Working out the Kinks with Tash the Doula

Tashthedoula

My name is Tash and I have many roles in life. I'm a doula. An herbalist. An advocate. I'm also a wife, sister, daughter, aunt, and friend. My goal is to have some real and honest conversations I just want people to know you're not alone. Personally, I went through different situations in life, feeling like I was the only one having bad thoughts, and when I finally started opening up, I realize I was one of many. Follow me on Instagram: @tashthedoula

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Doula to Doula: Zana's Insight on Nurturing New Life and Families
Mar 18 2024
Doula to Doula: Zana's Insight on Nurturing New Life and Families
When Zana, a beacon in the realm of childbirth assistance and owner of Zion Doula Services, recounts her transformation from a medical assistant to a full-time doula, you can't help but feel the passion behind her calling. Her journey is a vivid illustration of dedication and the profound impact of following one's heart into the world of birth work. Alongside Zana, we traverse the emotional landscape of doula responsibilities, from offering unwavering support during pregnancy to fostering autonomy during childbirth, and even the importance of nourishing the body and soul after the baby arrives.Every birth story is a unique narrative, ripe with its challenges and triumphs, and this episode paints a broad stroke across the canvas of birthing experiences. We engage in conversations that demonstrate how doulas navigate intricate client relationships and the ethics of their practice, particularly the delicate matter of continuous care from prenatal to postpartum stages. Zana shares her insights into the crucial role of childbirth education, empowering expectant parents to advocate for their birthing plans and exploring the profound influence of the healthcare system on the birth process.Culminating in a discussion on the spiritual and healing practices intertwined with birth work, we examine unconventional methods like placenta encapsulation and the creation of restorative soups, underscoring the holistic approach to postpartum care. Zana's voice adds depth to our understanding of the doula's role, not just in the physical act of birthing, but in the emotional and relational shifts that accompany this transformative time. Join us as we celebrate the sacred journey of childbirth and the doulas who are committed to supporting families through every step of this natural and powerful experience.
Candid Conversations on Love, Loss, and Laughter with Anthony Hale and John
Mar 11 2024
Candid Conversations on Love, Loss, and Laughter with Anthony Hale and John
Ever found yourself in the middle of a laugh riot with friends, where the topics flip from hilarious to heartfelt quicker than a pancake on a Sunday morning? That's exactly the vibe Anthony Hale, my husband John, and I,  are serving up in our latest heart-to-heart podcast episode. We're talking credit scores, music video dreams, and the kind of unscripted banter that leaves your sides aching. It's an open door to our friendship, loaded with the candor and belly laughs you'd expect from a night in with your besties.Strap in and join us as we navigate the rollercoaster of life's ups and downs. We reflect on weighty matters like the struggles of teenage romance and the path to forgiveness following tragic events. Anthony gets real about his growth as a gay black man making waves in the music industry, while we all weigh in on race and the strength found in solid support networks. Then, we lighten the mood, meandering through the joys of mundane life, from the artistry of burlesque to the hilarity of misunderstood romantic cues. Our genuine experiences and reflections are sure to resonate, whether you're dealing with the complexities of relationships or just in need of some good, old-fashioned storytelling.As we wind down, the conversation shifts gears to a more casual tone, teasing details of Anthony's upcoming album 'Mind Games' and sharing our latest music go-tos. Grab your favorite snack, and settle in for a chat that's like an evening spent unwinding with your closest pals. It's an episode packed with laughter, insights, and the kind of friendship that makes you feel right at home. So, if you're ready for a break from the ordinary and a deep dive into the extraordinary, this is one session you won't want to miss.
Standing Together: The Impact of Unionization on Workers and Democracy
Feb 26 2024
Standing Together: The Impact of Unionization on Workers and Democracy
Ever wondered how a single voice can stand up against corporate giants like Starbucks and Amazon? Our latest episode takes you through the heart of organized labor, where collective voices echo louder than ever. We share a narrative that's not just about unions, but about the irreplaceable shield they offer to workers' rights and job security, all while exploring how our united front as voters can influence the political landscape and protect our interests.This conversation isn't just another discussion; it's a journey through personal triumphs and societal challenges. With guests who've been on the frontlines, we celebrate the first unionized Amazon warehouse in Staten Island and draw strength from their stories. These insights help us understand the crucial role unions play, from preventing unfair dismissals to providing life-changing educational resources. The episode underscores the power of unionization in fostering employee empowerment and the far-reaching benefits for community welfare.Closing with an intimate reflection on the bond between labor rights and civil movements, we're moved by tales of generational activism. These stories of relentless pursuit for betterment remind us that the quest for equality and justice is perpetual. Join us as we honor the legacies that shape our nation and challenge each other to stay alert and engaged, ensuring that the values we hold dear are never left unguarded.
The Path to Lactation Advocacy with Paige Johnson
Feb 19 2024
The Path to Lactation Advocacy with Paige Johnson
Embark with us on a touching exploration of motherhood as Paige Johnson, a devoted infant teacher with a heartfelt mission, graces our podcast with her tale of breastfeeding triumphs and the nurturing path towards becoming a lactation consultant. Paige's candid sharing of the magical moments and health wonders she witnessed in her child will stir not only the minds of aspiring consultants but also the hearts of those who've experienced the tender journey of nursing a child. Her ambition to extend this support to new mothers reflects the profound impact that personal experience can have on professional aspirations.This episode isn't just Paige's story; it's a beacon for anyone considering the multifaceted career of lactation consulting. We sift through the layers of education, certification, and the potential to craft a unique professional journey—whether that's within the walls of a hospital, a cozy WIC office, or the entrepreneurial realm of private practice. Paige's passion illuminates the intricate tapestry of knowledge—from mastering the preparation of a baby's bottle to understanding the nutritional needs of nursing mothers—showcasing the diverse skill set required in this nurturing field.Community is the heart of breastfeeding support, and as we navigate the landscape of local programs, Facebook groups, and the sometimes unconventional world of lactation cookies, you'll uncover a treasure trove of resources. These touchpoints not only offer scholarship information and study group camaraderie but also provide a network of encouragement and education for those on their breastfeeding journey. By sharing these stories and resources, we celebrate the courage of all mothers making informed choices for their children and themselves, and we eagerly anticipate Paige’s future role in guiding them along the way.
The Crossroads of Spirituality and Trauma in Religious Practice
Feb 12 2024
The Crossroads of Spirituality and Trauma in Religious Practice
Have you ever felt ensnared by the thorny questions surrounding spirituality and organized religion? Together with my insightful guest Iya Ola, we venture into these sensitive zones, stripping away the confusion and confronting the pain of religious trauma. Our candid dialogue traverses personal narratives of struggle against restrictive church doctrines and journeys us toward a more expansive understanding of spirituality. We dissect the ancestral echoes in our dreams and the subtle distinctions between hoodoo and voodoo, challenging the stereotypes and guiding listeners to their awakening.Spirituality is no mere trend; it's a disciplined path that demands reverence and education. In our conversation, we address the recent upswing in spiritual practices and how they can be misused without proper understanding. From the potent energy of Moldavite crystals to the complex terrain of Voodoo and Hoodoo, Iya Ola and I traverse the importance of finding a trustworthy mentor and safeguarding your spiritual integrity. We share our transformative experiences and emphasize the need to approach these practices with the seriousness they deserve, protecting our spiritual well-being as fiercely as our physical safety.Closing our soul-stirring session, we touch upon the controversy and openness needed to explore spirituality. As we celebrate Hulu Heritage Month and hint at future discussions on revolutions and resistance, I encourage you to follow those who continue to enlighten my spiritual journey. This exchange is more than just talk; it's an invitation to embrace growth, authenticity, and the disciplined pursuit of enlightenment. Join us on this profound exploration of belief, practice, and what it means to connect with the essence of who we truly are.
Embracing the Role Reversal: Caring for Aging Parents with Shanda Domango Brown
Feb 5 2024
Embracing the Role Reversal: Caring for Aging Parents with Shanda Domango Brown
As we find ourselves navigating the convoluted path of becoming caretakers for our aging parents, Shanda Domango Brown joins me to share the poignant realities of this life stage. Through her heartfelt stories, we explore the emotional labyrinth of role reversals, the resilience needed in the wake of health crises, and the cultural shifts that shape our experiences. Our discussion isn't just about the weight of these changes; it's an intimate look at the delicate balance between caring for those who once cared for us and the necessity of self-care as we undertake this journey.The intricacies of memory loss in parents carve out a particularly tender space in our conversation. It's a candid admission of the sorrow that accompanies the fading recollections, juxtaposed with moments of clarity that can pierce through the fog of confusion. The stories we share reveal not only the grief felt in watching a parent decline but also the unexpected growth that can emerge from these challenges. It's a candid reflection on the uncharted waters of love, loss, and the enduring human spirit.As our dialogue reaches its conclusion, we grapple with the duality of loss—how it can sow seeds of both regret and gratitude. The anecdotes we exchange are an invitation to listeners wrestling with similar emotions, emphasizing the importance of traversing the tumultuous waves of grief toward a shore of acceptance and appreciation. To anyone out there on a similar path, my heart goes out to you, and I extend an open invitation to connect and find solace in our shared stories.