, grief, and creativity, and believes in the power of community, ritual, shared worship, and storytelling to heal even our deepest wounds. Amanda has spent 15 years serving in the non-profit and humanitarian aid sectors, and has written for Christianity Today, Premier Christianity, and 100 Days in Appalachia. She lives in the mountains of Boone, North Carolina, with her husband and two young daughters. To connect with Amanda:Sign up for her newsletterAmanda's official websiteAmanda's YouTubeAmanda's InstagramAmanda's Twitter---Juli's Good News StoryTikTok like to see Grandma get surprisedTo learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Our special guest this week is Danielle Shroyer. She is a spiritual director, author, speaker, and former pastor. She is the author of three books, most recently Original Blessing: Putting Sin in its Rightful Place.  In addition to her spiritual direction practice, she leads groups and retreats, creates spiritual formation resources, and serves as a dream work mentor for the Haden Institute. Danielle is a graduate of Baylor University and Princeton Theological Seminary and was a founding member of the emerging church movement. A 2nd Dan Taekwondo black belt and a yoga enthusiast, she and her husband Dan have two college aged children. They live in Dallas with their rescue dog and a patio of feral cats.In our conversation with Danielle, we discuss themes from her book, "Original Blessing: Putting Sin In Its Rightful Place" which was the 2016 Illumination Award Gold Medal winner for Theology. It's a fantastic book and we know you will learn so much from this conversation about Original Sin and how that theology came to be.To connect with Danielle: https://danielleshroyer.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielle.shroyer/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danielle.g.shroyerhttps://www.beasoulninja.com/author/beasoulninja/Also, in our girlfriend chat, we introduce our friend Amie, who shares a bit about her faith journey. Amie is open, vulnerable and authentic and we appreciate her willingness to share her story. You may find some of your own in hers as well. Don't miss it!Make sure you check out our new  GAMG Podcast Instagram, Facebook and YouTube pages so you can share your thoughts along with us.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegamgpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegamgpodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thegamgpodcastTo learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Our special guest this week is Pastor Trey Ferguson. Pastor Trey is a Miami-Dade County based minister, writer, and podcaster whose passions include jokes, justice, and Jesus. He’s the creator of New Living Treyslation–a podcast that retells and relates scripture in a modern vernacular–and a co-host of Three Black Men, a podcast where he muses on theology and culture with Sam Gay, Robert Monson, and a wide array of riveting guests. The author of Theologizin’ Bigger, Trey also writes and publishes regularly in his newsletter: The Son Do Move. When he’s not creating content, he can be found annoying his wife Jessica and their three children with his childlike sense of humor.To connect with Pastor Trey: www.pastortrey05.comAlso, this week in our girlfriend chat segment,  we talk to Stacey's girlfriend, Danielle Wolbert about their women's ministry and Danielle's mission work in Haiti and Nicaragua. *If you would like to know more about Danielle's mission work or support her in her next mission trip, just go to www.thevine.co ---To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

On our Season Four Premiere, Stacey and Marcia look back on a few of their favorite moments in Season Three and look ahead to what is coming up in Season Four.---Mentioned in episode:Our brand new Instagram! Follow us for all the podcast news:@thegamgpodcast https://www.instagram.com/thegamgpodcast/https://linktr.ee/thegamgpodcastGuests from Season 3 we mentioned:Marg Mowczko-- Marg's website: https://margmowczko.com/Our interview with her: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unpacking-biblical-baggage-with-special-guest-marg/id1557667063?i=1000634590580Judy Peterson--Our interview with her: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/god-only-loves-wrong-people-w-judy-howard-peterson/id1557667063?i=1000637393155Liz Jenkins--Her website: https://lizcooledgejenkins.com/Our interview with her: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nice-churchy-patriarchy-with-special-guest-liz/id1557667063?i=1000639037862 Guests coming up in Season 4:Trey Ferguson - https://www.pastortrey05.com/Danielle Shroyer -- https://danielleshroyer.com/about/Brandi Wilson -- https://lovebrandiwilson.com/Stacey's FB Group, The Deconstruction ZoneThe Bible ProjectYouVerson Bible AppTo learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Our special guest this week is writer, preacher and former college campus minister, Liz Cooledge Jenkins. Liz is the author of Nice Churchy Patriarchy: Reclaiming Women’s Humanity from Evangelicalism. She lives in the Seattle area with her husband and their black cat Athena. Her writing can be found at Sojourners, The Christian Century, Christians for Social Action, Feminism and Religion, and Red Letter Christians, among other places; she also blogs at lizcooledgejenkins.com and Instagrams as @lizcoolj and @postevangelicalprayers.We talked with Liz about recognizing patriarchy in the church, how to confront it (or how to walk away from it), what discernment is, how women can find themselves in the stories of women in the Bible and much more. It’s an inspiring and encouraging conversation and I know you guys will love it. Be sure and pick up her book soon!To order her book: Nice Churchy Patriarchy: Reclaiming Women's Humanity from Evangelicalism. And in the girlfriend seat this week is singer/songwriter/author, Staci Frenes. Staci joins Marcia and Stacey to reflect a bit on 2023 and shares some insightful questions to ask your family and friends around the holiday table this year. Staci Frenes Christmas CD “Light of Love” - https://stacifrenes.hearnow.com/light-of-loveStaci Frenes book “Love Makes Room” - https://www.stacifrenes.com/Resources mentions in the episode:Advent devotions:Kelli Gotthardt -— Waiting and WonderScott Erikson — An Honest Advent Rev Benjamin Cremer — newsletter - https://benjamin-cremer.ck.page/profileGod And My Girlfriends MinistriesA non-profit ministry helping women flourish in their relationships with God and others.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

This week we welcome singer/songwriter, Juli Maners-Hood into the girlfriend seat for a chat about the holidays and life lessons from Dolly Parton.Our special guest is Amanda Waldron, Faith Deconstruction & Reconstruction Coach and Clinical Social Worker. Amanda talks to us about embodied faith as we experience deconstruction. She practices at the intersection of mental health, social work, and theology through coaching, consulting, and providing support to Christians and communities who are wrestling with big doubts and questions and hope to stay within the Christian faith while finding more ease and wonder in the process. Amanda is someone who encourages us to embrace questions as we travel on our spiritual journey, and to recognize that spirituality is always growing and changing. Through the changes we experience, how do we heal, and reimagine our connection with God? Tune in to hear more.Resources: Check out Amanda’s FREE January Journaling Challenge at https://www.heyamandawaldron.com/challengeWhen you opt in to her email list, you receive an 8-page workbook Make Sense of Your Faith After Deconstruction. Website: www.heyamandawaldron.com Insta:  @heyamandawaldronMentioned in this episode: Dolly Parton's AmericaRachel Held Evans book, Faith Unraveled -- aka "Evolving in Monkey Town"God And My Girlfriends MinistriesA non-profit ministry helping women flourish in their relationships with God and others.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Our guest this week is Public Pastor and Theologian, Judy Peterson. (aka “Walking Pastor”). Judy once spent a year of her life walking across the United States on a spiritual quest. She has been the pastor of two different congregations, was the Chaplain of a University, has been an international speaker and now has her own non-profit called Haecceitas, Inc. Haecceitas is a philosophy that holds that each and every living thing is a once in eternity, irreplaceable, unrepeatable act of God and the mission of Haecceitas, Inc is to walk with others in such a way that they come to believe this is not only about themselves, but also about all of the people who are placed in their path. To connect with Judy:Instagram: @walkingpastorFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/walkingpastorIn this episode:-In the girlfriend chat, Stacey and Marcia recap Thanksgiving, talk about AI/ChatGPT (it’s a hot topic so what IS it? and how can it be used?), how to re-connect with a friend you haven’t heard from in awhile, and ways to stay grounded during the craziness of the holidays.Interview with Judy Peterson:-Why Judy took a year to walk across the United States.-How to just “be” with God.-Not being afraid to expand your faith beyond the walls of churches/religion.-Can you be a Christian and not believe in hell?-Dealing with grief and loss during the holidays-The beauty of God’s feminine side-Why we need public pastors and how to support them.-We're all wrong, and it's alrightMentioned in this episode:To support Judy’s pastoral work by donating to Haecceitas, Inc.: https://account.venmo.com/u/haecceitasTo donate to the GAMG Single Moms Christmas Blessing Fund or find out how to nominate a Single Mom: https://bit.ly/47Gcx1UTo learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org

Our guest this week is writer, teacher, and spiritual director in training, Marie Griffith. Several years ago, Marie went through a season of untangling her faith from man-made traditions and came to know Jesus in a new way. She guides others in their spiritual formation, helps them know themselves and God better, and journeys with them through the stages of faith. She earned an MA in Christian Spiritual Formation and Leadership from Friends University in May and paused her work toward an MDiv at Wesley Seminary while she completes her spiritual director training.To connect with Marie: https://spiritualdirectionwithmarie.com/In this episode:2:09 Finding real friendships online6:46 Thanksgiving conversation26:00 Introducing Marie Griffith43:16 How do I find a Spiritual Director?47:02 How do I prepare to meet with a Spiritual Director?49:15 Do I pay a Spiritual Director?Resources:Grafted Life.orgLeadership Transformations.orgBooks Mentioned:When Narcissism Come to Church by Chuck DeGroatCandlelight: Illuminating the Art of Spiritual Direction by Susan PhillipsHoly Listening by Margaret Guenther God And My Girlfriends MinistriesA non-profit ministry helping women flourish in their relationships with God and others.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.To learn more about Stacey and her work: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed To learn more about Marcia Ramirez: https://linktr.ee/marciaramirez To learn more about God and My Girlfriends Ministries: www.godandmygirlfriendsministries.org