Behind the Dreamers

Jennifer Loehding

We are talking to the achievers, the creators, the magic makers, and the dreamers. These are our friends. These are your friends. And they are living the extraordinary.

read less
Society & CultureSociety & Culture

Episodes

Navigating College Athletics and Recruitment: Insights from Jared Zeidman
Jun 2 2024
Navigating College Athletics and Recruitment: Insights from Jared Zeidman
Send us a Text Message.In this episode, host Jennifer Loehding interviews Jared Zeidman, a former college athletic coach and author of "Nail the Recruiting Process." They discuss Jared's journey in college athletics and his transition to coaching and recruitment. Jared emphasizes the importance of relationships and shares his experiences with health challenges, highlighting the resilience he developed. He introduces his recruitment methodology, which offers valuable insights for high school athletes and college coaches. Topics include personal development, validation, communication, intention vs. impact, learning through adversity, mindset, purpose and fulfillment, seeking the positive, accepting the new normal, the value of human connection, soft skills, and taking ownership in college recruiting.TakeawaysBuilding strong relationships is crucial in the world of college athletics.Resilience and the ability to adapt to setbacks are essential qualities for success.The recruitment process can be improved by focusing on the right fit for athletes and coaches.Research and data-driven approaches can provide valuable insights into the recruitment process. Personal development is supported by scientific evidence and can provide a foundation for making positive changes in life.Validation and ownership of one's actions and decisions are important for personal growth and self-confidence.Effective communication involves considering the impact of one's words on others and being mindful of how one behaves in interactions.Understanding the difference between intent and impact is crucial for building strong relationships and making positive contributions.Adversity can lead to personal growth and the development of valuable skills such as empathy and compassion.Having a positive mindset and seeking out the positive aspects of life can lead to greater fulfillment and resilience.Accepting and adapting to a new normal can bring a sense of freedom and open up new opportunities.Human connection and empathy are powerful tools for understanding and supporting others.Soft skills, such as resilience and self-awareness, are highly valued in various aspects of life and can be developed through experiential learning.Taking ownership and being proactive in the college recruiting process can lead to greater success and resilience in facing challenges.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
Pedaling Hope: Tracy Herbert's Cross-Country Ride and Triumph Over Diabetes
May 26 2024
Pedaling Hope: Tracy Herbert's Cross-Country Ride and Triumph Over Diabetes
Send us a Text Message.Tracy Herbert's story is one of resilience, determination, and hope. Diagnosed with juvenile diabetes at 17, she faced a bleak prognosis from her doctor. However, instead of giving up, Tracy embarked on a lifelong journey of discovery and self-improvement. Through her research and personal experiences, she has developed strategies for living a healthier and happier life. Tracy's mission is to empower others to make positive changes and find hope in the face of adversity. She has also undertaken monumental challenges, such as a solo bicycle ride across the United States, to inspire and motivate others. Tracy's story is a testament to the power of mindset, small steps, and the importance of making informed decisions for long-term health and well-being.TakeawaysChoose to be better, not bitter, in the face of adversity.Small steps and incremental progress can lead to significant changes.Mindset and positive words have a profound impact on health and well-being.Making informed decisions and researching reliable information is crucial for long-term health.Support from loved ones and a strong support system can make a significant difference in overcoming challenges.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
From Track to Entrepreneurship: Taylor Ros on Cultivating Resilience and Community
Apr 7 2024
From Track to Entrepreneurship: Taylor Ros on Cultivating Resilience and Community
Send us a Text Message.Unlock the secrets of peak performance with Taylor Ros as our guide, a former pro track athlete whose journey has led him to the realms of gym ownership and online coaching. In a world where mental fortitude is as pivotal as physical strength, Taylor brings to light the transformative power of athletic discipline across all aspects of life. His philosophy at Crown Athletics isn't confined to the gym; it's a comprehensive approach intertwining fitness, nutrition, and mindset, equipping you with the tools to thrive in both personal and professional spheres.TakeawaysCoaching should go beyond surface-level instruction and focus on the individual's big picture of life.Building relationships and creating a supportive community are essential in coaching and entrepreneurship.Entrepreneurship is not for the faint of heart and requires persistence, tenacity, and a willingness to learn.Fulfillment comes from serving others and making a positive impact in their lives.Culture and customer service are crucial in creating a successful business. Developing culture in a remote work environment requires open communication and support from the community.Placing people in the right positions within a company is crucial for growth and success.Effective communication is key to building a strong team and maintaining a positive culture.Starting the fitness journey requires taking action and setting realistic goals.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND They are living the extraordinary. For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
The Art of Sticky Branding: James Bond on Emotional Selling and Memorable Messaging
Mar 31 2024
The Art of Sticky Branding: James Bond on Emotional Selling and Memorable Messaging
Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered how a name could shape a destiny? Behavioral management specialist and author James Bond joins us to share how his moniker opened doors to whimsical encounters and lent a unique perspective to his work in advertising. His humorous tales pave the way to a deeper understanding of the 'brain glue' concept – the art of creating messages so sticky they're impossible to ignore. James's expertise in emotional selling takes center stage, unraveling why our hearts often lead our decisions, whether crafting anti-drug campaigns or concocting the next big branding success story.Prepare to be tickled by the clever antics of branding giants as we dissect the genius behind the playful product names that have become household favorites. From the unforgettable 'Squatty Potty' to 'The Lawnmower' from Manscaped, we reveal the strategic wordplay that cements a brand into consumers' minds. The chapter on Richard Branson's branding odyssey further lifts the veil on the creativity that can transform an entrepreneur's vision into an empire, proving that a catchy slogan can sometimes be worth more than a multimillion-dollar ad campaign.As we wrap up this riveting session with James Bond, we offer anecdotes and insights on the tools and techniques that lead to success in the cutthroat world of entrepreneurship and beyond. You'll hear personal stories that attest to the power of differentiation and the importance of establishing a unique identity in a sea of competitors. Whether you're a seasoned business owner or an aspiring mogul, this episode is packed with laughs, lessons, and strategies to ensure your message not only lands but sticks like glue.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
Crafting a Fulfilling Portfolio Career with Founder of Two Rivers Partners Barbara Spitzer
Mar 17 2024
Crafting a Fulfilling Portfolio Career with Founder of Two Rivers Partners Barbara Spitzer
Send us a Text Message.Embarking on a career that spans continents and sectors, Barbara Spitzer, founder of Two Rivers Partners, has lived the kind of life that novels are based on. She joins me to share her intriguing story, from consulting for global organizations to tackling youth leadership and food insecurity. Her 35-year journey is packed with insights for anyone looking to weave their professional pursuits with their passions, and she offers an honest look at the realities of transitioning to a portfolio career. Her narrative is a vibrant tapestry of experiences, demonstrating how embracing a variety of interests can lead to an enriched life and even redefine success.TakeawaysTransitioning into a portfolio career allows for greater flexibility and the opportunity to pursue multiple passions.Time management is crucial when juggling various roles and responsibilities.Embracing change and writing your own story can lead to personal growth and fulfillment.Prioritizing what matters most, such as family, friends, and personal well-being, is essential for a balanced and fulfilling life.Planning for the future, both financially and in terms of personal goals, is important for long-term happiness and success.Continued learning and the application of psychology can enhance personal and professional relationships.Navigating complexity and embracing one's unique qualities can lead to personal and professional success. Self-awareness and introspection are important for personal growth.Being intense and focused does not necessarily mean being aggressive or insensitive.Embracing individuality and being true to oneself is essential.Connecting with others and building relationships is valuable for personal and professional growth.Living an extraordinary life involves making decisions that align with one's values and desires.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
Journey Through Automation, Delegation, and Authentic Connections
Mar 10 2024
Journey Through Automation, Delegation, and Authentic Connections
Send us a Text Message.Are you curious about conquering the chaos of entrepreneurship? Let Ely Delaney, an expert in automated systems strategy and best-selling author, be your guide. As we sit down together, Ely reveals the transformative Entrepreneur ADD principle—Automate, Delegate, Delete—that's redefining how business owners can leverage technology to carve out more time for authentic connections. His perspective is an enlightening blend of tech-savvy efficiency and the irreplaceable human element in professional relationships. Ely's entrepreneurial path has been anything but straightforward, and in sharing it, you'll see the importance of focusing on what you do best. Reflecting on his shift from running a bustling web and graphic design agency to a more concentrated and profitable venture, he unveils the hard-learned distinction between mere revenue and actual profit. By documenting what lights us up (and what doesn't), we can strategically channel our business efforts toward growth that doesn't just look good on paper but feels rewarding. This episode is also a heartfelt reminder that despite our digital capabilities, the core of business growth is rooted in genuine human relationships that no algorithm can replicate.As we wrap up, embrace the notion that the quirks of our personality can become our greatest assets in business. We explore the dynamics of adaptability, complex thinking, and the joy of embracing change, even when it feels daunting. Listen to how these elements weave together the entrepreneurial spirit with the strength of interpersonal bonds. By the episode's end, we'll leave you inspired to take that bold first step towards the extraordinary. Join us, and remember, it's not just about doing business—it's about doing it with heart and intellect. Don't miss out on this exploration of entrepreneurship, where passion meets practicality, and making connections is just as important as making the sale.TakeawaysBuilding relationships is crucial for business success.Automate, delegate, and delete tasks to focus on income-producing activities and real conversations.Embrace contradictions and complexity as an entrepreneur.Find alignment with your core values to thrive in business and life.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
Reinventing Midlife Through Bodybuilding and Beyond
Mar 3 2024
Reinventing Midlife Through Bodybuilding and Beyond
Send us a Text Message.Have you ever packed up your life into two suitcases on a whim, seeking clarity and transformation? Sabine Schoepke did just that, moving to the German Alps from Los Angeles, demonstrating that it's never too late to reinvent yourself. This episode peels back the curtain on her riveting story of overcoming personal struggles to emerge as a triumphant entrepreneur. Her journey is a living testament to the belief that growth occurs in the face of adversity and that every challenge is an opportunity to build resilience and foster personal development.Sabine exemplifies this through her midlife fitness revolution, that our golden years can indeed be just that: golden. We discuss her transformation, not just of muscle and sinew, but of heart and soul, as she shares how bodybuilding helped her overcome trauma and find a supportive community. Her narrative is a bold reminder of the intrinsic link between physical vitality and emotional well-being, igniting a conversation on the redemptive power of health and fitness.Travel with us as we explore the rich tapestry of life through the lens of Sabine's experiences. These stories go beyond mere travelogues; they're a celebration of life lessons and the refusal to label any experience as a failure. Your journey towards an extraordinary life might just begin with this very episode.TakeawaysEmbrace change and be open to new experiencesTake ownership of your choices and learn from themOvercome fear by choosing love and living authenticallyFind clarity in what you truly desire and pursue itThese are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
The Synergy of Sports and Leadership with the CEO of LearnIt
Feb 25 2024
The Synergy of Sports and Leadership with the CEO of LearnIt
Send us a Text Message.When the crack of the bat signals more than just a home run, it's a lesson in leadership. That's the story Damon Lembi, CEO of Learnit, shares with us as he traces his trajectory from athlete to executive mentor. Our conversation uncovers how the principles of sportsmanship translate into crafting dynamic leadership training programs and fostering a culture of continuous learning within organizations. We also dissect the interplay between individual ambitions and leadership roles, revealing that the prowess needed on the baseball diamond isn't so different from the boardroom.Damon shares slices of his journey up the corporate ladder, reflecting on the hurdles and triumphs that have shaped his views on leadership. We talk about the importance of understanding every role in a company and celebrating the underdogs whose potential blooms under the right mentorship. We wrap things up with a lighter but no less meaningful banter that tugs at the heartstrings of nostalgia and shared experiences. We chat about our favorite sports moments, the cultural phenomenon of Pop-Tarts, and the unique threads that connect us all—be they in love with a team or the simple pleasures of breakfast pastries. This episode is a reminder that the journey to success is as much about the people and passions we encounter along the way as it is about the milestones we achieve. So, whether you're a die-hard sports fan or just looking for some leadership insights with a side of sweet reminiscence, this episode's got something for you.TakeawaysCore values are crucial for effective leadership and should be the cornerstone of a successful leader's framework.Transitioning into a leadership role requires developing new skills and mindset.Building a strong team involves finding individuals who align with the company's values and focusing on their strengths.Celebrating team wins and taking responsibility for failures are essential for creating a positive company culture.Leadership is a continuous learning journey, and mistakes should be seen as opportunities for growth.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
Trailblazing Approach to Scuba Education and the Quest for Excellence
Feb 8 2024
Trailblazing Approach to Scuba Education and the Quest for Excellence
Send us a Text Message.Join us on a captivating journey with Jeff Seckendorf, a master athlete and innovator in scuba diving education, as we discuss his unique approach to transforming the way we think about underwater exploration. Dive into a rigorous training philosophy that mirrors Jeff's discipline as a master cyclist as he elucidates the power of process over certification, shedding light on how dedication to the craft can surpass the allure of mere outcomes. This episode promises to reveal the methodology behind Jeff's company, Unified Team Diving, and his anticipation for setting a new world record, showcasing the synergy between athletic prowess and impactful community engagement.We dive into the transformative nature of storytelling in teaching and how lessons from sports discipline can permeate every facet of life, offering a blueprint for personal and professional enhancement. As we wrap up, we take a moment to reflect on finding joy in the balance between striving for results and appreciating the journey. Discover how celebrating even minor victories can fuel our drive for purpose and how engaging with our communities through shared experiences can lead to extraordinary accomplishments. We'll leave you inspired by Jeff's upcoming projects and the ripple effect of positivity that extends from individual achievements to global initiatives. So, whether you're a scuba enthusiast or simply seeking inspiration for an extraordinary life, this episode is your gateway to a world of profound insights and stories of purpose.TakeawaysCoaching in scuba diving should focus on training and becoming better rather than just getting certified.Enjoying the process is essential to achieving success and finding purpose in various areas of life. Skills and values learned through sports and storytelling can provide a comprehensive framework for enhancing one's life.Finding purpose in helping others can bring satisfaction and a sense of success.The Institute of Purpose provides a platform for people to share their stories of finding purpose in their lives. Training preferences vary among individuals, with some finding meditation and focus in silence, while others enjoy music for motivation.Books have the power to profoundly impact our lives and provide valuable insights and lessons.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
The Epic Collaboration of A Hip Hop Artist & Graphic Designer
Feb 1 2024
The Epic Collaboration of A Hip Hop Artist & Graphic Designer
Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered how a hip-hop artist and a bedtime storyteller might change the world? Tim Blessed and illustrator Michael LaRiccia join us to unravel the making of "Planeta Blue Rise of Agoo," a graphic novel represented by Dark Horse Comics, the fourth most prominent comic book publishing company. Through their collaboration, the artists address urgent global issues, infusing a captivating visual story that engages the youth and underscores our shared duty to protect the Earth.Our dialogue takes a behind-the-scenes look at the highs and lows of artistic collaboration, shedding light on what it takes to chase a dream without the promise of immediate rewards. Tim and Michael's journey through creative self-doubt and networking challenges paints a vivid picture of the resilience required in the unpredictable realm of graphic storytelling. Their experiences underscore a crucial narrative: that every setback is a stepping stone to eventual triumph.As we wrap up, the conversation flows into the personal triumphs and connections formed through their craft. From the electrifying atmosphere of comic conventions to the heartwarming moments when their message resonates with readers, Tim and Michael's reflections offer a window into the soul-enriching path of content creation. Their diverse artistic and musical influences echo throughout our discussion, leaving you with a rich tapestry of inspiration to draw from. Join us for an episode that celebrates the power of storytelling, the beauty of creative partnerships, and their indelible impact on creators and the world.TakeawaysCollaboration between individuals with different skill sets can lead to the creation of a captivating and meaningful project.Success is defined by personal happiness, meeting core needs, and achieving realistic goals.The most enjoyable aspects of creative work include seeing ideas come to life, connecting with audiences, and making a positive impact.Being flexible and adaptable is crucial when facing challenges and navigating unexpected circumstances.Having a supportive network and being patient with the creative process is key to achieving long-term goals. The book is available for purchase on various platforms, including PlanetaBlu.com.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
Discovering Purpose: How Teen Substance Abuse Shaped a Mother's Journey
Jan 24 2024
Discovering Purpose: How Teen Substance Abuse Shaped a Mother's Journey
Send us a Text Message.Have you ever wondered if the trials you've faced could be the very thing that unlocks your destiny? We're joined by the indomitable Marsha Vanwynsberghe, whose own crucible of overcoming teen substance abuse transformed her into a storytelling sage. This episode is a deep dive into the resilience of the human spirit and how sharing our rawest moments can forge connections that light the way for others. Marsha's journey from adversity to a multifaceted career as an author, speaker, and business coach is not just inspiring—it's a masterclass in turning pain into purpose.Navigating life's tumultuous transitions, especially in the face of a global crisis, is a theme we explore with heartfelt honesty. Marsha's pivot during the pandemic is a testament to the power of seizing the unforeseen as an opportunity for growth and service. She recounts the profound realization that came from opening up about her family's battle with substance abuse, and how this vulnerability was a key that unlocked a network of support and community. It's a conversation that celebrates the courage it takes to be vulnerable and the unexpected gifts that come from sharing our stories.Wrapping up, Marsha imparts wisdom gleaned from her entrepreneurial leap, offering a fresh lens through which to view success. She proffers the idea that true achievement means thriving in business without sacrificing the essence of who we are—our health and our relationships. Marsha doesn't just talk the talk; she walks it, sharing how her morning routine and favorite reads contribute to a well-rounded approach to life. This episode is a beacon for anyone looking to navigate their own path with integrity and passion, proving that sometimes the most profound lessons come dressed as our darkest moments.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
Resonating Resilience: Inside the Life of an Electric Violin Virtuoso
Jan 18 2024
Resonating Resilience: Inside the Life of an Electric Violin Virtuoso
Send us a Text Message.Embark on a sonic adventure with the effervescent Asher Laub, an electric violinist whose strings resonate with the rhythm of resilience and passion. I had the pleasure of conversing with a maestro who has danced with adversity and emerged a virtuoso of life's unpredictable symphony. Asher's tale is not merely about the melodies he creates but about the relentless spirit that defines his every note. His journey from career pivots to conquering health obstacles sings a ballad of determination that will inspire anyone searching for joy in their endeavors.As Asher Lobb plucks at the heartstrings with his electric violin, he also plucks at the realities of an independent artist's life. We shared laughs and earnest reflections on how he weaves his musical prowess into the fabric of his existence. Asher's candidness about the balancing act of touring, family commitments, and exciting projects like his Bollywood venture imparts a real-world look at a music entrepreneur's creative and logistical dance. He offers a window into an artist's soul - from the euphoric highs of connecting with fans to the orchestration of a career that remains in harmony with personal values.To close our musical narrative, Asher and I exchanged notes on the symphony of life's lessons and the mentors who have guided our crescendos and decrescendos. We chuckled over the parallels between orchestrating a classroom and commanding a stage, recognizing that sharing knowledge is universal whether we're teaching or performing. Asher's invitation to experience his work extends beyond the airwaves, encouraging listeners to delve into his eclectic soundscape. Join us to witness an artist's journey and find the cadence in your own life's composition.TakeawaysFollow your passion and find joy in what you do.Transitioning to a career you love takes time and commitment.Connecting with fans and creating meaningful experiences is essential for success as an artist.Challenges and rejection are part of the journey, but perseverance is key.Self-discovery and evolving as an artist are ongoing processes.Having a mentor can provide guidance and support in your entrepreneurial journey.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
Embracing Transformation: Jay Staples' Authentic Journey from Addiction to Agency Founder
Jan 10 2024
Embracing Transformation: Jay Staples' Authentic Journey from Addiction to Agency Founder
Send us a Text Message.From battling the chains of addiction to pioneering Sober Caddy Creative Agency, Jay Staples' journey is nothing short of inspiring. Join me as we uncover the raw and transformative story behind Jay's rise to authenticity and the profound role that sobriety has played in his personal and professional evolution. This episode is a candid exploration of what it means to be authentic and live and create with genuine purpose.Do you know the true value of aligning your goals with your authentic self? We talk about the shift from rigid expectations to embracing what genuinely resonates with our lifestyles. We'll also tackle the high-stakes world of entrepreneurship, unearthing the critical importance of conducting an authenticity audit in our careers and the lessons learned from the leap of faith into the realm of business ownership.As we draw the curtains on this compelling episode, We discuss the emotional tide of navigating layoffs and the unexpected growth that emerges from facing fear with an open heart. It's a testament to the strength found in vulnerability and the deeper connections forged in the face of adversity. Jay Staples' story serves as a beacon, urging us all to embrace our inner dreamer and step boldly toward an extraordinary life. Stay tuned for our next journey into the lives of those who dare to live authentically.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.
Mastering Love Languages: Paul Zolman's Cube Method for Deeper Connections
Jan 3 2024
Mastering Love Languages: Paul Zolman's Cube Method for Deeper Connections
Send us a Text Message.Ever rolled the dice in the game of love? Let's switch up the odds together with Paul Zolman, best-selling author and the brilliant mind behind the cube-based method for expressing love languages. Our heart-to-heart with Paul is a rollercoaster through the emotional landscape where we unpack the significance of becoming adept 'love language linguists.' We're not just talking about love; we're redefining how to practice it daily. The dice we cast might just land you in a world where understanding and cherishing your partner’s love language transforms every interaction into a meaningful connection.Explore the significance of comprehending and actively engaging in all five love languages with Paul.  Delve into the impact of reciprocity within relationships as he candidly shares his personal journey of healing and self-discovery. Gain valuable advice on pursuing passion and entrepreneurship from Paul, whose structured and enjoyable approach to love languages effectively enhances communication and fortifies relationships. From the trials of entrepreneurship to the joy of aiding couples in their quest for better communication, we explore the creation of a tangible tool that's changing the game for lovers everywhere. This episode is a treasure trove of stories about love's power to spark growth, shake up our worlds, and lead us down paths we never expected - all with a sprinkle of Paul's transformative touch. Join us on this enchanting voyage where affection meets innovation, and where every listener is a step closer to mastering the art of love.TakeawaysUnderstanding and practicing all five love languages is vital for effective communication and building solid relationships.Reciprocity in relationships should not be transactional, but rather a genuine expression of love without expectation.Finding a replacement behavior for negative emotions, such as anger, can lead to personal growth and healing.When pursuing a passion or starting a business, organizing ideas, taking responsibility for your actions, and focusing on serving others are essential.These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.