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Tsholofelo Makau

This podcast is about Me living in a world full of everything... Literally everything be it love, hate, jealousy, abuse, negativity, positivity, life...ect. Maybe I was destined to forever fall for people I couldn't have. Maybe there's a whole assortment of impossible people waiting for me to find them. Waiting to make me feel the same impossibility over and over again. All I want is to stop having to keep this a secret. I want to be able to hold your hands and tell our friends about the date we went on last night. I want to stop hiding, stop worrying what will happen if someone finds out. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsholofelo-makau/support read less
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Feedback on what is love and when do you realize you're in love?
May 18 2020
Feedback on what is love and when do you realize you're in love?
WHAT IS LOVE? Love has been a favored topic of philosophers, poets, writers, and scientists for generations, and different people and groups have often fought about its definition. While most people agree that love implies strong feelings of affection, there are many disagreements about its precise meaning, and one person’s “I love you” might mean something quite different than another’s. Some possible definitions of love include: A willingness to prioritize another’s well-being or happiness above your own. Extreme feelings of attachment, affection, and need. Dramatic, sudden feelings of attraction and respect. A fleeting emotion of care, affection, and like. A choice to commit to helping, respecting, and caring for another, such as in marriage  or when having a child. Some combination of the above emotions. There has been much debate about whether love is a choice, is something that is permanent or fleeting, and whether the love between family members and spouses is biologically programmed or culturally indoctrinated. Love may vary from person to person and culture to culture. Each of the debates about love may be accurate in some time and some place. For example, in some instances, love may be a choice while in others it may feel uncontrollable. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsholofelo-makau/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsholofelo-makau/support
Love and other strange conditions
Apr 30 2020
Love and other strange conditions
Love, well love is technically just a chemical or string of chemicals but I can’t remember which, but I can tell you that chemical is the single most important thing inside your brain. Love means companionship, love is what makes you decide who you want to be around, love will show you pain, pleasure, regret, hope, and everything in between… Love will make you cry, or it can make you laugh. Life is meaningless without it, dull and grey, and when you find it everything fills with vivid color! Love is what everyone searches for in one way or another, isn’t it? People love money, sports, cars, make up, books, their career, their kids, their mother and father… now, when I hear “love” I think of a girl, not any specific girl anymore, but I think female. Not everyone searches for love in the form of another human being, and I don’t either. I THINK female but what love really is, love is the bond, the connection between two people. Physically, mentally, and emotionally. Love is the spark, the fire, the passion in a relationship that makes it work. Love is understanding, communicating, and trusting the other in a relationship. I really do miss the warm & fuzzy feeling of love. It sounds strange but love is what drives me forward these days… “Maybe tomorrow, maybe tomorrow” is what love means to me. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsholofelo-makau/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tsholofelo-makau/support