Episode #896 Remember the last time we talked about imposter syndrome? Let’s dive back in for a deeper look. In this revisited episode, we reconnect on the powerful topic of imposter syndrome, sharing new insights, stories, and tools to help you tackle self-doubt and start living as your true self. Even the most accomplished men deal with feeling “not good enough,” but these feelings don’t have to keep you from reaching your full potential. We’ll discuss why imposter syndrome often returns at each new level of success and how having a community of supportive, like-minded men can make all the difference. In this episode, we cover: Real ways imposter syndrome impacts success, family, and fulfillmentSimple tools to track your “wins” and reclaim self-confidenceWhy a strong support network of men helps you stay groundedActionable steps to quiet self-doubt and focus on progress __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #895 Ever felt like arguments at home spiral out of control, leaving you and your wife feeling more like disconnected roommates? You're not alone—and it's time to revisit a powerful approach to break the cycle. In this throwback episode, we’ll dive into how you can turn heated disagreements into opportunities to strengthen your relationship. I'll walk you through practical strategies to lead through conflict, so your wife feels truly heard, respected, and safe. You’ll discover how to transform tension into intimacy and reignite the passion you both want. If you missed it the first time, now's the perfect chance to learn how to go from conflict to connection—and build a stronger, more intimate bond. Tune in! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #894 Have you ever been publicly embarrassed by your wife and felt powerless to stop it? It's not uncommon, but it's something you can change. This episode dives back into one of our most popular topics: how to handle public put-downs and turn those moments into opportunities for growth. We’ll revisit why these situations happen and, more importantly, what you can do about it. You'll get refreshed on how to set boundaries effectively, address hurtful comments with confidence, and stop resentment from building in your marriage. In this episode, you'll rediscover: Why public put-downs are more common than you thinkProven strategies for calmly pulling your wife aside and setting clear boundariesHow to distinguish between harmless jokes and damaging disrespectTips for creating a more respectful and supportive marriage dynamic It’s time to reclaim your voice and strengthen your marriage by setting the standard for how you deserve to be treated. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #893 Have you ever wondered if trust can truly be restored after infidelity? Whether it's an emotional or physical affair, the question of rebuilding trust is tough. Can a person who cheats ever change, or is the relationship doomed to repeat past mistakes? In this episode, we revisit one of the most pressing topics—how to deal with difficult conversations, especially after infidelity. We discuss setting firm boundaries, recognizing when they’re crossed, and understanding the work both partners need to do to move forward. From owning your role in the relationship to ensuring your spouse takes responsibility, we get straight to the heart of the issue. If you're in the trenches of doubt and pain, listen in for actionable advice to help you make the right moves for yourself and your marriage. Tune in to hear how to take massive action and turn this situation around. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #892 Have you ever thought, Why doesn’t my wife see how much I’ve changed? Even when you’ve done the work and made big improvements, it can feel like your efforts go unnoticed. That disconnect can leave you frustrated, questioning your progress, and unsure what to do next. In this revisit episode, we dive back into the story of a successful businessman who seemingly has it all, yet feels completely unfulfilled. We revisit the powerful concept of shifting from being "pushed by pain" to "pulled by pleasure" and how it can transform your marriage and life. In this episode, you’ll be reminded of: Why your external success may not reflect inner fulfillmentHow the "not enough" mindset keeps you stuck in your marriageThe steps you can take to stop forcing change and start embracing it with easeThe difference between living a life of force and one of powerJournaling exercises to help reset your internal narrative If you’ve been feeling like your efforts to improve your relationship aren’t being recognized, this episode will help you reframe your approach and take action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #891 Ready for a refresher on one of the most important keys to masculine growth? We're revisiting the power of solitude. If you missed this the first time or need a reminder, this episode dives deep into why alone time is essential for men looking to stay grounded and strengthen their relationships. In this revisit, we break down how embracing solitude builds confidence, helps you connect with yourself, and ultimately fuels the masculine energy your wife craves. Whether you’re feeling lost, disconnected, or just looking for a way to become more present in your marriage, this episode covers practical steps to reclaim your personal space and power. Join us as we revisit this vital practice and rediscover how spending time alone can transform both your inner world and your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #890 Ever find yourself asking, "Did I marry the wrong woman?" You're not alone. But is it really her, or are you just not showing up as the man you need to be? In this episode, we're revisiting one of the most popular topics: when men question their choice of partner. Tim and I dig deep into how many guys get stuck blaming their wives without realizing the real issue might be with them. We’ll share personal stories, explore excuses like "she’s just not sexual," and offer straight-shooting advice on how to step up and reignite the spark in your marriage. If you’re ready to take responsibility and transform your relationship, this one’s for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #889 Are you struggling to find the perfect balance between work and family life? Many married businessmen face the same challenge. But what if the idea of equal balance is actually a myth? In this episode, Doug and Tim dive into the reality of work-life balance and why striving for equal time between work and home might be leading you down the wrong path. Instead, they explore the concept of creating rhythms and seasons that shift based on your personal and professional needs. You’ll hear personal stories and learn how to set clear expectations with your wife, communicate effectively, and establish non-negotiable habits that support both your career ambitions and your relationship. Doug and Tim also share insights on managing your time, prioritizing health, and avoiding burnout during those busy seasons. They offer practical tips for incorporating flexibility into your routines, so you can maintain a sense of balance that actually works. If you’re looking for realistic strategies to align your work and home life, this episode is for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #888 Is your marriage starting to feel like a routine? Do you and your wife feel miles apart, even while lying next to each other in bed? In this episode, we dive into the common issue many men face: losing passion and connection in their marriage. You'll hear why predictability kills desire, and how a lack of personal fulfillment might be affecting your relationship. Learn why reigniting your own passions and hobbies can be the key to reconnecting with your wife and bringing back that spark. In this episode, we break down practical steps for reigniting passion, including how to bring mystery back into your relationship, communicate more effectively, and why seeing your wife through the lens of a lover—not just a partner—can make all the difference. Listen in to learn how to move from a passionless marriage to one that’s full of desire, connection, and excitement! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #887 Are you keeping money secrets from your wife? In this episode, we get real about how financial transparency can make or break your marriage. Too many guys hide their finances, thinking it’s a way to protect themselves—but it’s only adding stress and distance in the relationship. We share stories of men who felt trapped by their own money fears and the toll it took on their marriages and mental health. You'll learn how to start the tough conversations, set clear financial goals together, and why opening up about money leads to more trust, connection, and even better intimacy. If you're ready to stop hiding and start leading in your relationship, this one's for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #886 Is your lack of trust pushing your wife away? Ever feel like the more you try to keep your relationship in check, the more distant things get? In this episode, we dive into how unresolved trust issues can lead to the very problems you fear most in your marriage. Doug Holt and guest, Christopher, unpack real-life scenarios where men unintentionally drive their partners away by letting fear and mistrust take over. They explore the ripple effects that mistrust has in other areas of life—business, friendships, and self-growth. In this episode, you'll learn why trust issues are often a reflection of deeper insecurities, how skepticism can show up in multiple aspects of your life, and how to take massive action toward creating a healthier marriage. Stay tuned for practical steps you can start applying today to break this damaging cycle and rebuild connection. Take control before it's too late! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #885 Struggling to lead in your marriage? Feel like no matter what you do, your wife’s still unhappy or overspending? You’re not alone. It’s time to rethink your approach. In this episode, Doug Holt and Christopher dive into masculine leadership in relationships. Learn why setting boundaries and taking ownership is key to reigniting intimacy, restoring balance, and building a healthier, more passionate marriage. Your wife’s waiting for you to step up—here’s how you can lead with confidence and provide the emotional safety she’s craving. We cover: What’s really behind your wife’s overspending.How boundaries can strengthen your marriage.Why emotional safety beats physical security.Practical tools to start leading today. Don’t let the problems pile up. Time to lead your marriage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #884 Holding back your emotions, thinking it's making you a stronger man in your marriage? What if the opposite is true? Vulnerability could be the key to the connection you're missing with your wife. In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt break down why vulnerability matters in a relationship and how it can flip the script in your marriage. They’ll give you actionable tips on how to open up without losing your strength and explain why your wife needs both your masculine energy and your emotional depth. Learn how leading with self-awareness can rebuild trust, spark passion, and reignite the connection you've been craving. In this episode, you’ll discover: How vulnerability actually strengthens your marriageWhy emotional connection is what your wife is really afterThe difference between leading with strength and just ventingEasy steps to rebuild trust, even if you’ve messed up before Take charge of your emotions and see how it can create a deeper, more fulfilling relationship for you and your family. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #883 Do you know how your wife’s or daughter’s cycle really impacts your relationship? In this episode, Doug sits down with his wife, Erin Holt, to tackle a subject every man should understand—women’s cycles. Erin breaks it down in a straightforward, easy-to-grasp way, explaining how hormonal shifts affect women week by week. Together, they discuss how men can step up and better support the women in their lives—whether it’s their wives, daughters, or even coworkers. By understanding these cycles, men can improve communication, anticipate needs, and enhance intimacy. In this episode, listeners will learn: How hormonal changes affect a woman’s energy, emotions, and focus throughout the month.Why syncing up date nights, important conversations, and vacations with her cycle can improve the relationship.How this knowledge can make a man a hero in her eyes. This episode is about practical, actionable advice for men who want to step up and be better partners and fathers. It will change how they approach their relationships, helping them show up in ways that matter most. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #882 Ever feel like every disagreement with your wife spirals out of control? It doesn't have to be that way. In this episode, we’ll break down engaged indifference—a game-changing mindset that keeps you from getting sucked into unnecessary conflict. You’ll learn how to avoid falling into "DEER mode" (defend, excuse, explain, react) and stay calm, even when your wife’s in a mood. Plus, I’ll teach you how to help her shift from masculine energy into a more peaceful, feminine space, which is key for better communication. These small adjustments can make a huge difference. Tune in and find out how to build a more connected, peaceful relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #881 Ever feel like you're lying next to a stranger, even though you're just inches apart? It’s common for couples, especially as they become empty nesters. But what if you could avoid that growing emotional gap before it’s too late? In this episode, I answer a listener’s question about navigating marriage as an empty nester. I’ll break down why couples tend to drift and share practical steps to rekindle that spark and intimacy. You’ll get tools to figure out where your marriage stands, avoid the mistakes most guys make when their wives pull away, and how to get back to dating your wife again. Whether you’re heading into the empty nest phase or just want a stronger connection, this is for you. Tune in for insights on: - Why emotional distance creeps into long-term marriages - The common traps men fall into when their wives start drifting - How to bring back intimacy, even when it feels like the fire’s gone Don’t miss this chance to strengthen your marriage. Listen now!  __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #880 Ever catch yourself wondering when it’s the right time to start dating your wife again after a separation or divorce? It’s tough, especially when you’re trying to prove you’ve changed without seeming needy or desperate. In this episode, we tackle a question from a listener about navigating the waters of dating your wife post-separation. We’ll dive into how to ditch “deer mode” (where you’re defending, excusing, explaining, and reacting) and instead step into “wolf mode”—wise, open, loving, and fierce. Plus, we’ll dig into why it’s crucial to address the real issues in your relationship and make sure your own cup is full before you attempt to rekindle the flame. If you’re separated or newly divorced but still see a shot at reconciliation, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you make moves and rebuild from a place of confidence. Tune in to learn how to reconnect with your wife the right way, and why filling your own cup first is the key to becoming the man she truly desires. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #879 Ever catch yourself thinking your wife’s the one who needs to change to fix your marriage? What if the real answer is in becoming the man you’re capable of being instead? In this episode, we dive into self-improvement as the key to turning your marriage around and becoming the husband your wife can’t help but respect. You’ll discover how taking action to become your best self is the real catalyst for change in your relationship. We’ll cover the gap between who you are now and the man you want to be, why the journey is everything, and how even the smallest habits can inspire your wife to grow with you. If you’re ready to stop blaming and start leading by example, this one’s for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #878 Are you feeling like you're losing respect at home—from your wife, your kids, or maybe even from yourself? You spend hours dialing in your financial game, but are you neglecting the relationships that matter most? In this episode, I’m diving into a tough question a lot of men face: where did the respect go, and how are you going to get it back? I’m sharing why it’s just as important to invest in your marriage and relationships as it is to invest in your finances. You’ll hear the story of a guy who spent six months learning to day trade, yet rated his marriage a 6 out of 10. What does that tell us about priorities? Here’s what you’ll learn: Why respect erodes when you avoid action in the key areas of life.The excuses men make when they dodge relationship work.Actionable steps to regain respect in your marriage, family, and life.How investing in relationships can bring more rewards than any financial gain. It’s time to stop talking and start doing—because respect starts with you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #877 Are you constantly seeking your wife’s approval, only to feel her slipping further away? Ever wonder why your best intentions seem to push her even more? In this episode, we're breaking down the common trap men fall into: neediness. That anxious energy repels her, even when you're trying your hardest. We’ll talk about how to stop chasing and start leading as the grounded man she’s naturally drawn to. We’ll dive into the key concept of polarity in relationships and how flipping your approach can reignite the spark between you. Plus, you’ll get clear steps to lead your marriage without having to chase or fix everything. Here's what you’ll discover: Why chasing her isn’t working—and how it’s actually driving her away.The power of polarity and how to restore balance in your relationship.How to stop relying on her for validation and step into your own power.A simple, proven method to turn things around—no endless talks required. It’s time to stop chasing and start leading. Tune in and learn how to transform your marriage from the inside out. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.