Shadow Corner

Sayen Gates

This is a podcast for anyone embarking on their spiritual journey, whether you aspire to be a healer/lightworker or maybe you need help in your shadow work to become your best self for this life; I'm here to give you tips through my journey and experiences from walking this life. Along the way, you will also learn about holistic herbs, foods and tips to getting the best out of this journey as well as people in history that practiced these concepts. Lets Dive Deep and Have Fun

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Legacy Of Pain Part II: Trust, Honesty, & Safe Space
Mar 15 2023
Legacy Of Pain Part II: Trust, Honesty, & Safe Space
Affirmation: "I focus on what I can do, not what I can't"Breathe Work Technique: Breath-In ->  Honesty & Understanding Breath-out: I Release Worry & Distrust for my Highest GoodIn this episode of our series Legacy of Pain, we dive deep into the word Trust and how it affects the relationships that you have with those around you; we'll also be looking at Honesty and How to create a safe space within your relationships. If you're ready let's get into it!Journal Questions, Prompts, and Exercise Assignment: 1.) Write a letter to the 5 people that have ever broken your trust, were dishonest or didn't hold a safe space for you. (You don't have to write their names if you're not comfortable) Once done you're going to fold it 3 times and hold it with both hands and say "I release you, the memory, the emotions, the situation and I wish you well" rip it up and release it to the wind!  This sends a message to spirit saying I've given it up to you now I'm ready for better. (!!!!If you like to release by burning the paper in a fire-safe bowl or pot that's fine just do it responsibly!!!)2.) What lesson did you learn from that situation? (About yourself and Others)3.) What boundaries are you going enforce for yourself and others as of today? (Make sure to not put yourself in a straightjacket with your own boundaries, give yourself grace and wiggle room)4.) Will you drop this baggage today or carry it with you to the next relationship?5.) Overall what have you learned about yourself here? Book RecommendationsHow To Breath by Ashley NeeseStraight Up by Trent SheltonUnlearn By Humble the PoetLinks:3 Proven Strategies for Trusting The Process in Your LifeHow To build trust in the workplace: 10 Effective SolutionsHow To Be a Safe space for someoneSee you in 2 Weeks!Support the showThank you for Listening! Follow me on All Social Media Platforms to get updates and other helping advice throughout the week.
Lets Play a Game
Sep 6 2022
Lets Play a Game
Affirmation: I Am grateful for all the Good Things I have in my life.Mindfulness Tip: Breathing Technique: Breath-In ->My positive intent for this day                                                                                        Breath-out: Negative thoughts that tell me I can't Have you ever analyzed your life as a game? Has there been a time when no matter what you did it felt like you weren't in control of the situation but you knew the next move on another player's agenda? Let's Take a look at how others look at the world and How that affects them either from communication in relationships to how they deal with tough times at work...Do you have the courage to dive deep?Journal moment and Assignment: Look through the relationships you keep and ask yourself are they adding or taking away from your life?Do you consider them a safe space or a toxic reminder?How are you nourishing yourself and your social contracts with others?Book Recommendations: Boundaries, Updated and Expanded Edition by John Townsend, Henry Cloud The Moutain Is You by Brianna WiestLinks:5 Communication Killers and How to Avoid ThemLaura Jane Adams - Noble Piece Prize 1931Laura Jane Adams additional infoThe Art of Chess by Hugh PattersonJohn Von Newman and Oskar MorstrenWhat Chess Pieces Represent?See You on the 19th of September! Be Great!Support the showThank you for Listening! Follow me on All Social Media Platforms to get updates and other helping advice throughout the week.